Congratulations, everything you just said was also said about desegregation of military units after WW2, or when women began serving on Naval ships. Guess what? It disrupts the unit momentarily, and then unit gets over it. Those fear-mongering that this will get service members killed (*cough* McCain) are doing so for purely political purposes. There are bigger things to worry about when you are being shot at that if the guy fighting next to you happens to be gay. No one worth their salt gives a shit if you are white, black, Hispanic, straight, gay, male, female, so long as you can do your job when it counts. This view is bigoted, or at least ignorant of the level of professionalism and discipline our military service members have.
For what it's worth women serve in combat roles all the time. The concept of a "front line" doesn't exist in warfare anymore, and hasn't since at least Vietnam.
I didn't serve in combat, but I did complete some fairly intense military training before a medical discharge. I'm sure at least one or two of the people I served with were gay and it had absolutely no impact on anything.
Its not about when you are engaging the enemy, its about what you are at the PB doing daily activities. And I guarantee you people do care if you are "straight, gay, male, female". Mainly because most women
cannot do my job, or other jobs out there. Its not about
being a woman, its about not being strong enough. Can they drive a MATV? Sure, those are on the front lines all the time doing supply routes. I have no problems with them doing that. There are other jobs that are close to the action, which I believe can be done by either gender. I do not think they can do my job, or live where I did. For one, I never saw a woman carry anything other than an M4. Grunt squads carry 203's, SAW's, 240B's, and Mk19's. I had an A4/203. With 7 mags of 28 rounds, and 15 203 rounds. HE, smoke, star clusters. I also carried 100 rounds of 7.62 because we took out 1,000 rounds and spread loaded it. I am a Combat Engineer so I also had to carry a metal detector, and demo. On several patrols I also carried an AT4 on my back. Not to mention everything else you had to carry. Im not superman, but Im pretty good to go. Ive got a 300 CFT, and a 286 PFT. There is no way (most) women can carry that much weight over a 9 hour/10 click patrol. They fell out carrying their day pack from PB to PB.
You didnt serve in combat, and I have. Yet you think you know what you're talking about more than I do. I find that silly. We did have two female FET's come to our PB, once. A Cpl got into a screaming match with the Sgt in charge, who if it was a male would have killed him. She accused him of going thru canals on purpose, and making it hard on them. They threw their rifles across canals, you never do that. They left the next day, and we never had females again. We lived with nothing. No tent, no AC, no anything for a long time. We walked around next to naked, just our underwear on. Bathes together, slept close together, talked about everything. Things I dont talk about with people Ive known for 20 years. Of course a favorite topic was sex. What position you like, how you like to beat off, dry or lubed, sexual conquests, comparing dick sizes, etc. That wouldnt happen with a female, and not with a gay person being present either. Being in the middle of nowhere is different than being some pog on a base. Odds are there are gay grunts... Ive yet to meet one. I have never heard of an openly gay grunt either. Which is what this is all about.
Like gay people, I think women can do most jobs in the military just fine. I do not think they belong with 12 guys in the middle of nowhere living very crudely. I dont know how anyone can think this would be a good idea, except people who have never done such a thing. Its not being a bigot, its being a realist. Dont like my opinion? Oh well, at least it is based on facts and personal experience, not what people
think they know. I could post tons of pics to support what Ive said, it really doesnt matter.
Im done talking about it. I dont get into back and forth banter all day, its not worth it. Have fun.