It's my job to go clubbing
You've obviously been to the wrong places. The only scenes in the USA worth going to are Miami, NYC, and maybe San Francisco.
It's different when there's a quality sound system, a top-rated DJ, and state-of-the-art lighting and environmental control systems. Most people who go clubbing smoke like a chimney, but if you go to a quality venue, it is a non-issue. Most places that bear the title 'nightclub' aren't. They're just bars with some a-hole spinning booty rap and commercial dance music...off of CDs no less. Any DJ worth his salt has a pair of 1200s. Real clubbing is a different matter entirely. Sure there's leering drunks, but if you stand your ground and don't take any bullsh|t it's not an issue, and for the ones that get out of hand, tell the bouncers, again, any quality venue has bouncers who will gladly toss out any overentusiastic jerk. In terms of finding a quality venue, go by dress codes. Places with no code avoid....if they have a presentable crowd it's likely to be closer to the ideal...It's kind of difficult to sum up into a coherent paragraph, so just check out the sites below...
Check out my personal gallery of clubbing pics at
my personal gallery
Club Links:
The site I work for
Space - Miami Open from 11 PM Friday till noon sunday!
Shadow Lounge - Miami
Twilo - NYC