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Cybersex, webcams.... Cheating or not?

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Shockwave

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Lets say your in a serious relationship or married. Either one. Would you consider cybersex, webcaming and online flirting to be cheating, or would you consider it just a bit of online fun and nothing more? I put an other option there since theres so many different levels. Such as, being naked and rubbing one out while webcamming versus just a little flirting on MSN etc etc....

Anyways, your thoughts?
 
I'm not personally a believer in monogamy, but I think if that's your bag, then anything you do sexually or mentally with someone else in an intimate fashion is cheating. That could be holding someone elses hand, or telling someone else a funny joke over coffee.
 
Originally posted by: Nebor
I'm not personally a believer in monogamy, but I think if that's your bag, then anything you do sexually or mentally with someone else in an intimate fashion is cheating. That could be holding someone elses hand, or telling someone else a funny joke over coffee.
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Thats a pretty good way to look at it......
 
You bet your ass. Anything that shares any level of sexual feelings (other than raw, uncontrollable attraction) with anyone but me is cheating.
 
I don't think it's cheating, and I think fantasizing about other people, is actually healthy for a relationship
 
Originally posted by: rickn
I don't think it's cheating, and I think fantasizing about other people, is actually healthy for a relationship
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A relationship where you don't find the other person attractive... But then, why are you with them?
 
Originally posted by: FrustratedUser
Originally posted by: FFMCobalt
You bet your ass. Anything that shares any level of sexual feelings (other than raw, uncontrollable attraction) with anyone but me is cheating.
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So you think it's OK then.
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Yeah, he had to cover his ass because of the whole Lindsay Lohan thing.
 
for anyone who said it was harmless fun, if you were doing it, would you care if your s/o found out about it? would you tell them, "this is the guy/girl i watch masturbating while i am too," or would you care if they were doing it?
 
OF COURSE ITS CHEATING! To be loyal to your partner is to show respect and make them the focus of your life. I know me and my girlfriend both feel this way and would never cheat on each other.



...btw...

you can check me out on my webcam @ www. .......
 
Originally posted by: dolph
for anyone who said it was harmless fun, if you were doing it, would you care if your s/o found out about it? would you tell them, "this is the guy/girl i watch masturbating while i am too," or would you care if they were doing it?
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porn's pretty much the same idea--just think of it as interactive porn.

edit: i voted yes.
 
Originally posted by: Shockwave
Originally posted by: MAME
shockwave got caught cybering, ewww
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Yeah, just wait till your g/f finds out you were cybering with me and see what YOUR girl says!! :Q
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she already knows I'm gay, hell she asked me after sex once
 
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