easy to tell you to go spend the money.. sometimes it just isn't the possible choice.
if that's the case go to the community college for a year or two.. get the core classes out of the way, and keep training with the highschool team at every opportunity.. if you're good enough to run in college then you were important in high school, your coach will be supportive and you'll still know a good portion of the kids so you won't be miserable. do that.. you won't stay in competitive shape if you try and do it on your own. if you can stay in running shape and get a year (or two, but one would be better) of your education out of the way for next to nothing.. that won't be the end of the world. you'll get to big college still in shape to run and in time to get the important classes and the degree with more clout.. and save some money in the process.
heck.. you'll get to the big college with a year more maturity and determination under your belt and be more able to avoid the standard freshman pitfalls too.. it's not an easy choice but it's not a bad choice either..
sure.. goin' straight on to the school you plan to finish at is the more desireable option, especially from a wanting to get away and be independent point of view but.. specially for freshman year, if you can't make that work.. take a year at home, keep workin' on the things that are important to you.. it'll work. really good year at community college may open up new scholarship opportunities to make the subsequent years where you really want to be more doable, too.
it's really more about how determined you are than it is about where you are, in the beginning.
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