depressed(girl related)

[Mark]

About 2 months ago(first day of class, Geograpy 2 here at the local college), I met this great girl. She's everything I could ever want in someone, beautiful, great personality, funny, overall great vibe to her. To be honest, the only time iv'e ever felt this way about someone was back in the 8th grade(that was a long time ago, first real crush), and I had never felt the same about anyone until I met this girl in my class. She and her friend would always talk to me in class and I would talk to her(just about everyday stuff). Because she did talk to me so much, I thought she might be interested in me so I was pretty happy at the time. At the time, I didn't want to ask her out because I didn't know too much about her(whether or not she was in a relationship) so my plan was to wait for her to bring up whether or not she was in a relationship or not. About 3 weeks ago, I guess she got bored in class and started writing little "Judy(her name) loves Brett" noted all over her notepad, so I was pretty down after I saw that, but she would continue to talk to me alot so I was thinking maybe I still have a shot at her(I was thinking maybe she was unhappy with her current bf because she would talk to me in class so much so I thought she was interested). Fast forward to today, teacher doesn't show up so all 3 of us(me, her, and her friend) decide to go to the cafeteria. They ask me if I have a gf, I say not right now, and tell them I just got out of a relationship 7 months(to give you an idea, I was with my ex for 3 years and I never once felt the same way I do for this girl now) ago because my ex-gf moved away. Then after that, the girl that I like uttered the 10 words I did not want to hear:



"Well, were going to have to find you someone then."




I feel like such an idiot now. I guess she just wanted to be "friends" all along. I have enough friends as it is, I'm not really looking to make anymore right now. The worst part of it is I'm in a group project with them so were gonna have to start working together soon. Since they don't like the class, I've decided I'm just gonna do the entire thing myself and slap thier names on it. I really don't want to talk to either of them anymore because the more I do, the more depressed about this whole thing I'm gonna get. This really sucks.

 

[DivideBYZero]

Move on.

 

[Lonyo]

Maybe let them help you find someone (better)?
Get a grip on yourself. 2 fvcking months.

 

[PowerMac4Ever]

Read WayneTek's posts. That'll make you feel better.

 

[Nitemare]

Paragraphs are your friend.

Your friend in Christ,
Nitemare

 

[Wahsapa]

three some :evil:

 

[ActuaryTm]

Material to read and understand thoroughly.

 

[deerslayer]

My name is Brett.

 

[PanzerIV]

I know it sucks that the girl you want is trying to hook you up with somebody else but hang in there. Two things could come out of it. She could find you somebody you really like or you move in for the kill if her b.f. does something stupid. Find out how long she's been dating, get a feel for how things are with them.

This isn't directed only at you but too many people need to grow a pair and start asking these girls directly instead of secretly dying inside over something so stupid. What is the worst that could happen if you told her you had feelings for her?? Embarassment? Maybe she likes you more than you think. Only you can find out. Maybe her friend can let you in on some details.

 

[Cable God]

Originally posted by: Mark
About 2 months ago(first day of class, Geograpy 2 here at the local college), I met this great girl. She's everything I could ever want in someone, beautiful, great personality, funny, overall great vibe to her. To be honest, the only time iv'e ever felt this way about someone was back in the 8th grade(that was a long time ago, first real crush), and I had never felt the same about anyone until I met this girl in my class. She and her friend would always talk to me in class and I would talk to her(just about everyday stuff). Because she did talk to me so much, I thought she might be interested in me so I was pretty happy at the time. At the time, I didn't want to ask her out because I didn't know too much about her(whether or not she was in a relationship) so my plan was to wait for her to bring up whether or not she was in a relationship or not. About 3 weeks ago, I guess she got bored in class and started writing little "Judy(her name) loves Brett" noted all over her notepad, so I was pretty down after I saw that, but she would continue to talk to me alot so I was thinking maybe I still have a shot at her(I was thinking maybe she was unhappy with her current bf because she would talk to me in class so much so I thought she was interested). Fast forward to today, teacher doesn't show up so all 3 of us(me, her, and her friend) decide to go to the cafeteria. They ask me if I have a gf, I say not right now, and tell them I just got out of a relationship 7 months(to give you an idea, I was with my ex for 3 years and I never once felt the same way I do for this girl now) ago because my ex-gf moved away. Then after that, the girl that I like uttered the 10 words I did not want to hear:



"Well, were going to have to find you someone then."




I feel like such an idiot now. I guess she just wanted to be "friends" all along. I have enough friends as it is, I'm not really looking to make anymore right now. The worst part of it is I'm in a group project with them so were gonna have to start working together soon. Since they don't like the class, I've decided I'm just gonna do the entire thing myself and slap thier names on it. I really don't want to talk to either of them anymore because the more I do, the more depressed about this whole thing I'm gonna get. This really sucks.

Do it with style, and tell her the truth, that you cannot be friends with a woman that you are so heavily attracted to.

 

[George P Burdell]

Have a :beer:, be a man and deal with it.

 

[Schadenfroh]

1. Gives up women and increases time on his hands
2. ..........
3. Profit

 

[Sex Smurf]

I'm glad to see that you wrote " I have enough friends as it is, I'm not really looking to make anymore right now." (you were referring to girls, right?) So that's a step in the right direction. You're in college now, so there is no reason for you to be 'looking' for a girlfriend. You should view your college as a smorgasbord of women! Little taste here, little taste there, until you find out what you like, or you just get full. You'll be much happier to not have the added responsibility of a relationship and can focus on your studies. After you graduate and land that great job, THEN you should look to find someone.

 

[SurgicalShark]

Originally posted by: Wahsapa
three some :evil:

rules!

 

[K1052]

Originally posted by: Nitemare
Photographs are your friend.

Your friend in Christ,
Nitemare

fixed

 

[MartyMcFly3]

"A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired."

 

[n0cmonkey]

You've got a lifetime. Use it as you wish, but it's a lot more fun to spend the time living.

 

[Mark]

It sucks cause I have no idea what to do here. I'm not really asking you guys questions, I guess I'm just ranting. It's easy to say move on, but I don't want to wait another 10 years to feel the same way(if I ever do again) about someone. And it's hard to tell her how I feel because her best friend is always in the way. It's not like I can exactly tell her friend, "Hey bitch get lost I wanna talk to your friend in private for a second". Not only that but if I told her now, it would be pretty ackward for the rest of the semester for all of us since I have no idea what her response would be. And letting her friends hook me up with someone else would be like someone throwing dirt in my face. I really don't want to be on a date with a stranger I don't know while the one I'm really interested in is goin out with someone else. Even if I did tell, and she left her current bf to be with me, what does that say about her? How would I know the same thing wouldn't happen to me? I know I sound like a pussy, but I just can't get this off my mind.

 

[Kaido]

suck it up and tell her how you feel. she won't know if you don't tell her. you're not going to feel like you're feeling everyday...like eminem says, you've only got one chance, one opportunity...don't blow it otherwise you'll be 10 years down the road and look back and wish you'd said something.

 

[n0cmonkey]

You have a crush. It's no big deal. You don't know a lot about this chick. Just keep busy.

 

[UncleWai]

Originally posted by: cablegod

Originally posted by: Mark
About 2 months ago(first day of class, Geograpy 2 here at the local college), I met this great girl. She's everything I could ever want in someone, beautiful, great personality, funny, overall great vibe to her. To be honest, the only time iv'e ever felt this way about someone was back in the 8th grade(that was a long time ago, first real crush), and I had never felt the same about anyone until I met this girl in my class. She and her friend would always talk to me in class and I would talk to her(just about everyday stuff). Because she did talk to me so much, I thought she might be interested in me so I was pretty happy at the time. At the time, I didn't want to ask her out because I didn't know too much about her(whether or not she was in a relationship) so my plan was to wait for her to bring up whether or not she was in a relationship or not. About 3 weeks ago, I guess she got bored in class and started writing little "Judy(her name) loves Brett" noted all over her notepad, so I was pretty down after I saw that, but she would continue to talk to me alot so I was thinking maybe I still have a shot at her(I was thinking maybe she was unhappy with her current bf because she would talk to me in class so much so I thought she was interested). Fast forward to today, teacher doesn't show up so all 3 of us(me, her, and her friend) decide to go to the cafeteria. They ask me if I have a gf, I say not right now, and tell them I just got out of a relationship 7 months(to give you an idea, I was with my ex for 3 years and I never once felt the same way I do for this girl now) ago because my ex-gf moved away. Then after that, the girl that I like uttered the 10 words I did not want to hear:



"Well, were going to have to find you someone then."




I feel like such an idiot now. I guess she just wanted to be "friends" all along. I have enough friends as it is, I'm not really looking to make anymore right now. The worst part of it is I'm in a group project with them so were gonna have to start working together soon. Since they don't like the class, I've decided I'm just gonna do the entire thing myself and slap thier names on it. I really don't want to talk to either of them anymore because the more I do, the more depressed about this whole thing I'm gonna get. This really sucks.

Do it with style, and tell her the truth, that you cannot be friends with a woman that you are so heavily attracted to.

Yeah do that, that's what I did.
Took a little over half a year to get over it.

 

[Sex Smurf]

7 months ago you were in a 3 year relationship. that would date back to high school. . .

you were first in love in 8th grade. . .

Boy, you need more dating experience. Stop rushing into relationships!

 

[MartyMcFly3]

Originally posted by: Kaido
suck it up and tell her how you feel. she won't know if you don't tell her. you're not going to feel like you're feeling everyday...like eminem says, you've only got one chance, one opportunity...don't blow it otherwise you'll be 10 years down the road and look back and wish you'd said something.

:laugh:
Sorry i just had to laugh when i saw dating advice mixed with Eminem.

 

[PanzerIV]

Originally posted by: Kaido
suck it up and tell her how you feel. she won't know if you don't tell her. you're not going to feel like you're feeling everyday...like eminem says, you've only got one chance, one opportunity...don't blow it otherwise you'll be 10 years down the road and look back and wish you'd said something.

:thumbsup:

 

[MazerRackham]

Originally posted by: Schadenfroh
1. Gives up women and increases time on his hands
2. ..........
3. Profit

ROFMAO... I needed this today Thanks!!

To the OP: dude, kick that chick to the curb yo!