Originally posted by: Moonbeam
Rangoric:
Here is sopmeone who failed to comprehend what was said in what they quoted.
Noone uses a manual while having sex, its before hand to get new ideas to try. Because not only are some people just rather uncreative, but they are downright stuck in their ways unless some entity suggests something different.
Moonbeam: This has nothing to do with lack of creativity. It has to do with sexual inhibition and performance fears. You are suggesting a person with the flu change beds occasionally because he has problems because he stays in one. One position or a hundred, what difference does it make if you are sexually hung up. You look at symptoms and can't see deeper to causation and cures.
R: If your facade was true then nobody would need therapy for anything. Because obviously all they need is themself. And philosophy would be something fogotten about ages ago since everyone is equally creative.
M: I don't really know what you are trying to say here so I will respond to what I think you mean. It is because what I say IS true that we need therapy to find the true self. Yes philosophy has been forgotten about by Knowers.
R: Sex is a performance. If it wasn't, missionary is all that would ever happen. Anything more is to show your partner something or drive your partner to something.
M: Hehe, you are probably, hopefully, young and therefore ignorant. For you sex is a three ring circus act. You are not talking about sex that involves love because for you it's a deal. You have a job to do to please your partner and are keeping score, thinking about your ratings. So sad. Your sex is full of fear. Impotence is where that will lead.
R: All in all, I find your posts to be rather funny. In a fashion
M: Sadly I find yours to be tragic.
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Lemon law:
Another way to look at it is to realise who is watching. Its often that hetrosexual male on a business trip---or the salesman who spend the week on the road talking to clients by day
while his wife and kids are at home. And in the evening there is nothing to do. So would we rather he spend his time and money in the hotel bar where he might meet and hire a lady of the evening to distract him from missing his wife---and then maybe bring home some std to his wife----or would we rather he spend some time watching some porno, so when he comes home to his wife, he might have some fresh passion and ideas to remind her how much she misses him. Might even make his next week on the road more bearable for both of them. Of course, who knows what the wife watches after the kids are in bed.
Of course the do gooder will point out that he can just read that bible the Gidions so thoughtfully provided----who knows, maybe he did----but with all that begating and knowing thy neighbor---maybe it started out that way---and later he just decided to watch the audio video talking book version instead.
M: Porn probably keeps a lot of people home so they don't commit murder. Isn't porn a fine thing. Your argument has all the appearances of reason and yet manages to be absurd. You also ignore the fact that porn is produced by the sick who are maintained in their illness by lustful eyes, no?
Porn is great when your brain is compartmentalized. And when you respect your wife you don't have sex with other women. You fail to note also, the total artificiality of life in a hotel caused by the fact that we have made life insane. You also fail to account for previous points I've made, for example, regarding the do-gooder. There are those so full of fear they need everybody to be the same, and those so free of it as to know their own joy. You may not know that we are all the same and that joy is a state of being entered into via consciousness. There is no your way to joy and my way to joy. There is a Big Joy that belongs to all man and it is the same.
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