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Lola

People were saying in her thread that the personality of many average looking gals was much better then the attractive ones...
so, describe the perfect (or preferred) personality of the opposite sex.
what is attractive to you? upbeat and happy? honest and realistic?
why do those things truly appeal to you?
 
Skunkwourk

Skunkwourk

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ok aside from what DainBramaged said, a combination of gentle/kind and smart/witty...

EDIT: how could I forget, a sense of humor is a must...
 
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DAGTA

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Originally posted by: LolaWiz
People were saying in her thread that the personality of many average looking gals was much better then the attractive ones...
so, describe the perfect (or preferred) personality of the opposite sex.
what is attractive to you? upbeat and happy? honest and realistic?
why do those things truly appeal to you?
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Honest. Lying is the #1 turn-off for me
Non-gold digger. Finding a woman that truly does not allow money to influence her is very rare.
Compassionate. A woman who helps people just for the sake of helping people is attractive.
Light hearted. People like this are just fun to be around.
Average intelligence or greater.
Loyal. Non-cheater... never ever.
 
PingSpike

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Doesn't believe she is a princess. Nerdy. Loyal, honest. Intelligent. Open-minded.
 
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DAGTA

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Originally posted by: PingSpike
Doesn't believe she is a princess. Nerdy. Loyal, honest. Intelligent. Open-minded.
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"princess" is one of my clue words. Any woman that refers to herself as a princess or has the word princess in any of her email or IM names raises a huge red flag in my mind. The USA is not a kingdom, there are no princesses here and that mindset is just saying, "I'm a spoiled brat that is detached from reality and expects men to worship me."
 
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Lola

Originally posted by: DAGTA
Originally posted by: PingSpike
Doesn't believe she is a princess. Nerdy. Loyal, honest. Intelligent. Open-minded.
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"princess" is one of my clue words. Any woman that refers to herself as a princess or has the word princess in any of her email or IM names raises a huge red flag in my mind. The USA is not a kingdom, there are no princesses here and that mindset is just saying, "I'm a spoiled brat that is detached from reality and expects men to worship me."
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I have found that that word is in many more women's (not little girl) personalities now than before. I don't know why. Perhaps its the idea that men should bow down to the awesomeness that they *think* they are. :roll: i see it all the time and i would love to call them out on it. :|
 
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Honesty. Lying turns me off quick as well. On another level: not playing mind games. If you want something, come out and say it without the test.
Intelligent. Above average at least.
Light-Hearted: People who are too serious can be intellectually stimulating, but otherwise boring.
Loyal: Never cheats. I know I havn't.
A sense of humor (kinda falls under light-hearted)
Mature: No ditzes please.
Athletic (in shape), but not obsessed with sports or exercise.
Secure: An insecure person is a quick turn off. Anyone who will accept abuse willingly (without cause) is near the bottom of my list.
 
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DAGTA

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Originally posted by: LolaWiz
Originally posted by: DAGTA
Originally posted by: PingSpike
Doesn't believe she is a princess. Nerdy. Loyal, honest. Intelligent. Open-minded.
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"princess" is one of my clue words. Any woman that refers to herself as a princess or has the word princess in any of her email or IM names raises a huge red flag in my mind. The USA is not a kingdom, there are no princesses here and that mindset is just saying, "I'm a spoiled brat that is detached from reality and expects men to worship me."
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I have found that that word is in many more women's (not little girl) personalities now than before. I don't know why. Perhaps its the idea that men should bow down to the awesomeness that they *think* they are. :roll: i see it all the time and i would love to call them out on it. :|
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Please do! 'Modern' women aren't listening to men. We're considered beneath them now. Maybe they'd listen to another woman, though I think they'd just label you a "disgrace to women" for saying anything against them.
 
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MisterJackson

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Dependable (i.e. if you say you'll do something, do it)
Someone who knows when to show affection
Caring
Nurturing
Sexy (this can be described by so many other words, i.e. confident, playful)
Actually, playful deserves it's own mention
Smart (dumb chicks can only go so far in life and conversation)
Aware
Adaptable
Loyal
True, to herself and to you
 
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what i would like my girl to have

caring - not just about you and your family but of people in general.
politeness to people
broadminded
a little spiritual - meditation, yoga etc.
intelligent - to have good meaningful conversations
likes to exercise
shares some interests with me but has a lot more of her own


other qualities preferred but not required
good looking
kinky ;)
willing to try stuff
 
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ijester

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Intelligent, Loyal, and willing to put in the effort that a good long term relationship takes.
 
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Lola

those that are answering this, and others, do you possess the same things you are looking for? (be honest) :)
 
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DAGTA

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Originally posted by: LolaWiz
those that are answering this, and others, do you possess the same things you are looking for? (be honest) :)
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What I posted I prefer:

Honest. Lying is the #1 turn-off for me
Non-gold digger. Finding a woman that truly does not allow money to influence her is very rare.
Compassionate. A woman who helps people just for the sake of helping people is attractive.
Light hearted. People like this are just fun to be around.
Average intelligence or greater.
Loyal. Non-cheater... never ever.


As for me:
Yes, I am honest. I don't claim to have never lied, but I do claim to not lie frequently or have any desire to manipulate people.
Yes, I'm not a gold digger. I don't care how much money a girl has or doesn't have. In fact, I'd prefer not to know her financial situation at all until we're far enough into a relationship that she knows it won't matter.
Compassionate. I try to be.
Light Hearted. This area I need more work, but when I'm in a good mood.. yes
Average intelligence or greater. Yes, I have this.
Loyal. yes, I have never cheated. Not once.
 
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