Shux,
True, many STARS and BARS flags are flown in a protest to the civil rights movement at state capitols throughout the south. and that is wrong, but to keep one at a civil war memorial is not wrong. It does help us to keep history alive, which we should learn from, because if we don't, we are doomed to repeat it. The flag now SHOULD symbolize how wrong slavery is, and was, and help us to remember that. It should also serve as a reminder as to what can happen when non diplomatic situations occur. Our nation was almost torn apart due to this insane war.
Let's also remember Lincoln's promise of 5 acres and a mule, which never happened. Many newly freed slaves suffered after the war due to the fact that the fed. govt. never had a true plan in place to help former slaves. This resulted in No housing, no jobs, no way to earn money, no med care, and so on. So many went back to work for free for their former owners just so they could survive. By no means do I condone slavery, it is never right for one to own another person. It is just that many knew no other way of life, and the government made no plans to help them. Read the history books, but not just one side, research more, dig deep, and you will see that there is more than just one side to the story.
We must keep history alive, no matter how painful or embarrassing, otherwise we are doomed to repeat it if we do not learn from it.