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Certain Couples More Likely To Divorce.

MaxDepth

Diamond Member
I lived with my ex-fiance for five years before we split. After all her bitching and moaning about us not being married, she bailed on the relationship four months before the wedding. But now I can't see me wanting to be with her or wanting to give up the things that I have seen and done since the split. One thing is for sure, I won't let the next serious girlfriend move in with me. I like my space. And Mr. Matthew Bramlett (read below) can stick his opinion, that I have less family values than he does, up his ass.

Here is today's Associated Press coverage of a new statistical analysis:


WASHINGTON -- One in three marriages will end in divorce during their first 10 years, with certain couples more likely to split up than others, a government survey finds. People who marry young, have less money, are not religious and whose parents are divorced are more likely to divorce themselves. Overall, by age 30, three in four women have been married and about half have lived with a partner outside marriage.

Those are among the findings of an extensive survey of nearly 11,000 women ages 15 to 44 exploring factors influencing cohabitation, marriage and divorce. The survey, conducted in 1995 by the National Center for Health Statistics, focuses on a wide range of family and fertility issues and included only women. A new round of interviews being done now includes both men and women.

Among the findings released Wednesday:

->Women whose parents were divorced are significantly more likely to divorce. Among women whose parents stayed together, 29 percent were divorced after 10 years. Among those who came from broken marriages, 43 percent were divorced.

->Couples who live together before getting married are more likely to divorce. After 10 years, 40 percent of cohabiting couples had broken up, versus 31 percent of those who did not live together first. "It's likely that if you're willing to cohabitate that your family values are not as strong as someone who is not willing to cohabitate," said Matthew Bramlett, the report's lead author.

->Black women are significantly less likely to marry than white women. By age 30, 81 percent of white women have been married, whereas only 52 percent of black women. The report notes one explanation, that there are fewer black men considered marriage material, given their high rates of unemployment.

->Black women are also less likely to remarry after a divorce than white women.

->Broken marriages don't always lead to divorce, with many couples broken up but still legally married. This was particularly true for black women. Just 67 percent of women who were separated from their husbands were divorced three years after the separation. Among Hispanic women, it was 77 percent; among whites, 91 percent.

->Just over half of divorced women -- 54 percent -- get married again within five years. For white women, it's 58 percent, but just 44 percent for Hispanic women and 32 percent for black women. These rates have been falling since the 1950s, when divorced women had a 65 percent chance of remarrying.

Copyright 2002 by The Associated Press. All rights reserved
 
Hmmm.

Well, I have never lived with a man outside of marriage and I never will. It has nothing to do with religion and everything to do with being perfectly happy to keep a man at a distance unless he is ready for the white knuckle ride that is being with me. 😉

One in three marriages will end in divorce during their first 10 years, with certain couples more likely to split up than others, a government survey finds. People who marry young, have less money, are not religious and whose parents are divorced are more likely to divorce themselves. Overall, by age 30, three in four women have been married and about half have lived with a partner outside marriage.

My first marriage, we were really young... I was 17, he was 19, d'oh. His parents were divorced and pretty much played tug of war with him, and he thought I came from the perfect family. He wanted to be part of it but he didn't want to actually work on the relationship, so after 4 really horrible years, I moved on.

My marriage now has lasted 10 years (Woot! Our 10th is 8/1 ) and even though we were still young (I was 23 and he was 22) and dirt poor (college students with kids, talk about rough) we have hung in there. Both our parents have remained married and although we are not religious, we were brought up to uphold committment and to try our best at anything we do. We share a lot of the same values, at least the important ones.

It's been bloody hard but it has been getting easier every year that goes by. 🙂
 
Originally posted by: MaxDepth
People who marry young, have less money, are not religious and whose parents are divorced are more likely to divorce themselves.

That describes my ex-wife perfectly. 😀

 
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