Really? You and none of the conservatives you know don't get a tax deduction for interest on the mortgage on their homes? You and none of the conservatives you know don't get exemptions for every dependent? You and none of the conservatives you know don't get to exempt from taxation money put in reimbursement accounts for child-care and medical expenses?
There's absolutely no difference between - on the one hand - a subsidy check received from the government to help a person pay for a mortgage, childcare expenses, and health care exenses, and - on the other hand - a reduction in income tax equal to the same amount as that subsidy, where the reduction in income tax is based on mortgage interst and child-care expenses, and healh care expenses. No difference whatsoever.