rme audio also makes top notch cards. I am a little skeptical of using sound cards with true hifi.
the best solution would be to just use a digital output connected to an external dac and the rest of your equipment. I dont think the media geared for computers is going to have as good of a resolution as good hifi components, so it might be a real waste to spend a lot of money.
I am not sure how the run of the mill cd rom drive or dvd drive compares to a hifi transport or dvd player. My first inclination is that it isn't even close. My second inclination is that in a double blind test you probably will not be able to tell the difference. I also haven't heard of anybody making a part like that geared towards audiophiles.
my suggestion? dont center the system around your computer. build a regular system and connect the computer to one of the auxillary inputs on your preamp(via xlr pref) or dac as an afterthought.
I think it'd look pretty ridiculous to have your computer desk sitting in the middle of a room with properly placed speakers. dont plan on keeping your wife or girlfriend if you try! Proper speaker placement is (one of?) the most important thing afterall. Most 'hifi' speakers are meant to be placed at some distance from various walls. maggies and electrostats are worst case usually. Their ~12" sweet spot isn't a problem with computers though.
some various diy sites i know of are
www.speakerbuilder.net: a good site when money is a concern,
www.madisound.com is a retailer of diy components and has a message board with a lot of knowledgable people,
www.diyaudio.com is a forum with a lot of knowledgable and experienced people,
www.audax.com has a good HT kit,
www.sound.au.com has a lot of good articles and projects.
www.passdiy.com has some great circuits, articles, and patent descriptions that could be considered a part of the elite hifi genre. The aleph service manuals portray great examples of a world class circuit. users.ece.gatech.edu/mleach also has a few comprehensive projects and good background information on why different decisions were made.
jt