Well I just wanna get anyone's and everyone's take on my current problem. My girlfriend Michelle whom I have been dating for 2 months turns out to be nothing but a liar. She'll even lie about small crap like seeing our boss at a resturant. The small lies that are many do not bother me as much as two major lies.
Lie #1. Fake ex-boyfriend
About 3 weeks into our relationship she tells me about her best friend Eric who is coming out here (CO) to live. Now she tells me he will be coming out on March 13. She then proceeds to my friend that this guy was her true love and the guy she will eventually marry. For some unkown reason he comes out two weeks early, but me nor my friend ever see him or a picture of him. Never even here him call her. Oh and when he gets out here he lives up in Aspen but of course he doesn't mind the 3 hour drive to Denver to see her everyday. People she says has talked with him have never talked with him. The other day a mutual friend of ours said that Michelle showed her a picture of Eric after having our friend explain the picture to me, I realize the picture is a picture of her friend Sean. My friend Dan asks her about the picture and she said she was confused and that she told her it was a picture of Sean but he also said she was pretty fumbly with the mouth when she was trying to explain. I go back and talk to the friend who saw the picture and she remembers exactly what she said "this is a picture of Eric". My friend even asked why she wouldn't show it to me to which she said "that's in the past". Now the guy is suposdly back in North Carolina with his Mom who got sick and stressed out because he and Michelle weren't getting together. Looking back on it she used this guy to make me jealous. Once while even talking about an apartment together she asked me if I would have a problem with this guy sleeping with her in her bed. Then she got all pissed when I said I would.
Lie #2 fake surgery
She said she was going in for a surgery something to do with down there. I figured that day she would be in bed all die. And the next day she would not even work. She told me her Doctor called and talked to our manager when I asked my manager about it she had no idea Michelle was having a surgery and never talked to a doctor. The day of the surgery she comes trapsing into work at 3:00 when the surgery was a 6:00 and took 3 hours. Oh and to top it off she had a new hair style and color. Must be a really nice hospital. She was aslo expericing no discomfor the fallowing night we went to a basketball game and she was moving around all over in her sit, jumping.
Looking at it all everything she has said has been to get her more attention I'm 90% certain her beloved Eric is fake and the same for the surgery being fake. My question is what do I do? I'm thinking on saying that I should bow out and that she should go be with Eric, but a part of me wants to confront her about it. So tell me what would any of you suggest?
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