**confirmed** kissing on the first date? a-ok!

melly

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(**couldn't resist, sorry!**)


first of all, i highly apologize if this has been discussed here before, but i ran several searches with combinations of words but couldn't find any topics....having said that...

i find that the majority of people think it is wrong to kiss on the first date. if you feel this way, why? it's just a kiss!

discuss!:p

oh and what the heck! ** more asteriskisksiksksk*** :)
 

A5

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Never been on a date...I'll worry about if the time ever comes.
 

N8Magic

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I'd have to agree with you. It's not like you're jumping in the sack on the first date! :D
 

nihil

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nah, nothin wrong with it at all. if it feels right, go for it. that's what i say.
 

datalink7

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<< Never been on a date...I'll worry about if the time ever comes. >>



Same here, though my thoughts would say that it is alright.
 

bsobel

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> i find that the majority of people think it is wrong to kiss on the first date.

Your kidding right? Is this why the Canucks multiply so slowly ;)
Bill
 

bizmark

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I too don't see anything wrong with it. Sometimes, it's just right. There are many circumstances in which kissing on the first date is just fine.
 

Ronstang

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I have woke up in the morning with a "first date" laying next to me so I really don't think that kissing on thef irst date is a bad thing
 

AreaCode707

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I don't think it's "wrong" but I think it can complicate things quickly. Getting to know who someone really is can often be easier without that physical aspect at first. For myself, kissing someone means I love them, so I would never kiss someone who I didn't first say, "I love you" to. I doubt I'm going to know the person well enough to say that on a first date, hence no kiss. If the person wants to kiss me, we probably have different definitions of what a kiss means and how important it is. I feel more comfortable abiding by my standard and definition so I'll stick to it. Fortunately, the only guy I've dated pretty much shared my ideals about physicalness and what it meant, and we talked a little about what discrepencies there were.
 

bonk102

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theres nothing wrong with kissing on the first date, sleeping with someone on the other hand......
 

eakers

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if it feels right ofcourse!

ive even been known to kiss before the first date :p

*kat. <-- sloot :p
 
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*b1tch <-- likes sloots

Well, on the 4 first dates I've been on, I got one kiss on the lips in one of them and did some hardcore making out in another. I think it's ok
 

yllus

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I'm pro-kiss, mainly because I like to see if the girl can kiss or not. :D It's also a good indicator to me if a girl is likely to be as open and not too tense about something like this, which really isn't that big of a deal. Let's try to have some fun here, not necessarily spend eternity together...
 

N8Magic

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<< and did some hardcore making out in another. I think it's ok. >>



I'll bet you do. lol :p
 

nihil

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<< you are assumimg that we actually get dates >>



now that i think of it. i haven't seen a girl that interested me in a long long time. =\
 

Aceman

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<< I'd have to agree with you. It's not like you're jumping in the sack on the first date! >>



Speak for yourself, okay!;):D
 

BIGMACC

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I have woke up in the morning with a "first date" laying next to me so I really don't think that kissing on thef irst date is a bad thing

ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!

Oh my gawd!!! LOL





I'm still laughin!!!!! Nothing wrong with kissing , or more, on the first date!! LOL I've still got the giggles!!!
 

dbzwukan

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i've bang a couple girls on the first date.... turns out they are sluts.....good thing they give out condoms in my high school.
 

nihil

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<< i've bang a couple girls on the first date.... turns out they are sluts.....good thing they give out condoms in my high school. >>



i bet you're proud of yourself. it's not hard to tell you are still in high school.
 

InverseOfNeo

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when was the last time anyone had a date around here?


anyway, I dont think it is wrong to kiss on the first date as long as both participants want to kiss.
 

Aceman

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<< when was the last time anyone had a date around here? >>


I'd answer that, but sometimes my wife reads the forums.:Q