When ever I can't find anyone on Neo's server I have been heading to a place called Seattle Swampand playing. They have 5 servers now and I can get a ping in the 40-60 range and they just added a stats page so you can keep track of kills/deaths and what not. Here are my Stats,(look for [AT] Stallion) just don't laugh. If you arrange them by kills per hour I'm in the top 30.
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