Most of us use a network for file transfers. Laplink will work, but a network is more versatile. If you are willing to spend a little extra money, get a network card for your pc and for your notebook and connect them with a crossover cable. If you need any help with the configuration you are already in the right place
The only drawback to this is that PCMCIA (PC Card) network cards are expensive

, but in the end it's still probably worth it for the added speed and flexibility.