so ive been going out with my gf for 5 yrs. the last year has been pretty rough but recently it has seemed to have gotten better till i found this on her email... btw her email was open...and i couldnt resist as this email subject was on the first page...
my pos girlfriend:
"I realize that i may be putting you in a difficult position, but i gotta say
that i've had a crush on you since the first day of class...i know this is
pretty ridiculous, god i feel like i'm back in high school with this crazy
notion...i totally understand if you think ths is weird and no hard feelings
if you're not interested, i just want to tell you that i think you're
cool...oh how dorky...oh well, i guess i am entitled to be a bit
foolish...must be the pumpkin. Anyway, my number is XXX-XXX-XXXX, if you feel
like calling...and if not, then that's ok - just know that your grade will be
negatively affected....HAHA just joking! Thanks for e-mailing me an di hope
you are enjoying your hot tub...just not with any really cute girls!
l8r,
jamie"
this other guy:
"Hey babe, I hope your Thanksgiving is going well. It feels really great to be home and see my friends again. It is a lot different from wash u. I am glad you got my e-mail because I figured you would think I was blowing you off again. And don't worry, it is OK for us to be friends, it doesn't weird me out that you feel close to the class and want to hang out. But, we cannot be anything more than that. It just cannot happen, you have obligations as a TA and I do as a student. I know you realize that too. And don't let this change the way you act in class or how you feel comfortable around us...we are still friends, I refuse to let it become awkward. And don't worry, you havent freaked me out or anything, It is flattering if anything. Anyway, enjoy your break as much as possible. I sure am. I will see you in class when we get back. Happy Holidays. Bye Jamie. ~Nick"
so i just confronted my pos girlfriend and she just said it was a joke...hmmm, it doesnt sound like a joke to me...what do u guys think....man i am so pissed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:brokenheart:
update:
OK so ive been talking to her this whole time and trying to get the truth out of her. So now she blames it on her mother. This I actually believe b/c her mom has openly admitted to me that she wants us to break up b/c she thinks im not good enough or maybe b/c i pt out the fact that she (her mom) is stupid and controlling to her face. ive actually told my gf many times choose me or ur mom many times in fact and i think this shows why. basically i guess her mom told her to do this.
And actually my girlfriend is hot...yes i have nude photos of her and videos (and no i will not post them). 2ndly the only reason why i stayed in the rels is b/c i cant see myself with anybody else regardless if they are prettier. i pretty much believe this was the girl i wanted to marry despite her mother. what makes this worse is that we were talking about buying rings only last week, then she went home to her family for TK and now all this. O did i mention her mom is divorced and remarried to a doctor when she became a nurse.
my pos girlfriend:
"I realize that i may be putting you in a difficult position, but i gotta say
that i've had a crush on you since the first day of class...i know this is
pretty ridiculous, god i feel like i'm back in high school with this crazy
notion...i totally understand if you think ths is weird and no hard feelings
if you're not interested, i just want to tell you that i think you're
cool...oh how dorky...oh well, i guess i am entitled to be a bit
foolish...must be the pumpkin. Anyway, my number is XXX-XXX-XXXX, if you feel
like calling...and if not, then that's ok - just know that your grade will be
negatively affected....HAHA just joking! Thanks for e-mailing me an di hope
you are enjoying your hot tub...just not with any really cute girls!
l8r,
jamie"
this other guy:
"Hey babe, I hope your Thanksgiving is going well. It feels really great to be home and see my friends again. It is a lot different from wash u. I am glad you got my e-mail because I figured you would think I was blowing you off again. And don't worry, it is OK for us to be friends, it doesn't weird me out that you feel close to the class and want to hang out. But, we cannot be anything more than that. It just cannot happen, you have obligations as a TA and I do as a student. I know you realize that too. And don't let this change the way you act in class or how you feel comfortable around us...we are still friends, I refuse to let it become awkward. And don't worry, you havent freaked me out or anything, It is flattering if anything. Anyway, enjoy your break as much as possible. I sure am. I will see you in class when we get back. Happy Holidays. Bye Jamie. ~Nick"
so i just confronted my pos girlfriend and she just said it was a joke...hmmm, it doesnt sound like a joke to me...what do u guys think....man i am so pissed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:brokenheart:
update:
OK so ive been talking to her this whole time and trying to get the truth out of her. So now she blames it on her mother. This I actually believe b/c her mom has openly admitted to me that she wants us to break up b/c she thinks im not good enough or maybe b/c i pt out the fact that she (her mom) is stupid and controlling to her face. ive actually told my gf many times choose me or ur mom many times in fact and i think this shows why. basically i guess her mom told her to do this.
And actually my girlfriend is hot...yes i have nude photos of her and videos (and no i will not post them). 2ndly the only reason why i stayed in the rels is b/c i cant see myself with anybody else regardless if they are prettier. i pretty much believe this was the girl i wanted to marry despite her mother. what makes this worse is that we were talking about buying rings only last week, then she went home to her family for TK and now all this. O did i mention her mom is divorced and remarried to a doctor when she became a nurse.
