Christian school fires pregnant woman over premarital sex

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Veliko

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You analogy is bogus.

It is more inline with Hooters only hiring attractive waitresses.

I know that it's a stereotype to say that this forum is full of misogynistic virgins, but in your case it seems to be true.

Having sex and having children is a natural thing that humans do.

His analogy was about people going to the toilet, once again a natural thing that humans do.

Your analogy is not.
 
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She worked for a private business which had rules of conduct that she agreed to abide by and when she ignored those rules she broke the private agreement she willing signed with her employer.

...and let this case serve as an example of how real laissez-faire capitalism could result in an actual loss of freedom and dictatorship. What would happen if all or most employers wanted to control people's personal lives as a precondition for employment and/or advancement?
 

nehalem256

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Having sex and having children is a natural thing that humans do.

His analogy was about people going to the toilet, once again a natural thing that humans do.

So are you arguing that liking hot waitresses is unnatural? :confused:
 

PokerGuy

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Having sex and having children is a natural thing that humans do.

Of course it is, but that doesn't mean it has to happen outside of wedlock. If these people believe it's only appropriate if it happens as part of a marriage, and that's the example they want set for their kids, then that's up to them. Again, if you don't want to agree to those "crazy" terms, perhaps you shouldn't sign a contract that says you will.
 

PokerGuy

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...and let this case serve as an example of how real laissez-faire capitalism could result in an actual loss of freedom and dictatorship. What would happen if all or most employers wanted to control people's personal lives as a precondition for employment and/or advancement?

In case you haven't noticed, public schools also fire teachers for doing things that are perfectly legal (making adult movies, drinking alcohol etc). If there are certain standards of behavior that are part of the job requirement, then you can either adhere to them, or choose a different job. The fact that it's a private religious school makes it an even more open and shut case: they have a right to require that the person who teaches at the religious institution embodies the values they're teaching.
 

Veliko

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In case you haven't noticed, public schools also fire teachers for doing things that are perfectly legal (making adult movies, drinking alcohol etc). If there are certain standards of behavior that are part of the job requirement, then you can either adhere to them, or choose a different job. The fact that it's a private religious school makes it an even more open and shut case: they have a right to require that the person who teaches at the religious institution embodies the values they're teaching.

Once again, the comparisons raised by the supporters of this school are complete and utter nonsense.

Having sex and/or getting pregnant is nothing like making porn films or getting drunk.

As for the 'choose another job' mantra, I sometimes wonder if these people exist in another reality to everyone else: in case you haven't noticed, we're in something of an economic slump and most people don't have the luxury of being able to be choosy about who their employer is.
 

Veliko

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Of course it is, but that doesn't mean it has to happen outside of wedlock. If these people believe it's only appropriate if it happens as part of a marriage, and that's the example they want set for their kids, then that's up to them. Again, if you don't want to agree to those "crazy" terms, perhaps you shouldn't sign a contract that says you will.

Again with the "it's their culture" nonsense.

The fact that it might be someone's 'culture' to stone women who have the audacity to get raped, doesn't make it legitimate.
 

BallaTheFeared

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It does in that culture, sorry.

Employers have to right not to retain employment of whores and other undesirables.

If she needed a job so bad as you said in these "hard times" she should have kept her legs closed or used contraception to hide her illicit acts.
 

PokerGuy

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Having sex and/or getting pregnant is nothing like making porn films or getting drunk.

They are perfectly legal activities, and yet people can (and do) get fired for engaging in them. Just because something is "natural" doesn't mean you can't get fired for doing it. Further, as I already pointed out, having sex and getting pregnant are indeed perfectly natural, but that doesn't mean it has to happen outside of wedlock. You have the delusion that your opinion on the matter is right and everyone who thinks otherwise is crazy. Delusions of grandeur :D

As for the 'choose another job' mantra, I sometimes wonder if these people exist in another reality to everyone else: in case you haven't noticed, we're in something of an economic slump and most people don't have the luxury of being able to be choosy about who their employer is.

If you apply that logic, then the employer can not set any restrictions on behavior and activities, and in fact no employment contract can ever be valid because the employee doesn't have another option. Just because the job market sucks doesn't mean employers somehow lose their rights to set their requirements on their jobs. Don't like them? Work elsewhere.
 

PokerGuy

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Again with the "it's their culture" nonsense.

The fact that it might be someone's 'culture' to stone women who have the audacity to get raped, doesn't make it legitimate.

You must be a true mental midget if you can't understand a difference between people having a right to believe what they want and teach their children accordingly versus criminal acts. Hate to break it to ya, but your idea of what is moral is not the only one that matters, and everyone else is allowed to have views on morality other than your own.

Have you ever considered seeking psychiatric help for your condition? If not, you should.
 

Veliko

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They are perfectly legal activities, and yet people can (and do) get fired for engaging in them. Just because something is "natural" doesn't mean you can't get fired for doing it. Further, as I already pointed out, having sex and getting pregnant are indeed perfectly natural, but that doesn't mean it has to happen outside of wedlock. You have the delusion that your opinion on the matter is right and everyone who thinks otherwise is crazy. Delusions of grandeur :D

Once again:

Having sex and/or getting pregnant are nothing like getting drunk or making porn films.

If you apply that logic, then the employer can not set any restrictions on behavior and activities, and in fact no employment contract can ever be valid because the employee doesn't have another option.

Who's logic are you applying here? Certainly not mine.

Nice strawman.

Just because the job market sucks doesn't mean employers somehow lose their rights to set their requirements on their jobs. Don't like them? Work elsewhere.

At what point has anyone suggested that employers lose any rights?

Again, another strawman argument.
 
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It does in that culture, sorry.

Employers have to right not to retain employment of whores and other undesirables.

If she needed a job so bad as you said in these "hard times" she should have kept her legs closed or used contraception to hide her illicit acts.

Misogynist much?
 

Veliko

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You must be a true mental midget if you can't understand a difference between people having a right to believe what they want and teach their children accordingly versus criminal acts. Hate to break it to ya, but your idea of what is moral is not the only one that matters, and everyone else is allowed to have views on morality other than your own.

Have you ever considered seeking psychiatric help for your condition? If not, you should.

Mate, you're the one who's willing to legitimise the actions of shitbags because it's in their culture.
 

PokerGuy

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Once again:

Having sex and/or getting pregnant are nothing like getting drunk or making porn films.

And once again, since you appear to have trouble reading and comprehending, they are similar in that they are perfectly legal. There is no distinction in the laws based on whether something is "natural" or not.

At what point has anyone suggested that employers lose any rights?

Again, another strawman argument.

You are saying the employer should not be able to set the requirements for the job. Since they do have the right to set those requirements, you're saying they should lose that right.
 

PokerGuy

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Mate, you're the one who's willing to legitimise the actions of shitbags because it's in their culture.

I'm not your "mate", and I definitely can't help that you have trouble with reading and comprehension. You should definitely seek counseling and psychiatric help though.
 

Veliko

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And once again, since you appear to have trouble reading and comprehending, they are similar in that they are perfectly legal. There is no distinction in the laws based on whether something is "natural" or not.

So if three different people told you what they had been up to at the weekend, your reaction to each of them would be exactly the same:

Person 1: I starred in a porn film.
Person 2: I got drunk.
Person 3: I found out I was pregant!

You are saying the employer should not be able to set the requirements for the job. Since they do have the right to set those requirements, you're saying they should lose that right.

Sorry, you're going to have to back this claim up. At what point have I ever said that an employer can't set requirements for a job?
 

Veliko

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I'm not your "mate", and I definitely can't help that you have trouble with reading and comprehension. You should definitely seek counseling and psychiatric help though.

Again, you're the one who thinks that something being in a person's culture automatically lends it creditability.
 

nehalem256

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So if three different people told you what they had been up to at the weekend, your reaction to each of them would be exactly the same:

Person 1: I starred in a porn film.
Person 2: I got drunk.
Person 3: I found out I was pregant!

Except person 3 is "I found out I was pregnant out of wedlock".

You keep leaving the bolded off. Even though it is incredibly important to the discussion. Since that is you know actually why the teacher got fired.
 

Veliko

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Except person 3 is "I found out I was pregnant out of wedlock".

You keep leaving the bolded off. Even though it is incredibly important to the discussion. Since that is you know actually why the teacher got fired.

It is utterly irrelevant, because a woman is perfectly free to become pregnant out of wedlock.