Well there's been a few posts from chats on IM, MSN, ICQ, what have you so I thought I'd add an IRC discussion I just had with a girl I've known for a few months now and talked pretty much everyday with. This arguement will be a great example for the thread about having a proper arguement and what NOT to say LOL. Anyway to set it up a little the private discussion I start here arised from me saying she'd most likely pay a duty or handling fee when she got something she'd buy from someone over the border(we live in Canada) and she had the attitude of.."no I won't" and "I won't pay it". Kinda a snotty stuck up thing. Her other friends say she's like this but this is the first time I've seen it from her towards me. In this actual arguement I'm having with her it's funny to see how she changes focus of the actual subject many times and just wants to argue till she feels she's put me in my place. Which I think I handled quite nicely and shut her down throughly 
We'll still be good friends. Just need a few hours of silence till tonight or something
. I just thought it was a funny read. Anyway here it is(it's not as long a read as it looks):
[11:22] : seriously kim. whats up with you
[11:22] : you've been so rude to me for the past couple days
[11:22] (Girl): you
[11:22] : since you went to money
[11:22] (Girl): because you're annoying me
[11:22] : cause i tell you the truth?
[11:23] : i've bought tons of things over the border from the net
[11:23] : so has my dad
[11:23] : my dad use to sell shizat everyday off there
[11:23] : same with my sister
[11:23] : that invoice comes attached to your package and you pay it when it arrives or you dont get the
package
[11:24] (Girl): so waht?
[11:24] : alright
[11:24] (Girl): keep your know it all attitude to yourself
[11:24] : omg
[11:24] : thats you kim
[11:24] (Girl): scott buys shizat all the time
[11:24] (Girl): and i'm going on what he said
[11:24] : you've been a farkin snot to me and have been tryin to say its me with the attitude
[11:24] : i dont farkin think so
[11:24] (Girl): good, i'm a snot
[11:24] (Girl): and you're bugging me
[11:25] : your ego got hurt at money bad or something and now you're takin it out on me
[11:25] (Girl): no
[11:25] (Girl): you pissed me off
[11:25] (Girl): because you weren't there
[11:26] (Girl): and you're talking like i deserved what happened
[11:26] : i never said you deserved what happened
[11:26] (Girl): and it has nothing to do with my ego
[11:26] (Girl): it has to do with my sister getting attacked by a male
[11:26] : i didn't say anything about what happened at money
[11:26] : im not friends with your sister
[11:26] (Girl): yeah
[11:26] (Girl): you did
[11:27] (Girl): when i was talking to you the next day
[11:27] (Girl): your whole attitude about it
[11:27] : yea i really didn't care
[11:27] : waht am i suppposed to do about what happened?
[11:27] (Girl): well why'd you mention it to melanie then?
[11:27] : u got kicked out of a bar
[11:27] : big deal
[11:27] : people get kicked out all the time
[11:27] (Girl): so why did you mention it
[11:27] (Girl): if you didn't care?
[11:27] (Girl): like i care about getting kicked out
[11:27] : cause she brought your name up and it was something to talk about
[11:27] (Girl): i care about my sister getting pushed
[11:28] : ok
[11:28] (Girl): well.. don't talk about things you don't care about
[11:28] : well i never said anything about your sister getting pushed...
[11:28] : omg
[11:28] : dont say crap like that
[11:28] (Girl): whatever
[11:28] (Girl): i'm not in the mood
[11:28] : it's immature
[11:28] (Girl): yup
[11:28] (Girl): it is
[11:28] (Girl): so drop it
[11:28] : i know you're not in the mood
[11:29] (Girl): then quit making my mood worse
[11:29] : you've been a totally different person these past couple days
[11:29] : oh its my fault you've been like this eh
[11:29] : riight kim
[11:29] (Girl): NO
[11:29] (Girl): I DIDN'T SAY
[11:29] (Girl): JUSTIN IT'S YOUR FAULT
[11:29] (Girl): SHUT UP
[11:29] : ok
[11:29] : just quit thinking i'm against you or something
[11:30] (Girl): then when you have a statement to make
[11:30] (Girl): about disagreeing with me
[11:30] (Girl): i don't care to hear it
[11:30] (Girl): okay steve?
[11:30] : if thats the attitude you have kim you wont hear from me anymore
[11:30] : cause thats bullshizat
[11:30] : acting like you know everything
[11:31] : wtf is that
[11:31] (Girl): i do know things, that you don't know
[11:31] (Girl): when you're not present at the time
[11:31] (Girl): and when you do something
[11:31] : yea of course
[11:31] (Girl): and i'm not there
[11:31] (Girl): i don't go and talk about it to everybody else
[11:31] : i wasn't refuting that
[11:31] : omg
[11:31] (Girl): so, NO, i don't know everything
[11:31] : what did mel say to you
[11:31] (Girl): just things i can see
[11:31] (Girl): who cares what you're refuting
[11:31] (Girl): i'm not going to argue with you
[11:31] (Girl): jesus
[11:31] (Girl): you're putting me in a worse mood
[11:31] (Girl): and i'm not typing anymore
[11:32] : well mel said something that i supposedly said
[11:32] : and its obviously twisted and farked coming out of her mouth
[11:32] (Girl): she said, "what happened?"
[11:32] (Girl): "justin told me you got kicked out of the bar"
[11:32] (Girl): and i'm like, "yeah, some guy pushed my sister"
[11:32] (Girl): which you didn't mention
[11:33] (Girl): and if you're going to mention that i got thrown out of a club
[11:33] (Girl): that i always go to
[11:33] (Girl): then you should also mention what really happened
[11:33] : i cnat remmber what i said to be honest
[11:33] : omg
[11:33] : yer mad at me cause all i said was you got kicked out of abar?
[11:33] (Girl): you're farked
[11:33] (Girl): have you not been listening?
[11:33] : well what?
[11:33] : i am kim
[11:33] (Girl): and you also said, "kim will tell you a different story"
[11:33] (Girl): well OBVIOUSLY
[11:34] : yea...
[11:34] (Girl): end of discussion
[11:34] : haha
[11:34] (Girl): and don't go and take it out on mel
[11:34] (Girl): or i'll be even more pissed off
[11:34] : i'm not going to
[11:34] : this is retarded
[11:34] (Girl): laugh it up
[11:34] : well
[11:34] (Girl): bye
[11:34] : u got kicked out of a bar
[11:34] : big deal
[11:34] (Girl): who cares?
[11:34] : now you're mad at me cause me asked me about you and i said you got kicked out of a bar
[11:34] (Girl): that's not what this is about
[11:35] : whats wrong with saying that
[11:35] (Girl): no, that's one thing
[11:35] : i didn't care to explain the whole story
[11:35] (Girl): everything you say bugs me now
[11:35] : yea
[11:35] : thast you kim
[11:35] : not me
[11:35] : i havn't changed
[11:35] : you have
[11:35] (Girl): then you shouldn't have cared to bring my name up in the first place
[11:35] (Girl): good for me
[11:35] : she always asks whats up with you
[11:35] : she knows i talk to you everyday
[11:35] (Girl): you're not going to ruin my lunch.. so STOP FARKING ARGUING WITH ME
[11:35] : and always bugs me about the comp
[11:36] (Girl): I DON'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT THIS shizat
[11:36] : alright
[11:36] : just wanted to stop havin this stupid bickering with you and find out what was up
[11:37] : just was weird to tell you something and have you not give a shizat about what i had to say
[11:38] (Girl): well, just because something happens with you, doesn't mean it happens to everybody
[11:38] : yea i know
[11:38] : but yer just shutting down my opinion
[11:38] (Girl): then i don't care
[11:38] : see what i mean
[11:39] : thats the attitude i've never seen from you until these past few days
[11:39] : why?
[11:39] (Girl): people piss me off
[11:39] (Girl): i'm in a bad mood
[11:39] (Girl): therefore i have attitude
[11:39] (Girl): and i don't want to put up with anybody's shizat
[11:39] (Girl): it's simple, really
[11:40] : yea well have i ever tried to hurt you or anything like that?
[11:40] : never
[11:40] : i've never been mean to you
[11:40] : and we always talk about everything even when ya are pissed at everyone and in a bad mood
[11:40] (Girl): yeah, and you always bug me whenever i tell you stuff
[11:41] : wha
[11:41] : it's just joking around
[11:41] : you do the same to me
[11:41] (Girl): yeah, especially when you're in a shizatty mood
[11:41] : well toronto fever isn't easy to control
[11:42] (Girl): then move to toronto
[11:43] : ok. well i dunno what mel said to you exactly. i dotn even remember what i told her. i just know
anything i tell her is pretty brief cause she usually just starts talking over me all the time anyway
[11:44] : but why would i make you sound like an idiot to her
[11:44] : you've become like my best friend the past few months
[11:45] (Girl): it has nothing to do with mel
[11:45] (Girl): tha'ts just an example
[11:45] (Girl): don't base everything on mel
[11:45] (Girl): i can start pointing everything out if you'd like
[11:46] : please do
[11:46] : i dont wanna piss ya off
[11:46] (Girl): okay, i will.
[11:46] : obviously we havn't gotten along the past couple days
[11:46] : but i dunno why
[11:46] : i feel like i've just been joking with you normally like i always did
[11:46] : but you get mad
[11:47] (Girl): because i'm not in the mood for stupid jokes
[11:49] : well when yer cooled down let me know. cause i miss talkin to that girl
We'll still be good friends. Just need a few hours of silence till tonight or something. I just thought it was a funny read. Anyway here it is(it's not as long a read as it looks):
[11:22] : seriously kim. whats up with you
[11:22] : you've been so rude to me for the past couple days
[11:22] (Girl): you
[11:22] : since you went to money
[11:22] (Girl): because you're annoying me
[11:22] : cause i tell you the truth?
[11:23] : i've bought tons of things over the border from the net
[11:23] : so has my dad
[11:23] : my dad use to sell shizat everyday off there
[11:23] : same with my sister
[11:23] : that invoice comes attached to your package and you pay it when it arrives or you dont get the
package
[11:24] (Girl): so waht?
[11:24] : alright
[11:24] (Girl): keep your know it all attitude to yourself
[11:24] : omg
[11:24] : thats you kim
[11:24] (Girl): scott buys shizat all the time
[11:24] (Girl): and i'm going on what he said
[11:24] : you've been a farkin snot to me and have been tryin to say its me with the attitude
[11:24] : i dont farkin think so
[11:24] (Girl): good, i'm a snot
[11:24] (Girl): and you're bugging me
[11:25] : your ego got hurt at money bad or something and now you're takin it out on me
[11:25] (Girl): no
[11:25] (Girl): you pissed me off
[11:25] (Girl): because you weren't there
[11:26] (Girl): and you're talking like i deserved what happened
[11:26] : i never said you deserved what happened
[11:26] (Girl): and it has nothing to do with my ego
[11:26] (Girl): it has to do with my sister getting attacked by a male
[11:26] : i didn't say anything about what happened at money
[11:26] : im not friends with your sister
[11:26] (Girl): yeah
[11:26] (Girl): you did
[11:27] (Girl): when i was talking to you the next day
[11:27] (Girl): your whole attitude about it
[11:27] : yea i really didn't care
[11:27] : waht am i suppposed to do about what happened?
[11:27] (Girl): well why'd you mention it to melanie then?
[11:27] : u got kicked out of a bar
[11:27] : big deal
[11:27] : people get kicked out all the time
[11:27] (Girl): so why did you mention it
[11:27] (Girl): if you didn't care?
[11:27] (Girl): like i care about getting kicked out
[11:27] : cause she brought your name up and it was something to talk about
[11:27] (Girl): i care about my sister getting pushed
[11:28] : ok
[11:28] (Girl): well.. don't talk about things you don't care about
[11:28] : well i never said anything about your sister getting pushed...
[11:28] : omg
[11:28] : dont say crap like that
[11:28] (Girl): whatever
[11:28] (Girl): i'm not in the mood
[11:28] : it's immature
[11:28] (Girl): yup
[11:28] (Girl): it is
[11:28] (Girl): so drop it
[11:28] : i know you're not in the mood
[11:29] (Girl): then quit making my mood worse
[11:29] : you've been a totally different person these past couple days
[11:29] : oh its my fault you've been like this eh
[11:29] : riight kim
[11:29] (Girl): NO
[11:29] (Girl): I DIDN'T SAY
[11:29] (Girl): JUSTIN IT'S YOUR FAULT
[11:29] (Girl): SHUT UP
[11:29] : ok
[11:29] : just quit thinking i'm against you or something
[11:30] (Girl): then when you have a statement to make
[11:30] (Girl): about disagreeing with me
[11:30] (Girl): i don't care to hear it
[11:30] (Girl): okay steve?
[11:30] : if thats the attitude you have kim you wont hear from me anymore
[11:30] : cause thats bullshizat
[11:30] : acting like you know everything
[11:31] : wtf is that
[11:31] (Girl): i do know things, that you don't know
[11:31] (Girl): when you're not present at the time
[11:31] (Girl): and when you do something
[11:31] : yea of course
[11:31] (Girl): and i'm not there
[11:31] (Girl): i don't go and talk about it to everybody else
[11:31] : i wasn't refuting that
[11:31] : omg
[11:31] (Girl): so, NO, i don't know everything
[11:31] : what did mel say to you
[11:31] (Girl): just things i can see
[11:31] (Girl): who cares what you're refuting
[11:31] (Girl): i'm not going to argue with you
[11:31] (Girl): jesus
[11:31] (Girl): you're putting me in a worse mood
[11:31] (Girl): and i'm not typing anymore
[11:32] : well mel said something that i supposedly said
[11:32] : and its obviously twisted and farked coming out of her mouth
[11:32] (Girl): she said, "what happened?"
[11:32] (Girl): "justin told me you got kicked out of the bar"
[11:32] (Girl): and i'm like, "yeah, some guy pushed my sister"
[11:32] (Girl): which you didn't mention
[11:33] (Girl): and if you're going to mention that i got thrown out of a club
[11:33] (Girl): that i always go to
[11:33] (Girl): then you should also mention what really happened
[11:33] : i cnat remmber what i said to be honest
[11:33] : omg
[11:33] : yer mad at me cause all i said was you got kicked out of abar?
[11:33] (Girl): you're farked
[11:33] (Girl): have you not been listening?
[11:33] : well what?
[11:33] : i am kim
[11:33] (Girl): and you also said, "kim will tell you a different story"
[11:33] (Girl): well OBVIOUSLY
[11:34] : yea...
[11:34] (Girl): end of discussion
[11:34] : haha
[11:34] (Girl): and don't go and take it out on mel
[11:34] (Girl): or i'll be even more pissed off
[11:34] : i'm not going to
[11:34] : this is retarded
[11:34] (Girl): laugh it up
[11:34] : well
[11:34] (Girl): bye
[11:34] : u got kicked out of a bar
[11:34] : big deal
[11:34] (Girl): who cares?
[11:34] : now you're mad at me cause me asked me about you and i said you got kicked out of a bar
[11:34] (Girl): that's not what this is about
[11:35] : whats wrong with saying that
[11:35] (Girl): no, that's one thing
[11:35] : i didn't care to explain the whole story
[11:35] (Girl): everything you say bugs me now
[11:35] : yea
[11:35] : thast you kim
[11:35] : not me
[11:35] : i havn't changed
[11:35] : you have
[11:35] (Girl): then you shouldn't have cared to bring my name up in the first place
[11:35] (Girl): good for me
[11:35] : she always asks whats up with you
[11:35] : she knows i talk to you everyday
[11:35] (Girl): you're not going to ruin my lunch.. so STOP FARKING ARGUING WITH ME
[11:35] : and always bugs me about the comp
[11:36] (Girl): I DON'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT THIS shizat
[11:36] : alright
[11:36] : just wanted to stop havin this stupid bickering with you and find out what was up
[11:37] : just was weird to tell you something and have you not give a shizat about what i had to say
[11:38] (Girl): well, just because something happens with you, doesn't mean it happens to everybody
[11:38] : yea i know
[11:38] : but yer just shutting down my opinion
[11:38] (Girl): then i don't care
[11:38] : see what i mean
[11:39] : thats the attitude i've never seen from you until these past few days
[11:39] : why?
[11:39] (Girl): people piss me off
[11:39] (Girl): i'm in a bad mood
[11:39] (Girl): therefore i have attitude
[11:39] (Girl): and i don't want to put up with anybody's shizat
[11:39] (Girl): it's simple, really
[11:40] : yea well have i ever tried to hurt you or anything like that?
[11:40] : never
[11:40] : i've never been mean to you
[11:40] : and we always talk about everything even when ya are pissed at everyone and in a bad mood
[11:40] (Girl): yeah, and you always bug me whenever i tell you stuff
[11:41] : wha
[11:41] : it's just joking around
[11:41] : you do the same to me
[11:41] (Girl): yeah, especially when you're in a shizatty mood
[11:41] : well toronto fever isn't easy to control
[11:42] (Girl): then move to toronto
[11:43] : ok. well i dunno what mel said to you exactly. i dotn even remember what i told her. i just know
anything i tell her is pretty brief cause she usually just starts talking over me all the time anyway
[11:44] : but why would i make you sound like an idiot to her
[11:44] : you've become like my best friend the past few months
[11:45] (Girl): it has nothing to do with mel
[11:45] (Girl): tha'ts just an example
[11:45] (Girl): don't base everything on mel
[11:45] (Girl): i can start pointing everything out if you'd like
[11:46] : please do
[11:46] : i dont wanna piss ya off
[11:46] (Girl): okay, i will.
[11:46] : obviously we havn't gotten along the past couple days
[11:46] : but i dunno why
[11:46] : i feel like i've just been joking with you normally like i always did
[11:46] : but you get mad
[11:47] (Girl): because i'm not in the mood for stupid jokes
[11:49] : well when yer cooled down let me know. cause i miss talkin to that girl
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