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sonoma1993

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DEAR ABBY: I recently met a gorgeous woman I'll call "Giselle." After we had dated for a couple of months and became physically involved, she told me she had had gender reassignment surgery and used to be a man! I was, to say the least, shocked and deeply disturbed.

I did not punch out Giselle as I would have liked to -- which brings me to my question. What is the etiquette regarding physically confronting someone like that? Is it the same as hitting a girl? We're roughly the same size. -- DISTRESSED IN VIRGINIA

DEAR DISTRESSED: Because Giselle is now a female, it would, indeed, have been the same as hitting a girl, and I'm glad you restrained yourself. I have a feeling that she was probably more hurt that you stopped seeing her than any physical blow you might have inflicted. As to the "etiquette" regarding hitting her, if you hit someone of either gender, it is assault and battery -- or possibly worse -- and it's a crime that can land you in jail. Be glad you controlled your temper.


Hell if i was dating a women that acctully turn out to be a sex chnage man. I would beat the crap out of the dude. And then i would need to see a shrink for the rest of my life. I would be tramuatize.
 
Originally posted by: AnyMal
How could this guy be so stupid? I've never seen a chick with an "adam's apple" 😕
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You'd be amazed at what surgery can do these days. Ever hear of shaving the adam's apple?
 
Originally posted by: BigJ
Originally posted by: AnyMal
How could this guy be so stupid? I've never seen a chick with an "adam's apple" 😕
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You'd be amazed at what surgery can do these days. Ever hear of shaving the adam's apple?
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No :shocked:
 
Originally posted by: BigJ
Originally posted by: AnyMal
Originally posted by: BigJ
Originally posted by: AnyMal
How could this guy be so stupid? I've never seen a chick with an "adam's apple" 😕
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You'd be amazed at what surgery can do these days. Ever hear of shaving the adam's apple?
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No :shocked:
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http://www.answers.com/topic/chondrolaryngoplasty
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Holytransvestitesh!trichardsimmons! It's a good thing I'm off the dating scene, marriage has its benefits after all :laugh:
 
Originally posted by: AnyMal
Originally posted by: BigJ
Originally posted by: AnyMal
How could this guy be so stupid? I've never seen a chick with an "adam's apple" 😕
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You'd be amazed at what surgery can do these days. Ever hear of shaving the adam's apple?
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No :shocked:
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:shocked: :shocked: :shocked: :shocked: :shocked:
 
Originally posted by: sonoma1993
DEAR ABBY: I recently met a gorgeous woman I'll call "Giselle." After we had dated for a couple of months and became physically involved, she told me she had had gender reassignment surgery and used to be a man! I was, to say the least, shocked and deeply disturbed.

I did not punch out Giselle as I would have liked to -- which brings me to my question. What is the etiquette regarding physically confronting someone like that? Is it the same as hitting a girl? We're roughly the same size. -- DISTRESSED IN VIRGINIA

DEAR DISTRESSED: Because Giselle is now a female, it would, indeed, have been the same as hitting a girl, and I'm glad you restrained yourself. I have a feeling that she was probably more hurt that you stopped seeing her than any physical blow you might have inflicted. As to the "etiquette" regarding hitting her, if you hit someone of either gender, it is assault and battery -- or possibly worse -- and it's a crime that can land you in jail. Be glad you controlled your temper.


Hell if i was dating a women that acctully turn out to be a sex chnage man. I would beat the crap out of the dude. And then i would need to see a shrink for the rest of my life. I would be tramuatize.
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pwned

 
Tula managed to fool the people that made the Bond movie "For Your Eyes Only" along with Playboy and everyone else when that movie was released.

She was cast in the 1981 James Bond movie "For Your Eyes Only", credited only as "Girl At Pool". Major scandal erupted following the release of "For Your Eyes Only" when she was outed as a transsexual by the Sunday tabloid, "The News Of The World".
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Forget his/her name but a teen from around this way who was gay guy pretended to be a female. Well a bunch of dudes who had gotten oral from him and assfvcked him while never knowing she was really a he found out one night.

They proceeded to kill him in a rage and bury his body up near Tahoe.

The 3-4 guys are serving 15+ yr sentences. I felt they deserved manslughter and 3-5yrs.


 
Originally posted by: Fmr12B
Forget his/her name but a teen from around this way who was gay guy pretended to be a female. Well a bunch of dudes who had gotten oral from him and assfvcked him while never knowing she was really a he found out one night.

They proceeded to kill him in a rage and bury his body up near Tahoe.

The 3-4 guys are serving 15+ yr sentences. I felt they deserved manslughter and 3-5yrs.
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flamebait -1
 
Originally posted by: Linflas
Tula managed to fool the people that made the Bond movie "For Your Eyes Only" along with Playboy and everyone else when that movie was released.

She was cast in the 1981 James Bond movie "For Your Eyes Only", credited only as "Girl At Pool". Major scandal erupted following the release of "For Your Eyes Only" when she was outed as a transsexual by the Sunday tabloid, "The News Of The World".
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Front, far left. It's a man, baby!
 
Originally posted by: Fmr12B
Forget his/her name but a teen from around this way who was gay guy pretended to be a female. Well a bunch of dudes who had gotten oral from him and assfvcked him while never knowing she was really a he found out one night.

They proceeded to kill him in a rage and bury his body up near Tahoe.

The 3-4 guys are serving 15+ yr sentences. I felt they deserved manslughter and 3-5yrs.
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It's a good thing jury felt otherwise :roll: No amount of embarassment over a silly drunken BJ can justify a heinous crime like a murder.
 
Originally posted by: sonoma1993
DEAR ABBY: I recently met a gorgeous woman I'll call "Giselle." After we had dated for a couple of months and became physically involved, she told me she had had gender reassignment surgery and used to be a man! I was, to say the least, shocked and deeply disturbed.

I did not punch out Giselle as I would have liked to -- which brings me to my question. What is the etiquette regarding physically confronting someone like that? Is it the same as hitting a girl? We're roughly the same size. -- DISTRESSED IN VIRGINIA

DEAR DISTRESSED: Because Giselle is now a female, it would, indeed, have been the same as hitting a girl, and I'm glad you restrained yourself. I have a feeling that she was probably more hurt that you stopped seeing her than any physical blow you might have inflicted. As to the "etiquette" regarding hitting her, if you hit someone of either gender, it is assault and battery -- or possibly worse -- and it's a crime that can land you in jail. Be glad you controlled your temper.


Hell if i was dating a women that acctully turn out to be a sex chnage man. I would beat the crap out of the dude. And then i would need to see a shrink for the rest of my life. I would be tramuatize.
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You would be what?
 
I can tell if they're post-op trannies by looking at the vagina. It's actually not too difficult, unless they have a truly AMAZING plastic surgeon. Unless the surgeon did a job worthy of a Nobel prize, it will never look much like a real vagina.
 
Originally posted by: jonessoda
I can tell if they're post-op trannies by looking at the vagina. It's actually not too difficult, unless they have a truly AMAZING plastic surgeon. Unless the surgeon did a job worthy of a Nobel prize, it will never look much like a real vagina.
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Umm...how many times has this actually happened to you?
 
If that happened to me, I'm not sure what I would do. As Lil' Jimmy Norton says, "They don't give you your momeny back. That's why my motto is 'Toughen up and finish!'"
 
Originally posted by: AnyMal
Originally posted by: BigJ
Originally posted by: AnyMal
Originally posted by: BigJ
Originally posted by: AnyMal
How could this guy be so stupid? I've never seen a chick with an "adam's apple" 😕
Click to expand...

You'd be amazed at what surgery can do these days. Ever hear of shaving the adam's apple?
Click to expand...

No :shocked:
Click to expand...

http://www.answers.com/topic/chondrolaryngoplasty
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Holytransvestitesh!trichardsimmons! It's a good thing I'm off the dating scene, marriage has its benefits after all :laugh:
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😀
 
Originally posted by: AnyMal
Originally posted by: Fmr12B
Forget his/her name but a teen from around this way who was gay guy pretended to be a female. Well a bunch of dudes who had gotten oral from him and assfvcked him while never knowing she was really a he found out one night.

They proceeded to kill him in a rage and bury his body up near Tahoe.

The 3-4 guys are serving 15+ yr sentences. I felt they deserved manslughter and 3-5yrs.
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It's a good thing jury felt otherwise :roll: No amount of embarassment over a silly drunken BJ can justify a heinous crime like a murder.
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QFT
 
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