A coworker of mine (who I've known since HS, and liked back in HS) asked me to stop by her place omw home after work to check up on it. She has a "feeling" something isn't right, and wants me to check make sure doors are locked and such.
I have known the girl for ~5 years or so, but never really hung out other then at school/work except for her 21st bday I went to. She is at work until later tonight, so it's not for a FWB situation (and I'm in a relationship so I wouldn't do that anyways lol).
What would you do?
So here is the update (12/17/08):
As I said earlier I told my gf prior to going over there to cover my ass from that aspect. She gave me her address, and turns out she lives on a numbered street. So I turned down the one before hers out of stupidity. I drive down, and don't see her address. Pull in 2-3 driveways to turn around and slowly drive past. After driving past where her address *should* be and not seeing it, I decide "okay I'm going home".
When I got to the end of the road and realized it was the wrong street, and decided to go down her actual road and stop by. So I get to her apartment, and drive in back to the parking lot (thank you Google Earth for letting me know that was there so I wasn't in the street/front of the place looking like a stalker to her whole neighborhood). I only saw 2 cars in the p/l (each building has only 4 different apartments in them). Her car wasn't there, so I knew she didn't get off work early for some "fun". Got out and checked the doors real quick, they were both locked and nothing was broken into. So I got in my car and texted her letting her know everything was okay.
The other thing I forgot to mention in the OP and yesterday that made it seem weirder, was that we had just had a conversation about her not being able to find any guys awake to come over at 4 am a few nights ago. She also did make a point to mention she isn't in a relationship with anybody....
Oh and to whoever said "she wants you now that you have a gf" or whatever. I have had this gf for almost 6 months. She knew about my gf since sept or so. Oh and the coworker isn't into ffm's, so that's not an option
Update 12/18: So this morning I wake up, have some fun with the gf, take a shower, and get ready for work. I check my phone when I get it off my desk every morning to see what texts/emails I got over night. I see "3 missed calls" at 11:45ish, 130ish, and 245ish all from this coworker, and no voicemails. I see I have 8 other texts/emails, and when going through I see a text from her between the 2nd and 3rd call that says "so... I got robbed...."
So I send her a text back making sure she is okay and talk with her. Through the conversation she brings up the "gut feeling" she had the day before, and says how it was too early. She goes on to say shes glad I didn't go over yesterday, because that was when it was happening apparently (not entirely sure how she knows that, because she was at work at the time).
Just thought ATOT deserves this update...
oh and btw in case anybody thinks I will get blamed for it, I have proof of where I was from when I left work yesterday until this morning when I got into work. So even if she tried accusing me of it (which I highly doubt based on talking this morning), I can prove my innocence
I have known the girl for ~5 years or so, but never really hung out other then at school/work except for her 21st bday I went to. She is at work until later tonight, so it's not for a FWB situation (and I'm in a relationship so I wouldn't do that anyways lol).
What would you do?
So here is the update (12/17/08):
As I said earlier I told my gf prior to going over there to cover my ass from that aspect. She gave me her address, and turns out she lives on a numbered street. So I turned down the one before hers out of stupidity. I drive down, and don't see her address. Pull in 2-3 driveways to turn around and slowly drive past. After driving past where her address *should* be and not seeing it, I decide "okay I'm going home".
When I got to the end of the road and realized it was the wrong street, and decided to go down her actual road and stop by. So I get to her apartment, and drive in back to the parking lot (thank you Google Earth for letting me know that was there so I wasn't in the street/front of the place looking like a stalker to her whole neighborhood). I only saw 2 cars in the p/l (each building has only 4 different apartments in them). Her car wasn't there, so I knew she didn't get off work early for some "fun". Got out and checked the doors real quick, they were both locked and nothing was broken into. So I got in my car and texted her letting her know everything was okay.
The other thing I forgot to mention in the OP and yesterday that made it seem weirder, was that we had just had a conversation about her not being able to find any guys awake to come over at 4 am a few nights ago. She also did make a point to mention she isn't in a relationship with anybody....
Oh and to whoever said "she wants you now that you have a gf" or whatever. I have had this gf for almost 6 months. She knew about my gf since sept or so. Oh and the coworker isn't into ffm's, so that's not an option
Update 12/18: So this morning I wake up, have some fun with the gf, take a shower, and get ready for work. I check my phone when I get it off my desk every morning to see what texts/emails I got over night. I see "3 missed calls" at 11:45ish, 130ish, and 245ish all from this coworker, and no voicemails. I see I have 8 other texts/emails, and when going through I see a text from her between the 2nd and 3rd call that says "so... I got robbed...."
So I send her a text back making sure she is okay and talk with her. Through the conversation she brings up the "gut feeling" she had the day before, and says how it was too early. She goes on to say shes glad I didn't go over yesterday, because that was when it was happening apparently (not entirely sure how she knows that, because she was at work at the time).
Just thought ATOT deserves this update
... oh and btw in case anybody thinks I will get blamed for it, I have proof of where I was from when I left work yesterday until this morning when I got into work. So even if she tried accusing me of it (which I highly doubt based on talking this morning), I can prove my innocence
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