it depends on the board
if you read the roundup on anandtechs main page the abit kr7a is stable with all 4 dimms populated with ddr ram (unbuffered/non parity)
** they acutally tested how many sticks each board could hold and stay stable (most boards only have 3 dimms slots, and most of them could use all 3 at once, all of them are using unbuffered/non parity ram)