Hi, I have an MSI k8n neo2 platium, and I am using the IDE cables that came with it to hook into the CD drives. It is a cord shaped like a "y". One end plugs into the IDE connector in the Mobo, then other 2 ends plug into the CD drives. These 2 darn ends will not say in at all! They fit easily, but too easily! AHH...What should I do?