Originally posted by: abc
Originally posted by: Ilmater
Cool, thanks guys. It seems it's basically impossible to be sure of the right way of spelling this without just asking him personally. Is there any best way to go about this? Does anyone that's foreign get upset when we ignorant Americans can't pronounce your name?
i'm not a foreigner so I'm not directly answering your question, but it's not annoying unless you see something as easy as Wang or Chen...
come out as Wong or Chan when you've known each other for 1, 2, 3, months or more.
This is not even a pronunciation issue... this shows you don't give a fcuk courtesy to Asian surnames... even more so when it's otherwise clear the person is not laissez-faire or aloof, only when it comes to Asian names.
When I meet a Goldstein, I never turn it into a Goldberg, or a Wienstein the next day.
When i meet a ms. torcelli, it doesn't become ms. torlini the next week.. 'oh i'm sorry'...
I've heard an Asian client over the phone get peeved over the phone at my boss when i had a parttime job as a teen over this. My boss had her resume on his desk yet says the wrong last name over the phone, and after the call, he was embarrassed and had no excuse... it finally sank into him an issue he never saw the other side of... he for those initial seconds wanted to figure out why she was upset but he realized it.