Christmas and Gift Giving

Modeps

Lifer
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I consider myself a fairly generous person when it comes to gift giving for the holidays. I tend to get people things that either a) They want or b) That I think they'd want, even if it costs a little more. Typically my family sucks for letting me know what they want, so I'm forced into the later category.

I may be 27, but my parents still ask me for a Christmas/Birthday list evey year (my birthday is 2 days after Christmas). My sister also asked me for said list. I really dont want much, but my wants are pretty expensive so I figured it's Christmas, I'm having a kid soon so this is the final hurrah, so I'll only put three things on my list because they're expensive and suggest that people pitch in with each other to defer the cost. On the list were 1) Xbox360 Premium 2) Gift Card to buy games with 3) Starmate Replay and a 1yr Sirius Subscription.

I sent the list to both my parents and sister, to which my dad immediately struck up a conversation about the 360 (he's a tech nut, even if he doesnt show it). My sister on the other hand came back with "Those are pretty expensive, do you want anything less expensive?"

I said "Well, not really. I suggested that you chip in with mom and dad to defer the cost. Most of the other things I want I buy myself... but I'll put together another 'cheaper' list for you."

The new list contained a few conditional presents, like if my parents got me the 360 then I needed an extra wireless controller and if my wife picked me up a DS then I'd like Meteos. I also put on there some books, dvds and asked for other gift cards to places like Old Navy. The prices on that small list ranged from $15 - $50. I felt that was pretty good if she wasnt looking to spend a lot.

The next response blew my mind. She says to me "I've got some LL Bean Giftcards, do you want anything from there?" Seriously, who buys someone a gift with giftcards they had received?

About my sister: She's 4 years older than me, lives in NYC, works as an Engineer, and makes more than my wife and I do combined. She is cheap.

No cliffs.
 

spaceman

Lifer
Dec 4, 2000
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Originally posted by: Modeps
I consider myself a fairly generous person when it comes to gift giving for the holidays. I tend to get people things that either a) They want or b) That I think they'd want, even if it costs a little more. Typically my family sucks for letting me know what they want, so I'm forced into the later category.

I may be 27, but my parents still ask me for a Christmas/Birthday list evey year (my birthday is 2 days after Christmas). My sister also asked me for said list. I really dont want much, but my wants are pretty expensive so I figured it's Christmas, I'm having a kid soon so this is the final hurrah, so I'll only put three things on my list because they're expensive and suggest that people pitch in with each other to defer the cost. On the list were 1) Xbox360 Premium 2) Gift Card to buy games with 3) Starmate Replay and a 1yr Sirius Subscription.

I sent the list to both my parents and sister, to which my dad immediately struck up a conversation about the 360 (he's a tech nut, even if he doesnt show it). My sister on the other hand came back with "Those are pretty expensive, do you want anything less expensive?"

I said "Well, not really. I suggested that you chip in with mom and dad to defer the cost. Most of the other things I want I buy myself... but I'll put together another 'cheaper' list for you."

The new list contained a few conditional presents, like if my parents got me the 360 then I needed an extra wireless controller and if my wife picked me up a DS then I'd like Meteos. I also put on there some books, dvds and asked for other gift cards to places like Old Navy. The prices on that small list ranged from $15 - $50. I felt that was pretty good if she wasnt looking to spend a lot.

The next response blew my mind. She says to me "I've got some LL Bean Giftcards, do you want anything from there?" Seriously, who buys someone a gift with giftcards they had received?

About my sister: She's 4 years older than me, lives in NYC, works as an Engineer, and makes more than my wife and I do combined. She is cheap.

No cliffs.

giftcards are as good as cash at stores.
what difference does it make what the item was pruchased with?
ive got people xmas presents using trade in credit at eb.

be happy you get anything at all.
 

Modeps

Lifer
Oct 24, 2000
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I figured I'd get a few responses like that. It's not about the money, it's the principle.
 

meltdown75

Lifer
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hmm. although my parents still ask me every year what i want for my birthday and Christmas, i'm pretty sure the response for the past 7-8 years has been "nothing." they usually get me a little something, but whatever.

i don't know, it feels weird asking for gifts anymore. too old.

as long as we get together and play Euchre and get drunk, i'm good with that. :) :beer:

this year the wife and I are considering drastically reducing the amount we spend on each other to a small token gift amount and putting the money we would have spent towards getting satellite.

i guess all i want for Christmas is some damn NHL on the boob tube.
 

Kelemvor

Lifer
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My parents always ask for a list because otherwise they end up getting me stuff I don't want which they don't want to do. Of course even when they get the list, they don't always follow it.

One time I specifically asked for a 2-wheel wheelbarrow and they got me a standard 1-wheel kind.

So I jsut give them a few ideas and they know they can get me some BestBuy gift cards or something else I'll put to good use.
 

Lalakai

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Nov 30, 1999
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Just smile and accept whatever gifts they want to give; it's not the actual gift but more of a memory trip. And yep, getting presents for others who don't give ideas is hard, but all the more fun when you find that present that they really like and use.

And remember this thread 30 years from now, when you are trying to buy something for your kids and grandkids, because of the memories you had, when they were younger.

hope you have a good holiday season.