Confusing girl questions for the smart people here: New guy has the same name as the girl's ex-bf

Qianglong

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Man, this board is great with all the fast and helpful replies. Now i am in a peculiar situation:

Went out with girl I like to lunch and it went well, but the crappy thing is that it turned out I have the same english name as her ex bf. I think that triggered some buried memories and suddenly reminded her of her ex bf. So she started telling me how sometimes she still misses him.

Of course, I am not her personal psychologist or emotional vent hole. So i tried to lead the conversation somewhere else which I did successfully but NOT before I asked how long she went out with him and when she broke up. It turned out that she went out with him for 2 years and broke up 4 months ago.

Should I wave her goodbye and forget about her now?
 

Sukhoi

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Dec 5, 1999
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I'd give it one more shot, but I wouldn't put up with a girl that insists on talking about the ex.

And that too.
 

Kadarin

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Originally posted by: Sukhoi
I'd give it one more shot, but I wouldn't put up with a girl that insists on talking about the ex.

And that too.

I agree. That's just bad news all around.
 

UncleWai

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Oct 23, 2001
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You already invested into this project. Time to wrap up the deal, hit it and run.
 

Hyperblaze

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Originally posted by: UncleWai
You already invested into this project. Time to wrap up the deal, hit it and run.

A girl is considered a "project" now?

Just how old are you?
 

Howard

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Oct 14, 1999
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Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
Originally posted by: UncleWai
You already invested into this project. Time to wrap up the deal, hit it and run.

A girl is considered a "project" now?

Just how old are you?
It's not how old Wai is, but how old Qianglong is.
 

Hyperblaze

Lifer
May 31, 2001
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Originally posted by: Howard
Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
Originally posted by: UncleWai
You already invested into this project. Time to wrap up the deal, hit it and run.

A girl is considered a "project" now?

Just how old are you?
It's not how old Wai is, but how old Qianglong is.

Actually, it is how old Wai is, since it's one of the most immature pieces of crap I've read in a while.

Then again, I don't visit ATOT much anymore. Maybe I forgot how immature some folks are around here
 

Qianglong

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Jan 29, 2006
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Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
Originally posted by: Howard
Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
Originally posted by: UncleWai
You already invested into this project. Time to wrap up the deal, hit it and run.

A girl is considered a "project" now?

Just how old are you?
It's not how old Wai is, but how old Qianglong is.

Actually, it is how old Wai is, since it's one of the most immature pieces of crap I've read in a while.

Then again, I don't visit ATOT much anymore. Maybe I forgot how immature some folks are around here


chill out guys..i really hope this thread didn't start a fight among you two..
 

Fenixgoon

Lifer
Jun 30, 2003
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go for it - its not something that'll go away easily, more than likely. hell, i still think about my ex (but current g/f >>> her)
 

Howard

Lifer
Oct 14, 1999
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Originally posted by: Qianglong
Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
Originally posted by: Howard
Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
Originally posted by: UncleWai
You already invested into this project. Time to wrap up the deal, hit it and run.

A girl is considered a "project" now?

Just how old are you?
It's not how old Wai is, but how old Qianglong is.

Actually, it is how old Wai is, since it's one of the most immature pieces of crap I've read in a while.

Then again, I don't visit ATOT much anymore. Maybe I forgot how immature some folks are around here


chill out guys..i really hope this thread didn't start a fight among you two..
SHUT UP ASSHOLE
 

Pepsei

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maybe your name is steve? that's a common english name for asians. i hated the first steve, and caused me to be a bigot against any asians named steve.