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jiggahertz

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Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
quick update:

well her relationship with the her girlfriend seems to be on the rocks. I don't think I have anything to do with it though. Her girlfriend is in barbados with one of her 4 sugar daddys.

She cornered me into an exclusive relationship for the time being(she cant see other guys I can't see other girls). I'm gonna roll with it for now but I don't see it lasting very long. She lives far enough away and she doesn't have a car so it makes it so easy for me to do what i want anyways. I am going to see if she wants to go pick up some girls together tonight.

thats all for now.

I thought you can't see other girls?
 

mezrah

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Originally posted by: jiggahertz
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
quick update:

well her relationship with the her girlfriend seems to be on the rocks. I don't think I have anything to do with it though. Her girlfriend is in barbados with one of her 4 sugar daddys.

She cornered me into an exclusive relationship for the time being(she cant see other guys I can't see other girls). I'm gonna roll with it for now but I don't see it lasting very long. She lives far enough away and she doesn't have a car so it makes it so easy for me to do what i want anyways. I am going to see if she wants to go pick up some girls together tonight.

thats all for now.

I thought you can't see other girls?

Maybe they'll blindfold him
 

Chryso

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Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
She cornered me into an exclusive relationship for the time being(she cant see other guys I can't see other girls).

Ok, since you don't have a desire to date guys and she does have a desire to date girls this is not a fair arrangement. Either you can both see other people, regardless of their sex, or you can't.
 

Aikouka

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Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
... she doesn't have a car...

My newest resolution is that if a chick doesn't have a car/license and the reason for such isn't that she lives in a place with mass transport (i.e. large metro areas), I won't even touch that. Last thing I need is to dawn me suit and fancy hat to become a chauffeur.
 

zebano

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This reminds me of my brother in laws friend.. His in-laws had divorced and both remarried. The lady remarried to a woman. The poor sap has three mother in laws!!!
 

IceBergSLiM

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Originally posted by: Chryso
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
She cornered me into an exclusive relationship for the time being(she cant see other guys I can't see other girls).

Ok, since you don't have a desire to date guys and she does have a desire to date girls this is not a fair arrangement. Either you can both see other people, regardless of their sex, or you can't.

i dont mind her having a girlfriend though. It means i don't have to entertain her all the time
 

IceBergSLiM

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Originally posted by: Aikouka
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
... she doesn't have a car...

My newest resolution is that if a chick doesn't have a car/license and the reason for such isn't that she lives in a place with mass transport (i.e. large metro areas), I won't even touch that. Last thing I need is to dawn me suit and fancy hat to become a chauffeur.

yeah i don't drive her anywhere unless we are going out somewhere or she is coming over. She knows i don't have time for that crap.
 

Chryso

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Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: Chryso
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
She cornered me into an exclusive relationship for the time being(she cant see other guys I can't see other girls).

Ok, since you don't have a desire to date guys and she does have a desire to date girls this is not a fair arrangement. Either you can both see other people, regardless of their sex, or you can't.

i dont mind her having a girlfriend though. It means i don't have to entertain her all the time

That is true and the girlfriend is already established. I was really thinking about the fact that she is having problems with the girlfriend. From the way your situation seems to be phrased she can cheat on the girlfriend and it would not count as cheating on you.
 

Aikouka

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Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
yeah i don't drive her anywhere unless we are going out somewhere or she is coming over. She knows i don't have time for that crap.

Yeah I just want to avoid the possibility of it. I'm too much of a pushover and a little bit of whining can get me to cave in. My only defense is how lazy I can get or I drink a beer and say, "sorry, no drinking and driving" :p.
 
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I hope you're getting tested often there my friend.

I couldn't date a stripper the few times I was offered. My friend did though, and got the HEP...the gift that keeps on giving.
 

jiggahertz

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Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: Chryso
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
She cornered me into an exclusive relationship for the time being(she cant see other guys I can't see other girls).

Ok, since you don't have a desire to date guys and she does have a desire to date girls this is not a fair arrangement. Either you can both see other people, regardless of their sex, or you can't.

i dont mind her having a girlfriend though. It means i don't have to entertain her all the time

So then I take it you wouldn't mind her having another bf?
 

IceBergSLiM

Lifer
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Originally posted by: jiggahertz
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: Chryso
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
She cornered me into an exclusive relationship for the time being(she cant see other guys I can't see other girls).

Ok, since you don't have a desire to date guys and she does have a desire to date girls this is not a fair arrangement. Either you can both see other people, regardless of their sex, or you can't.

i dont mind her having a girlfriend though. It means i don't have to entertain her all the time

So then I take it you wouldn't mind her having another bf?

why would you draw that conclusion? Does your girlfriend stick her penis inside you?
 

jiggahertz

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Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: jiggahertz
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: Chryso
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
She cornered me into an exclusive relationship for the time being(she cant see other guys I can't see other girls).

Ok, since you don't have a desire to date guys and she does have a desire to date girls this is not a fair arrangement. Either you can both see other people, regardless of their sex, or you can't.

i dont mind her having a girlfriend though. It means i don't have to entertain her all the time

So then I take it you wouldn't mind her having another bf?

why would you draw that conclusion? Does your girlfriend stick her penis inside you?

:confused:

Looks like someone needs to grow up. This girl obviously has you by the balls. She can see other people, but you can't. Nice work.
 

crt1530

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Originally posted by: jiggahertz
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: jiggahertz
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: Chryso
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
She cornered me into an exclusive relationship for the time being(she cant see other guys I can't see other girls).

Ok, since you don't have a desire to date guys and she does have a desire to date girls this is not a fair arrangement. Either you can both see other people, regardless of their sex, or you can't.

i dont mind her having a girlfriend though. It means i don't have to entertain her all the time

So then I take it you wouldn't mind her having another bf?

why would you draw that conclusion? Does your girlfriend stick her penis inside you?

:confused:

Looks like someone needs to grow up. This girl obviously has you by the balls. She can see other people, but you can't. Nice work.
No need to criticize. The OP is presenting us with entertainment by providing regular updates. Just sit back and enjoy the ride.
 

IceBergSLiM

Lifer
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Originally posted by: jiggahertz
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: jiggahertz
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: Chryso
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
She cornered me into an exclusive relationship for the time being(she cant see other guys I can't see other girls).

Ok, since you don't have a desire to date guys and she does have a desire to date girls this is not a fair arrangement. Either you can both see other people, regardless of their sex, or you can't.

i dont mind her having a girlfriend though. It means i don't have to entertain her all the time

So then I take it you wouldn't mind her having another bf?

why would you draw that conclusion? Does your girlfriend stick her penis inside you?

:confused:

Looks like someone needs to grow up. This girl obviously has you by the balls. She can see other people, but you can't. Nice work.

I knew she had a girlfriend ahead of time. I am secure enough to not give a sh1t about something taht is more of a benefit to me than a threat.
 

Kev

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Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: jiggahertz
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: Chryso
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
She cornered me into an exclusive relationship for the time being(she cant see other guys I can't see other girls).

Ok, since you don't have a desire to date guys and she does have a desire to date girls this is not a fair arrangement. Either you can both see other people, regardless of their sex, or you can't.

i dont mind her having a girlfriend though. It means i don't have to entertain her all the time

So then I take it you wouldn't mind her having another bf?

why would you draw that conclusion? Does your girlfriend stick her penis inside you?

You just said her girlfriend has 4 other sugar daddies. So they pork her who then mixes it up with your gf. You're all swimming in the same pool.

On the surface the dating a girl with a gf seems hot but when you really think about it, it has std written all over it.
 

IceBergSLiM

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Kev
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: jiggahertz
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: Chryso
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
She cornered me into an exclusive relationship for the time being(she cant see other guys I can't see other girls).

Ok, since you don't have a desire to date guys and she does have a desire to date girls this is not a fair arrangement. Either you can both see other people, regardless of their sex, or you can't.

i dont mind her having a girlfriend though. It means i don't have to entertain her all the time

So then I take it you wouldn't mind her having another bf?

why would you draw that conclusion? Does your girlfriend stick her penis inside you?

You just said her girlfriend has 4 other sugar daddies. So they pork her who then mixes it up with your gf. You're all swimming in the same pool.

On the surface the dating a girl with a gf seems hot but when you really think about it, it has std written all over it.

there is many more factors involved than you are aware of. the gf gf isn't porking all the guys that take her out and buy her things...why would she buy the cow if she's getting the milk for free?

the gf and her gf or haven't had s3x yet. they mess around but they have both never done this sort of thing before which is why I was hoping to be the catalyst for the event......but thats prolly not going to work now.

in any case I always practice safe s3x
 

alkemyst

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first, if a chick is going somewhere on vacation with a guy they are having sex. Maybe not intercourse, but sex is happening and it's just as dangerous; if not more so. If you are practicing safe sex then your risk goes way down despite how most of ATOT thinks you will automatically get AIDS if your g/f had sex before.

second, if a chick is having sex there is a HUGE chance she is not going to tell the guy she is dating because that usually causes grief. If she is planning to have/having sex with you and dating you can be sure she is feeding the same line to others.

Third, if a chick is a stripper I don't see how or why she'd corner you into an exclusive relationship unless it's totally one-sided. If that's the case you are whipped.

Fourth, if a chick is a stripper you have to be an idiot to think she is still a virgin. While it's possible HIGHLY doubtful if she is dating both men and women. Regardless, any woman she's with probably is a player as well so she may as well not be a virgin...it's just a liability to you.



 

IceBergSLiM

Lifer
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Originally posted by: alkemyst
first, if a chick is going somewhere on vacation with a guy they are having sex. Maybe not intercourse, but sex is happening and it's just as dangerous; if not more so. If you are practicing safe sex then your risk goes way down despite how most of ATOT thinks you will automatically get AIDS if your g/f had sex before.

second, if a chick is having sex there is a HUGE chance she is not going to tell the guy she is dating because that usually causes grief. If she is planning to have/having sex with you and dating you can be sure she is feeding the same line to others.

Third, if a chick is a stripper I don't see how or why she'd corner you into an exclusive relationship unless it's totally one-sided. If that's the case you are whipped.

Fourth, if a chick is a stripper you have to be an idiot to think she is still a virgin. While it's possible HIGHLY doubtful if she is dating both men and women. Regardless, any woman she's with probably is a player as well so she may as well not be a virgin...it's just a liability to you.

I'm not sure you were reading this thread or another because your facts are for the most part way off base. Her gf gf i could careless about who she is fvvcking but I did agree she was fvvcking the guy she went on vacation with but not all her sugar dadies. my gf was not having sex with her gf...thats a fact. I stated they were not strippers so im not sure where you got that. I never said anything about any of the girls being virgins. I just said they hadn't had sex with each other yet. I know they are both players though and in the end it doesnt matter read my update below. And finally I'm in no way whipped here nor does it bother me that a girl isn't a virgin.
 

IceBergSLiM

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FINAL UPDATE:

Well I broke it off this morning. It was going no where fast. Besides the physical relationship everything else was going nowhere fast and I didn't want to exert anymore time/energy on it. We just come from two totally different places are in totally different places in life. Would have never worked long term.

She also explicitly stated she would never let me sleep with her girlfriend last night so that was the final deal breaker. If I'm going to date a girl with a girlfriend she at least needs to have an open mind with those things.

Thanks for listening. Maybe next time it will work out better for me.
 

crt1530

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Where will you find drama to post about now that you don't work for a strip club and don't have a bi-curious girlfriend?