THE OP IS BACK!
To answer some questions.
My background:
I currently weigh 230 pounds at age 35. My goal is to weigh 200 pounds and be mostly muscle by mid-April. This is 100% attainable so long as I don't cheat on my diet to much. I've done it before many times granted I am a bit older now.
Time constraints:
I am married with two kids. Trust me if you don't have kids, they take time out of your day. I simply can not go to the gym every day. We are members at the YMCA though so I could justify going there 2 days a week to do legs (squats, etc).
Home:
I have weights and a bench at home. About 200-250 pounds in free weights. I can do everything upper body at home
Past weight regime:
In the past, I used to do full body lifting with more targeted exercises on day one. I would literally do my whole body with about 15 exercises. On day two, I'd run a for 15-30 minutes. And repeat.
Current plan:
Goal build muscle.
3 day rotation. Day one, upper body w/ 4 exercises that are macro instead of micro. Day two, lower body ... again macro with slight variations. Day 3, cardio. Repeat.
All exercises are targeting 3 iterations of 6-7 reps. Each iteration to failure (can barely do the last one). The idea is to get this done in 30-40 minutes.
More specifically:
DAY 1 (UPPER BODY):
1) bench press or 5-10 degree incline press (rotate every other upper body day just to get slight variation in targeted muscles)
2) military press
3) concentration curls. (targeted, I know but I need ot target the bicep)
4) lat pull downs (granted I might have to do this at a gym). My setup is capped at like 100 pounds for safety which is not enough.
DAY 2 (LOWER BODY)
1) Standing Toe Raises
2) Dead Lift
3) leg curls (dead lift can get this done but not till I can go higher with the weights)
4) sit-ups.
DAY 3:
Cardio
HELP!
So, having said all this .... What would you do if you can only go to the gym 2 days a week and regardless of location you want to spend 30 minutes working out? If I have to mix upper body and lower body that is fine but not preferable.
As time passes, I would be willing to add a few more exercises to each day but for now I want to start here. After 20 days, I have dropped a few pounds and have noticed my strength improving. Even though I only lost a few pounds, I have noticed that my clothes (thighs area especially) are a bit thinner.
HAND STRENGTH:
Yes, I have always had some issue with hand strength. I know that my hands will get stronger. The fact that I could probably pick up 250 pounds means little if my hands only let me do one rep. My hand strength does not improve much over time. It's just how my body works.
WISDOM:
The idiot that wins an argument on the internet is still an idiot.