Clingy girls are fun!

[daveymark]

that is all.

 

[Wapp]

LIAR!

 

[blackdogdeek]

i think we define fun differently

 

[Aimster]

OP is younger than 20

 

[Lola]

ewww... no they are not. I think a lot of girls even try not to be that "clingy one".

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: LolaWiz
ewww... no they are not. I think a lot of girls even try not to be that "clingy one".

BINGO.

But Sarcasm meter is broken, I believe.

 

[daveymark]

no, really

here's proof NSFW

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by "fun" I mean "worthy of a restraining order"

 

[Lola]

Originally posted by: DaShen

Originally posted by: LolaWiz
ewww... no they are not. I think a lot of girls even try not to be that "clingy one".

BINGO.

But Sarcasm meter is broken, I believe.

no its not. I know that he was joking, but i wanted to voice my opinion on the matter. Only crazy, needy men want clingy girls

 

[thehstrybean]

:camera:s?

 

[irishScott]

I once had this stupid squeaky asian girl in high school who had some crush on me (I was a senior, she was a sophomore). I told her I wasn't interested, and to go find someone else. Now she friended me on facebook. So I'm stuck between being an asshole or opening up my wall to her *shudder*. THAT is what happens with clingy girls. (I'm a college freshman BTW)

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: irishScott
I once had this stupid squeaky asian girl in high school who had some crush on me (I was a senior, she was a sophomore). I told her I wasn't interested, and to go find someone else. Now she friended me on facebook. So I'm stuck between being an asshole or opening up my wall to her *shudder*. THAT is what happens with clingy girls. (I'm a college freshman BTW)

Sometimes silence and just trying to not do anything that would lead them on is the only good option. Clingy people in general can be annoying, but it is something everybody has to deal with at one time or another. Just be polite and say hi if she says hi, but keep your distance as well. Treat them only as an acquaintance and nothing more. You were frank with the girl, so you did your part, so you don't have to worry about it anymore.

It gets really annoying when they try to take it to a higher level by not respecting your personal space -- that just gets creepy, but again, you can just be polite and then just get up and walk away. Sometimes there is no way to get out of the situation except by not even associating with them, but in a lot of cases that can't happen. Stick it out. It is a "crush" and they will eventually get over it.

**EDIT**
I had this one girl who had a crush on me in High School, but I was not interested. She was very, very clingy too, which was annoying. I go off to college and after I graduate, I see her again because we had mutual High School friends. I thought she got over me, but apparently she hadn't (which is a little scary after that many years to be honest). The last time I saw her, she happened to be at the same bar as me when I went to hang out with a few friends. I was sitting there talking to my friends, and she comes up and starts talking to me. I was civil and friendly, but nothing more. She starts to get really touchy and basically rubbing up against me which if she knew me at all I would not appreciate. It was not a pleasent experience. I basically ignored it and kept talking to my friends and drinking, but man, that was a little creepy. I figured if her antics innitiated any response at all, it would just spur her on. She is a nice girl, but dude, respect the space.

She eventually walked away, but man, you would think after 5 years of not seeing someone, they would be over it by then. <shudders>

 

[Steve]

Lola, I saw your avatar and thought you were Howard. Did you get a haircut?

 

[Budmantom]

Originally posted by: daveymark
no, really

here's proof NSFW

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by "fun" I mean "worthy of a restraining order"

that was interesting

 

[child of wonder]

My wife was very clingy when we first started dating. Then she got pregnant and it was even worse!

I was very close to ending the relationship and paying child support the next 18 years but I decided instead to have us simply put our relationship on hold because the baby was the most important thing. She matured quickly once parenthood was just around the corner and I was always there to support her. Just before our son was born, our relationship was doing better and we moved in together. Things went uphill from there. Now we've been married almost 3 years and it's going great.

 

[ultimatebob]

Originally posted by: sm8000
Lola, I saw your avatar and thought you were Howard. Did you get a haircut?

Yeah, I noticed that Lola's avatar looks older now. Oh well, I guess that we all age

 

[RallyMaster]

Originally posted by: irishScott
I once had this stupid squeaky asian girl in high school who had some crush on me (I was a senior, she was a sophomore). I told her I wasn't interested, and to go find someone else. Now she friended me on facebook. So I'm stuck between being an asshole or opening up my wall to her *shudder*. THAT is what happens with clingy girls. (I'm a college freshman BTW)

Asian girls are evil (the majority of them from my experience)

 

[Aikouka]

Originally posted by: irishScott
I once had this stupid squeaky asian girl in high school who had some crush on me (I was a senior, she was a sophomore). I told her I wasn't interested, and to go find someone else. Now she friended me on facebook. So I'm stuck between being an asshole or opening up my wall to her *shudder*. THAT is what happens with clingy girls. (I'm a college freshman BTW)

Just don't deny or accept the request. That's what I do to people .

The one thing worse than a clingy girl? A clingy, controlling girl!