Dear Abby

[sonz70]

Incestuous union fractures a family
DEAR ABBY
Universal Press Syndicate

Dear Abby:

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Q: My beautiful, intelligent 18-year-old daughter, "Lara," has just completed her first year of college. She's attending school out of state in the same city where her father, "Grant" ? my ex ? is living.

Abby, Grant left when Lara was 5 months old. He left us for his sister, with whom he had been having an affair, because she told him she was pregnant with his child.

The divorce was very hard on us, and my daughter has been in counseling for years ? including at the college.

Lara spends her holidays with her father, her aunt and their two children.

She's aware of the incestuous relationship and vents a lot of anger at me for the rough time we've had.

In the past, Lara's therapists have told me she directs her anger at me because "she can't get angry at the person she should really be angry at ? her father."

My daughter refuses to tell her current therapist about the incestuous relationship because she's afraid it will be reported to the authorities and the children will be taken away. The sister bought Lara a car and a cell phone, and pays the phone bill, car insurance and some of Lara's other expenses.

I suspect the thought of losing the car and cell phone have something to do with my daughter's hesitation to level with her therapist.

How can I get Lara to stop abusing me because of her repressed anger at her father?

LOVING MOTHER in Alabama

http://www.chron.com/cs/CDA/ssistory.mpl/headline/features/3266910


This deserves a WTF

 

[Sluggo]

Originally posted by: sonz70

Incestuous union fractures a family
DEAR ABBY
Universal Press Syndicate

Dear Abby:

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Q: My beautiful, intelligent 18-year-old daughter, "Lara," has just completed her first year of college. She's attending school out of state in the same city where her father, "Grant" ? my ex ? is living.

Abby, Grant left when Lara was 5 months old. He left us for his sister, with whom he had been having an affair, because she told him she was pregnant with his child.

The divorce was very hard on us, and my daughter has been in counseling for years ? including at the college.

Lara spends her holidays with her father, her aunt and their two children.

She's aware of the incestuous relationship and vents a lot of anger at me for the rough time we've had.

In the past, Lara's therapists have told me she directs her anger at me because "she can't get angry at the person she should really be angry at ? her father."

My daughter refuses to tell her current therapist about the incestuous relationship because she's afraid it will be reported to the authorities and the children will be taken away. The sister bought Lara a car and a cell phone, and pays the phone bill, car insurance and some of Lara's other expenses.

I suspect the thought of losing the car and cell phone have something to do with my daughter's hesitation to level with her therapist.

How can I get Lara to stop abusing me because of her repressed anger at her father?

LOVING MOTHER in Alabama

http://www.chron.com/cs/CDA/ssistory.mpl/headline/features/3266910


This deserves a WTF

You, of all people, are in no position to judge other people's sexual quirks.

 

[HermDogg]

It is alabama...

(WTF were you doing in P&N anyway?)

 

[Cobalt]

Originally posted by: Sluggo

Originally posted by: sonz70

Incestuous union fractures a family
DEAR ABBY
Universal Press Syndicate

Dear Abby:

ADVERTISEMENT

Q: My beautiful, intelligent 18-year-old daughter, "Lara," has just completed her first year of college. She's attending school out of state in the same city where her father, "Grant" ? my ex ? is living.

Abby, Grant left when Lara was 5 months old. He left us for his sister, with whom he had been having an affair, because she told him she was pregnant with his child.

The divorce was very hard on us, and my daughter has been in counseling for years ? including at the college.

Lara spends her holidays with her father, her aunt and their two children.

She's aware of the incestuous relationship and vents a lot of anger at me for the rough time we've had.

In the past, Lara's therapists have told me she directs her anger at me because "she can't get angry at the person she should really be angry at ? her father."

My daughter refuses to tell her current therapist about the incestuous relationship because she's afraid it will be reported to the authorities and the children will be taken away. The sister bought Lara a car and a cell phone, and pays the phone bill, car insurance and some of Lara's other expenses.

I suspect the thought of losing the car and cell phone have something to do with my daughter's hesitation to level with her therapist.

How can I get Lara to stop abusing me because of her repressed anger at her father?

LOVING MOTHER in Alabama

http://www.chron.com/cs/CDA/ssistory.mpl/headline/features/3266910


This deserves a WTF

You, of all people, are in no position to judge other people's sexual quirks.

Owned.

 

[sonz70]

Originally posted by: HermDogg
It is alabama...

(WTF were you doing in P&N anyway?)

*hangs head in shame* reading the china threads... I don't respond though, I swear

 

[Forsythe]

Originally posted by: HermDogg
It is alabama...

(WTF were you doing in P&N anyway?)

Discussing politics?

 

[AnyMal]

Originally posted by: Sluggo

Originally posted by: sonz70

Incestuous union fractures a family
DEAR ABBY
Universal Press Syndicate

Dear Abby:

ADVERTISEMENT

Q: My beautiful, intelligent 18-year-old daughter, "Lara," has just completed her first year of college. She's attending school out of state in the same city where her father, "Grant" ? my ex ? is living.

Abby, Grant left when Lara was 5 months old. He left us for his sister, with whom he had been having an affair, because she told him she was pregnant with his child.

The divorce was very hard on us, and my daughter has been in counseling for years ? including at the college.

Lara spends her holidays with her father, her aunt and their two children.

She's aware of the incestuous relationship and vents a lot of anger at me for the rough time we've had.

In the past, Lara's therapists have told me she directs her anger at me because "she can't get angry at the person she should really be angry at ? her father."

My daughter refuses to tell her current therapist about the incestuous relationship because she's afraid it will be reported to the authorities and the children will be taken away. The sister bought Lara a car and a cell phone, and pays the phone bill, car insurance and some of Lara's other expenses.

I suspect the thought of losing the car and cell phone have something to do with my daughter's hesitation to level with her therapist.

How can I get Lara to stop abusing me because of her repressed anger at her father?

LOVING MOTHER in Alabama

http://www.chron.com/cs/CDA/ssistory.mpl/headline/features/3266910


This deserves a WTF

You, of all people, are in no position to judge other people's sexual quirks.

:thumbsup::laugh:

 

[sonz70]

Originally posted by: Sluggo

Originally posted by: sonz70

Incestuous union fractures a family
DEAR ABBY
Universal Press Syndicate

Dear Abby:

ADVERTISEMENT

Q: My beautiful, intelligent 18-year-old daughter, "Lara," has just completed her first year of college. She's attending school out of state in the same city where her father, "Grant" ? my ex ? is living.

Abby, Grant left when Lara was 5 months old. He left us for his sister, with whom he had been having an affair, because she told him she was pregnant with his child.

The divorce was very hard on us, and my daughter has been in counseling for years ? including at the college.

Lara spends her holidays with her father, her aunt and their two children.

She's aware of the incestuous relationship and vents a lot of anger at me for the rough time we've had.

In the past, Lara's therapists have told me she directs her anger at me because "she can't get angry at the person she should really be angry at ? her father."

My daughter refuses to tell her current therapist about the incestuous relationship because she's afraid it will be reported to the authorities and the children will be taken away. The sister bought Lara a car and a cell phone, and pays the phone bill, car insurance and some of Lara's other expenses.

I suspect the thought of losing the car and cell phone have something to do with my daughter's hesitation to level with her therapist.

How can I get Lara to stop abusing me because of her repressed anger at her father?

LOVING MOTHER in Alabama

http://www.chron.com/cs/CDA/ssistory.mpl/headline/features/3266910


This deserves a WTF

You, of all people, are in no position to judge other people's sexual quirks.

Sexual quirks, I have no problem is, when you bring children into it like they did. Than there is a problem. Perhaps read the whole article and don't just see it's a sexual quirk, they also have children in this situation.

 

[HermDogg]

Originally posted by: Forsythe

Originally posted by: HermDogg
It is alabama...

(WTF were you doing in P&N anyway?)

Discussing politics?

A discussion? In P&N?

 

[Forsythe]

Originally posted by: HermDogg

Originally posted by: Forsythe

Originally posted by: HermDogg
It is alabama...

(WTF were you doing in P&N anyway?)

Discussing politics?

A discussion? In P&N?

Well, argument.
Psychologists believe that it's harmfull to live in a society where you are afraid tto become angry, and where you avoid confrontation. In P&N you become upset, shout (caps) at people, ignore what they're saying, and get even more exited no matter what they say.

 

[effee]

Ewww....just ew.