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can't seem to start or maintain a relationship with a girl? hopefully you're not like this

K

kei

Senior member
taken from eric's link to a male bashing site
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Why Nice Guys Suck


Nice guys quickly get emotionally attached. Sucking the life of you.

Nice guys make you their Life, their only source of happiness.

Nice guys laugh at your jokes...before you've even reached the punchline.

Nice guys have no real life or interest of their own. They sit around and dream of getting a girlfriend to fill their empty lives.

Nice guys suffocate their girlfriends, expecting them to be their lovers, mother, sister, princess, china doll, best buddy and the Goddess who brings up the sun in the morning.

Nice guys are confused about romance. They either go overboard and bring a dozen roses to a "lets go for a walk in the park" date...or...they do nothing.

Nice guys pretend to be 'just our friend' and then go home and fantasize about us mothering their 'nice guy' kids.

Nice guys will make you feel guilty if you spend a minute anywhere but with them.

Dating a nice guy is like dating yourself. If you like Broccoli, he likes Broccoli. If you hate Jay Leno, he hates Jay Leno. If you order a Shirley Temple, he orders a Shirley Temple. If you are pro capital punishment, he is pro capital punishment. If you think Austin Powers was disgusting he thinks Austin Powers was disgusting. If you prefer Kotex over Tampax...

Nice guys never do for you anything for the simple sake of giving. Everything
they do for their girlfriends are like stock investments. Each gift he gives you, or loving gesture he shows you, is really a guaranteed down payment toward a future of him clinging to you like a drowning man to a life-saver.

Nice guys will never actually tell their girlfriends when they don't like what she's doing. Instead, he will get mad about it six months later.

Nice guys truly think that they are making their girlfriends happy by sacrificing their own life, desires, wants, needs, opinions, and identities to that of their girlfriends. They can then claim that "no one will ever love you as much as I do".

Nice guys feel so undeserving of 'awesome you' that they make you feel that you have, most assuredly, picked a real loser.

Nice guys turn into stalkers. They already know your schedule. They will call you and hangup just to hear your voice. They will drive by your house to look at your parked car. They will get depressed if they don?t see you online.

Nice guys think that if a woman doesn't want to have anything to do with their boring, empty shell of manlihood, they're stupid bitches who would rather be with a jerk that beats them.
 
::waves to kei:: 🙂🙂

Who's Eric? Even if you don't tell me, I will find my information in the end. Muahahaha!😉
 
haha ... that list does not sound like a nice guy ... it sounds more like a obssesive stalker to me hehe

anyways ... sick of being so called pathetic " AFC "(average frustrated chump)... check this out .... pickupguide

don't ask me how i found it haha 😉
 
Nice guys pretend to be 'just our friend' and then go home and fantasize about us mothering their 'nice guy' kids.

bwhaha! that one made me laugh out loud 🙂 so creepy!

i used to fill about 1-3 of those lines... then i got a job... and now instead of getting emotionally attached to girls, i get emotionally attached to work. which is good because work gives me money 🙂
 


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Nice guys think that if a woman doesn't want to have anything to do with their boring, empty shell of manlihood, they're stupid bitches who would rather be with a jerk that beats them. >>




The number of times I've read exactly that statement on this board...
 


<< Nice guys think that if a woman doesn't want to have anything to do with their boring, empty shell of manlihood, they're stupid bitches who would rather be with a jerk that beats them. >>

Yep, this is every woman's dream.
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😛
 


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<< Nice guys think that if a woman doesn't want to have anything to do with their boring, empty shell of manlihood, they're stupid bitches who would rather be with a jerk that beats them. >>

The number of times I've read exactly that statement on this board... >>


Yep. And I've heard it just as many times in real life too...
 


<< Nice girls...........................................................don't exist. >>


I've dated "nice girls" who would fit the converse of each of the statements Kei listed...they're also pretty bad 🙁
 
you know what?
you can turn that around on girls too especially:


<< Nice guys have no real life or interest of their own. They sit around and dream of getting a girlfriend to fill their empty lives >>




<< Nice guys will never actually tell their girlfriends when they don't like what she's doing. Instead, he will get mad about it six months later. >>




<< Nice guys turn into stalkers. They already know your schedule. They will call you and hangup just to hear your voice. They will drive by your house to look at your parked car. They will get depressed if they don?t see you online >>




you know what though?
alotta that i agree with though i dont associate it all with 'nice guys' just 'really lonely guys with low self confidence'

*kat. <-- needs to get dressed still 😛
 


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<< Nice girls...........................................................don't exist. >>


I've dated "nice girls" who would fit the converse of each of the statements Kei listed...they're also pretty bad 🙁 >>



hmm... well i haven't, but i've dated a truly nice girl... like someone who was just about the nicest person you could ever hope to meet.
 


<< you know what though?
alotta that i agree with though i dont associate it all with 'nice guys' just 'really lonely guys with low self confidence' >>


LOL. So true.
 
thank god i never had chick problems...infact...i never had to ask a girl out...there was just always one there wanting to hook up with me....but im married now (yes, she is a hottie) so i just get to look now days =)
 
sounds like a jaded and confused person who has had one too many bad relationships.

//Not referring to anyone in this thread.....
 
No offence, but In my opinion: It is certainly true about nice guys at the forums on the 'net or just on the 'net. On that note, I would say those so-called nice guys are stalkers and possessive.

However, I'm not sure if it is true about most or all nice guys in real life, though. I happen to luv nice guys in real life, provided he isn't too nice 'cuz then he makes me feel guilty. 😱
 
What I noticed about "nice" people is that they often lie to themselves by denying all sorts of stuff they want. They think just about everything from the standpoint of "others" that they don't take a chance to take care of themselves.
 


<< No offence, but In my opinion: It is certainly true about nice guys at the forums on the 'net or just on the 'net. On that note, I would say those so-called nice guys are stalkers and possessive.

However, I'm not sure if it is true about most or all nice guys in real life, though. I happen to luv nice guys in real life, provided he isn't too nice 'cuz then he makes me feel guilty. 😱 >>




weeell.... i think it depends on your definition of "nice guy". there are sincerely nice guys, and then there are f*cked up nice guys (see above).
 
None of those sound like real "nice guys", more like "pathetic, insecure loosers".

I guess the connection is because so many pathetic, insecure loosers whine that they are "nice guys finishing last", eh?


"Loosers are always whining about their best, winners go home and **** the prom queen." - Sean Connery in 'The Rock'. 🙂


So if girls don't want "nice guys", and they don't want "jerks that beat them", what do they want? I think they want secure, happy, funny, hard-working guys who love them for who they (the girl) are - not for how the girl makes the guy feel.

My advice to guys having trouble picking up girls - stop trying. Instead work on yourself, and being happy and confident with who you are. Make friends of both genders - make something good of your life.

And then let relationships happen because of mutual attraction and interests, not because the guy "needs" one!
 
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