Closure to my thread: The dude pimp

TripleJ

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Alright, where do I start.
There are a lot of views on my 'badass, cool-man' behaviour. For starters, I'd like to thank you all, including FAQ, on thier responses, comments, criticisms and encouragement. I have been up and down like a yo-yo trying to decide what to do. I would like to thank Happy Kitten for a great argument explaining my various options and what she recommends. Only a good, dinkum argument will pursuade me, and Happy Kitten's did!(Why do women always have a good argument) I believe myself to be an honest person but I guess my hormones can take over a little sometimes. I don't see myself as a sex-craving lunatic, hopping from from one bed to the other, for I have only had 4 relationships, and they have all lasted between 2 and 9 months. I am going to nurture my current relationship and forget about 'the gym chic'. Thanks all, I'm glad we have more morally responsable people on here than 'silly little boys' like me. You guys and gals helped me from stuffing up my life. I realise now that relationships are way too important to just toss around. And besides, 'dude pimpin' would be too hard for me.
I feel ashamed now, I dunno what it'll be like when I see my girl again now. I do like her a lot, but I just don't know what I was thinking.
And last but not least, a little word to the mods. FAQ wasn't being that rude, it was a touchy subject and I'm probably the one to blame because I brought up the issue. Sorry FAQ. And locking the thread was also bad because it is a valid subject that needs to be discussed and we need to be informed that stuffing up your life like this is just plain stupid. Cheers, I'm off now to impress all my chics.
 

DannyLove

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i have no idea in what your talking about, but sounds like you just realized something inside of yourself. Good Luck in that battle :)

danny~!
 

ChrichtonsGirl

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I read through it all after it was locked, so I never got to offer my opinion - probably a good thing. ;)

I'm glad that you've cooled off enough to rethink your decision. I don't think seeing more than one person is a bad thing, but you need to be honest with your gf if that's what you want to do, and give her the option of dumping you. :D Playing two women is not cool or badass - just dumb.

Good luck!
 

Azraele

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<< I am going to nurture my current relationship and forget about 'the gym chic'>>

I'm glad you thought it over. It really is not good to try and date 2 girls at once. It's a very bad idea and low and immoral if you want my opinion, but if you ever do that, the least you can do is tell them that you want to see other people. That way you're being honest at least.

Relationships are a one on one thing, and involve commitment, communication, and compromise to be able to grow and thrive.