Dating When You're A Short Guy

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bennylong

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Originally posted by: bleeb
When in doubt, whip it out. Otherwise, compensate with cold hard cash.

You talking about whipping out the wallet or something else?
 

AbAbber2k

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The only thing short people need to work on is confidence. Most of the girls I date are my height or shorter (5'6" down), but there have been times when taller girls have shown obvious interest in me. And I can totally relate to some of the comments in this thread/article. I actually catch more flak about being short from girls who are very close to my height but slightly shorter (my last GF, who was 2" shorter than me, believed for like a year we were the same height :p). And I've been told more than once that if I was just a little taller I'd be "hot" instead of just "cute." :p Whatever, those bitches don't know what they're missing out on. :p
 
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SlitheryDee

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Originally posted by: dug777
Misses the farking obvious point that most women are shortarses :p

Should be relabled a guide for short guys who want to date tall chicks ;)

Even so, a LOT of short women STILL want to date TALL men.

yeah but any woman with an ounce of brains wants to date guys who are nice to her. A guy's height doesn't matter if he's an azz.


Seems like most women I've talked to agree with you in theory, but in practice it seems that they are all "taken" with the assholes. It's almost like it's beyond thier control...
 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: SlitheryDee
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Originally posted by: dug777
Misses the farking obvious point that most women are shortarses :p

Should be relabled a guide for short guys who want to date tall chicks ;)

Even so, a LOT of short women STILL want to date TALL men.

yeah but any woman with an ounce of brains wants to date guys who are nice to her. A guy's height doesn't matter if he's an azz.


Seems like most women I've talked to agree with you in theory, but in practice it seems that they are all "taken" with the assholes. It's almost like it's beyond thier control...

I disagree, my memory is a bit rusty but I think I've probably dated more short men than tall ones.

 

dr150

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I'm 6'4" and my experience shows that taller women definitely want to date tall guys.

I've never experienced that short women won't date guys their own height.


In the end, it's personality and confidence that works. These traits can overcome many biases (except if the guy is fat.....this can also be overcome if he's a wealthy celebrity like Jack Black or Philip Seymour Hoffman ;) ).
 

PingSpike

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Being tall is pretty much an advantage in every aspect of life. Attracting women being a big one. I'm just glad I managed to hit 5'9", considering my father is probably about 5'7" and my mom is 5'0".
 

dug777

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: ActuaryTm
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
please, my dating history reads like the cast from a Disney film

Snow Geek and the seven dwarfs :D
And Dumbo?

My husband is a physically fit, really good looking man with nicely chisled facial features and astonishingly blue eyes.

:swoons;

he kinda scares me actually... ;)
 

yhelothar

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I'm 5'6 and I was with a 6' chick before.
She refused to hug me when we were together though.. because she said she would feel like my mom.
 

EightySix Four

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Originally posted by: Stunt
Originally posted by: crazySOB297
I love being 6'5

6'1 here
Dated one girl taller than me...she didn't care.

I have too... interesting experience, she was only about an inch taller, maybe a little less... but first eye level I've ever dated.
 

Ricochet

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These kind of articles alway depresses me :(. They always talk about short 5'7" guys which is not that short for me. I'm at 5'4" myself.
 

sixone

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
please, my dating history reads like the cast from a Disney film

Snow Geek and the seven dwarfs :D

:laugh:

Mine does too. :(
 

BoomerD

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Heh-heh...I was short once upon a time...then I grew up...became a FULL GROWN man!
Seriously, I was 5-6 when I enlisted in the Marines. 4 yrs later, I was almost 5-10, nowdays, I'm about 6-1.
One thing about short guys and tall women...
Nose to nose, your toes are in it.
Toes to toes, your nose is in it...
:laugh:

To quote Randy Newmann:
:music:"Short people got no reason
Short people got no reason
Short people got no reason
To live

They got little hands
And little eyes
And they walk around
Tellin' great big lies
They got little noses
And tiny little teeth
They wear platform shoes
On their nasty little feet

Well, I don't want no short people
Don't want no short people
Don't want no short people
Round here

Short people are just the same
As you and I
(A fool such as I)
All men are brothers
Until the day they die
(It's a wonderful world)

Short people got nobody
Short people got nobody
Short people got nobody
To love

They got little baby legs
And they stand so low
You got to pick 'em up
Just to say hello
They got little cars
That got beep, beep, beep
They got little voices
Goin' peep, peep, peep
They got grubby little fingers
And dirty little minds
They're gonna get you every time
Well, I don't want no short people
Don't want no short people
Don't want no short people
'Round here " :music:
 

PhlashFoto

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I'll never find a woman for me at my height... I've given up completely of any and all hope. I've been turn down to many times due of the reason of my height.
 

her209

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Tall people who gain 10 lbs don't show as much as someone who is shorter.
 

AbAbber2k

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Originally posted by: her209
Tall people who gain 10 lbs don't show as much as someone who is shorter.

Yeah, kind of sucks for beanpoles. When I put on 10lbs of muscle it SHOWS. :D