Change of personality, I am pissing people off

[UncleWai]

I am under police inspecdtor training now. I used to be very friendly and easy going with others. But now that this training instilled leadership and attitude in me, I am very different and it's affecting my social life. Lately I just have really short temper and dedicated most of my time on completing the training.

I pretty much lost contact with a lot of my old friends because of the dedication that I have to put in this job. And yesterday I pissed my gf off because I stayed home on Christmas to study for a written exam for the coming Monday.
Now I can't focus studying because I pissed so many people off. Really want to vent out my frustration, I can't seem to balance my life and have the people around me be happy.

You know, three months ago I was in the verge of getting kicked out from the training due to poor performance. Over the three months I busted my butt and finally got praises from my instructors, but now my social life is ruined. I am so frustrated.

/wrist

 

[TurtleCrusher]

Work > Girlfriend.

Work < Wife.

Work >>>>>>>>> Friends.

Friends are nothing. Family is everything. Work is right in the middle. Got it?

 

[AndroidVageta]

Work > Girlfriend.

Work < Wife.

Work >>>>>>>>> Friends.

Friends are nothing. Family is everything. Work is right in the middle. Got it?

Family is first but certainly not everything...friends are more important than any fucking job...maybe because Ive had TRUE friends and you havent?

Everyone has their opinion...but yours is kinda twisted in my eyes...

Edit: OP...simply stop being a fucking dick...and obviously your girlfriend and friends dont mean anything to you or you would lighten up a bit...dont blame your training as a reason to be an ass...leave work at work dude.

 

[tcsenter]

I am under police inspecdtor training now. I used to be very friendly and easy going with others. But now that this training instilled leadership and attitude in me, I am very different and it's affecting my social life. Lately I just have really short temper and dedicated most of my time on completing the training.

Errr...losing temper and irritating other people means your leadership and attitude training has been fail.

 

[chusteczka]

Errr...losing temper and irritating other people means your leadership and attitude training has been fail.

This.

Also, school or training is primary before anything else. That includes family, friends, and girlfriends. Otherwise, other people will always find a way to distract the student so they may receive some attention.

Kudos for finding the motivation to study during the Christmas holiday and for improving your class standing.

 

[darkswordsman17]

Basically, you were sucking (half-assing?) before, and you're having to compensate for the poor performance. Let this be a tip of putting in the effort earlier and you can much more easily balance things.

Apologize to the people you've pissed off and tell them what's up. Hopefully you weren't too big of an asshole and they'll understand.