Coming Out Of the Closet

[brigden]

Originally posted by: Nebor

Originally posted by: Audiophile1980
Oh BTW guys the girls have really gotten over it. The Catholic one still has problems but a couple came over last night to watch survivor and I could tell they were intentionally making with the girl talk. One of them found out how hard it hit me when they made it clear that the girl talk from me made them uncomfortable and I guess it got around. So I guess they've accepted it.

You have to realize that you don't necessarily have to make girl talk just because you're gay. You don't have to be effiminate and flamboyant. I realize there's a tendency towards that when you first come out, because that's what our 'gay role models' on TV show us. For that reason, most people who come out are initially very flamboyant (god knows I was) but eventually find their own personality. I'm just saying that you shouldn't try to fit in to what people expect you to be.

Oh, and be careful since you're new. THere's going to be a lot of wild stuff available to you now, and you should... moderate yourself. And always always always use a condom, don't go for any lines like, "I can't keep it up with a condom..." It's not worth dying for.

Congradulations.

That's a very thoughtful and substantial post.

 

[Audiophile1980]

You have to realize that you don't necessarily have to make girl talk just because you're gay. You don't have to be effiminate and flamboyant. I realize there's a tendency towards that when you first come out, because that's what our 'gay role models' on TV show us

Fortunately, my desire for girltalk isn't based on T.V. 'rolemodels'.
I've just always wanted it. Also, I'm not talking about being flamboyant or feminine. I don't think that I am.
I'm just talking about sitting around watching TV and seeing a hotty and commenting on it just like they do. I'm NOT talking about wearing a fuscia open collar shirt and talking with a lisp.

Oh, and be careful since you're new

Let me be perfectly clear here. I'm not new. I have been gay for a long time, just not openly to my friends and family. Big difference.

Congradulations.

Thanks!

 

[lavagirl669]

this is how you find out who your true friends really are....

keep your head up and remember that you did a really brave
thing and if they can't accept it that's their problem.

Congrats to you for your courage! :thumbsup:

 

[Audiophile1980]

Originally posted by: brigden

Originally posted by: Audiophile1980
If you think I'm skinny take a look at THIS guy!
http://server5.uploadit.org/files/Audiophile-a10.jpg

Does he work at Payless in the mall?

Sorry, I just saw the word "HE" in there. YES! Actually, he does work at Payless. His name is Mathew.

 

[arcenite]

Originally posted by: Audiophile1980

Originally posted by: brigden

Originally posted by: Audiophile1980
If you think I'm skinny take a look at THIS guy!
http://server5.uploadit.org/files/Audiophile-a10.jpg

Does he work at Payless in the mall?

Sorry, I just saw the word "HE" in there. YES! Actually, he does work at Payless. His name is Mathew.

that girl is smokin'.. tell her she has a fan in new jersey

 

[Nebor]

Let me be perfectly clear here. I'm not new. I have been gay for a long time, just not openly to my friends and family. Big difference.

Put "Watch The Broken Hearts Club" on your things to do list. It's part of the 'required reading' for the course. Newbie.

 

[HermDogg]

:thumbsup: We wish you nothing but the best!! :heart:

 

[Rackmule]

Originally posted by: packmule

Stop posting? You have got to be kidding me...

Originally posted by: CorporateRecreation

Originally posted by: packmule
and for some unkown reason you felt like you just had to share this information with everyone that reads this board... Oh thank you so much, now back in the closet you go...

stop posting

Not so sure this was anything to be banned for... I am sure I read some other posts that were deleted by the moderator after they were posted. The funny thing is some one quoted another posters terrible post and said he was doing it so the post could not be edited. The moderator deleted that post and then banned Packmule for that little comment. I am sorry but that is just not right.


I am the person that posted under Packmule and would like to say I apoligize if what I said offended anyone on these boards.


I think the most telling point was the comment made to my post that stated what are you going to do drive over from Douglasville... Right,,,

Again I apologize if I offended anyone.

 

[dmcowen674]

Originally posted by: Audiophile1980
I'm surprised that no one photochopped my picture actually coming out of a closet...

Well, Good luck.

Maybe because the guys are shocked at the Hot girls that always hang around Out of the Closet guys, I'm sure makes a lot of them consider the change themselves :shocked:

 

[iwantanewcomputer]

go back in the closet.

 

Originally posted by: Semidevil

Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Man, I'm sorry but I just can't get past the "came out of the closet / in a lot of pain" part. :Q
Maybe you should have phrased it differently. I'm sorry, but I DO have a weird sense of humor, ask ANYONE!

Disregard this post...

yeas, wierd sense of humor...I can tell from your jokes....haha

I guess I'm on the bandwagon with brutuskend, I thought I was the only one laughing at that but I guess not. You can only wonder what happend in that mysical closet, maybe harry potter is sitting with his broom eating hostest treats! Or maybe that trix rabbit is making rabbit love with your stuft animals... Good times.

 

[epileptic]

Oh, and be careful since you're new. THere's going to be a lot of wild stuff available to you now, and you should... moderate yourself. And always always always use a condom, don't go for any lines like, "I can't keep it up with a condom..." It's not worth dying for.

TMI!!! Please, they have PM's if you have to make buttsecks references. ::tosses cookies::

 

Originally posted by: epileptic

Oh, and be careful since you're new. THere's going to be a lot of wild stuff available to you now, and you should... moderate yourself. And always always always use a condom, don't go for any lines like, "I can't keep it up with a condom..." It's not worth dying for.

TMI!!! Please, they have PM's if you have to make buttsecks references. ::tosses cookies::

/me catches cookies and tosses them back.

 

[Ryan]

Originally posted by: epileptic

Oh, and be careful since you're new. THere's going to be a lot of wild stuff available to you now, and you should... moderate yourself. And always always always use a condom, don't go for any lines like, "I can't keep it up with a condom..." It's not worth dying for.

TMI!!! Please, they have PM's if you have to make buttsecks references. ::tosses cookies::

You should be using a condom reguardless of your orientation.

 

[apoppin]

Originally posted by: Audiophile1980

Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Pics: for a gay guy, you know how to hang around some hot women!

I thought all gay guys hung around hot women....

it's the other way round . . . .

women hang around gay guys . . . .


and .. . .

. . . AND

(double emphasis)

. . . .

You should be using a condom reguardless of your orientation.

(for sex)

 

[Nebor]

Originally posted by: rbloedow

Originally posted by: epileptic

Oh, and be careful since you're new. THere's going to be a lot of wild stuff available to you now, and you should... moderate yourself. And always always always use a condom, don't go for any lines like, "I can't keep it up with a condom..." It's not worth dying for.

TMI!!! Please, they have PM's if you have to make buttsecks references. ::tosses cookies::

You should be using a condom reguardless of your orientation.

Agreed.