Every definition and I've ever read, including the one I posted here, says the opposite, that the act as well identifies a person as one OR the attraction.Yes. See prisons and college life for some prime examples.
I guess you're right, and the rest of the world is wrong... or you're lying to yourself, which you are. Whatever floats your boat.
What's shocking is how you're ignoring evidence to the contrary showing gays can certainly choose to become that way through sexual behavior equally as one born with the attraction. I'm not surprised to get this sort of idiocy from you... many like you will say anything to make this acceptable.. even disregarding how the word "homosexuality" is defined. Not knowing something = ignorance. Blatantly disregarding it = stupidity.Yes. If this is somehow shocking to you or a totally unexpected revelation then I'd say you've led a very sheltered life, and have little insight into how things truly are.
Unlike what goes on in your fantasy world, people can still choose what actions they take no matter what predisposed traits are present within them.
As was noted earlier, people can decide not to drink and/or get drunk even if they are predisposed to alcohol. People decide not to hurt people if they are, what research terms them "disposed to violence". But with homosexuality, the choice is made for them. yeah...