Cheating Wife Awarded More Than $40 Million in Divorce Case

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Cheating Wife Awarded More Than $40 Million

BRIDGEPORT, Conn. (March 25) - A judge has awarded the former wife of a multimillionaire businessman a divorce settlement worth more than $40 million even though she admitted having affairs with her rock-climbing guide and a man she met on a flight to China.

In addition to a $24 million payment, Susan Sosin will keep the couple's $3.6 million Manhattan apartment, $2 million Utah ski house and $800,000 home in Wallkill, N.Y. But she has to vacate the couple's two mansions in Connecticut and three desert properties in Arizona.

In the divorce granted Wednesday, she also gets to keep $6 million in her brokerage accounts, eight cars and $2.9 million in jewelry, including a ruby piece her husband had bought for her but hadn't given to her prior to their divorce.

Richard Albrecht, attorney for Sosin's husband, Howard, estimated the total value of the award at $43 million, or 27 percent of the estate. She wanted half, he said.

"My opinion is her conduct in this matter affected the award," Albrecht said.

Susan Sosin's lawyer, Frederick Siegel of Stamford, couldn't be reached for comment Friday. A telephone message was left at his office.

Howard Sosin, 54, who founded AIG Financial Products in 1987, filed for divorce after discovering his wife's relationships in February 2003. During an upgrade of their computer system, he found hundreds of e-mails between his wife and her lover, according to testimony.

Susan Sosin, 51, admitted in testimony that she had become intimate with a guide while rock climbing in 1996, though she said it was a spontaneous and isolated occurrence. During a flight to China in 2000, she met a married man, and that led to a lengthy affair, according to testimony.

"The parties' marriage has been undeniably marred by the defendant's infidelity," Superior Court Judge Howard Owens stated in his verdict. "Although her sexual relationship was not the sole cause of the breakdown, it did effectively terminate the marriage."

Howard Sosin's wealth was estimated at $168 million. Among the assets he gets to keep are $89 million in bank accounts, 10 of the couple's 18 cars, $960,000 worth of private club memberships and $22 million in fine art.

The couple met in 1978 when Howard Sosin was an assistant professor at Columbia University. At the time, she was married to another man and working in retail.
 

Gunslinger08

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Honestly, if you steal a woman away from another man, you have to expect the same to happen to you, eventually.
 

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Originally posted by: Amused
Cheating Wife Awarded More Than $40 Million

The couple met in 1978 when Howard Sosin was an assistant professor at Columbia University. At the time, she was married to another man and working in retail.

The last line is the most important part.
ATOT: heed this advice: If she'll cheat on someone to go out with you... she'll cheat on you to go out with someone else later. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

(yes, I know it doesn't say that they started dating while she was still married to another man)
 

rh71

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Without a prenup, is any part of a divorce's monetary settlements automatic ? I mean is it assumed half.. until you have special considerations like in this case ?
 

Kadarin

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Originally posted by: illustri
well its not like she got half, guy's worth 170mil

True, but by no stretch of the imagination does she deserve anywhere close to what she actually got.
 

illustri

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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: illustri
well its not like she got half, guy's worth 170mil

True, but by no stretch of the imagination does she deserve anywhere close to what she actually got.

can't really say unless you knew them both, they were married for 25years whose to say she didn't earn that money as well?
 
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So she cheated on her husband back in 78' to be with this dude, and he thought she'd always be faithful????

Apparently you don't need to be very smart to be a college professor.
 

halik

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Originally posted by: DrPizza
Originally posted by: Amused
Cheating Wife Awarded More Than $40 Million

The couple met in 1978 when Howard Sosin was an assistant professor at Columbia University. At the time, she was married to another man and working in retail.

The last line is the most important part.
ATOT: heed this advice: If she'll cheat on someone to go out with you... she'll cheat on you to go out with someone else later. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

(yes, I know it doesn't say that they started dating while she was still married to another man)

 

everman

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Originally posted by: illustri
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: illustri
well its not like she got half, guy's worth 170mil

True, but by no stretch of the imagination does she deserve anywhere close to what she actually got.

can't really say unless you knew them both, they were married for 25years whose to say she didn't earn that money as well?

I'm willing to bet most of it is from AIG, not herself.
 

AMDZen

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Originally posted by: Rudee
Noones fault but his for not having a marital contract.

OH come ON. That is really unfair. A lot of women are very opposed to this, and its hard to convince them otherwise and have them still want to marry you.

Pre-nup's are usually only good for a certain amount of time. Plus, women can now contest pre-nups and essentially render them void. Also, pre-nups don't help at all in issues like who gets the kids, visitation rights, and child support. Although that isn't the issue here, its money.

That doesn't make the women any less of a b~tch, nor the system any less WRONG.

This is a prime example of why I fear marriage. I don't understand why you can't just "be married" like live together, all the same things without the marriage contract. It scares the sh~t out of me, and I know that I'm not wrong in thinking the way I do.
 

rh71

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Originally posted by: AMDZen
This is a prime example of why I fear marriage. I don't understand why you can't just "be married" like live together, all the same things without the marriage contract. It scares the sh~t out of me, and I know that I'm not wrong in thinking the way I do.
When you live together, much less have kids, you share expenses. Money is, and always will be, involved.

You can always live together without being legally married. None of this money is even an issue of worry if you find the right girl for you.
 

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Girls get upset when I tell them I'd never get married without a prenup. They drop the whole "trust" thing on you and expect you not to laugh.
 

rh71

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Originally posted by: rh71
Without a prenup, is any part of a divorce's monetary settlements automatic ? I mean is it assumed half.. until you have special considerations like in this case ?
nobody knows ?
 

Kev

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Originally posted by: AMDZen
Originally posted by: Rudee
Noones fault but his for not having a marital contract.

OH come ON. That is really unfair. A lot of women are very opposed to this, and its hard to convince them otherwise and have them still want to marry you.

Pre-nup's are usually only good for a certain amount of time. Plus, women can now contest pre-nups and essentially render them void. Also, pre-nups don't help at all in issues like who gets the kids, visitation rights, and child support. Although that isn't the issue here, its money.

That doesn't make the women any less of a b~tch, nor the system any less WRONG.

This is a prime example of why I fear marriage. I don't understand why you can't just "be married" like live together, all the same things without the marriage contract. It scares the sh~t out of me, and I know that I'm not wrong in thinking the way I do.

Right now the system is so fcked up that you can get sued for half your money for just LIVING with a girl for an extended period of time. You don't even have to get married! What the fck?