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Everyone should have to pull a tour of duty in the military. At 18 I entered the Infantry (yes...a "grunt"
and began 4 years of learning how much the body and mind can take. There were times in the field where we were out for several weeks straight, usually getting no more than about 4 hours straight sleep and whatever 5 minute cat naps we could steal during the day. In the winter we were basically outside the entire time... freezing cold and often with only one meal per day. It all taught me something though, I could do a LOT more than I thought I could.
I realized when I got out that no civilian job would be hard in comparison because at the end of the day I would go home to a warm shower, food and a bed. If I wanted to quit, I wouldn't go to jail for desertion. A veritable cake-walk!
I spent the last year (Jan-Dec '99) converting a company from running on an antiquated WANG Mini (not YK2 upgradeable) to an NT/Unix/Novel environment (with a few Macs thrown in). I took two holidays off, Thanksgiving and Christmas... I worked all other holidays. I also took one week of vacation. For the most part, I missed very few days other than that. It wasn't unusual for me to work up to 100 hours per week and there were plenty of 16-20 hour days thrown into the mix. There were also a few stretches of 6-8 weeks staight without a day off and averaging 12-14 hours per day. BTW, I'm married with 4 kids, so I had "other" stresses in my life too.
I'm not telling you guys this to "brag", because I really don't think that I did anything that amazing. I am telling you because you can do a LOT more than you think you can, but if you start complaining at 10-12 hours per day for a week or two straight, you will have already hedged yourself in with negativity and although you may do very well in life, you may never actually acheive the heights you are actually capable of. One other side benefit is that if you work for a good company, your hard work will be noticed and rewarded.
I'm blessed to work for a really good comapnyl. For my dedication, I was given a $25,000 a year increase and given two extra weeks vacation per year. I also recieved something that no other person in management ever got, an "Employee of the Month" award.... management is inelligable, but they made a one time exception. Believe it or not, that little certificate and plaque meant a lot to me because it meant my work was noticed. Who knows what the exception will be for you when you really put your mind to it and ignore the hours and simply strive for excellence. I hope your hard work ends in praises and rewards that dwarf mine!
Joe
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