Can a regular guy get a really hot smart girl?

SoftwareEng

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Can a regular guy (ok-looking, pretty smart, good manners and salary) get a very cute/hot, smart girl and keep her? Or are all hot girls spoiled nowadays?
 

ballmode

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nope, most "hot" girls know they are hot and when they get bored they can go find another man anytime

plus they tend to look for the hottest guys around too

Helps if they are rich it just adds the ease
 

Wreckem

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Id say its possible, Ive seen several hot girls dating some pretty average guys. Though I can't say how smart the girls were, but they were probably 8-9 in looks while their boyfriends were average.
 

EvilYoda

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Why should they? If you were a smart and good looking man, would you settle? Sure, "true love" and all that, but I doubt it.
 

SoftwareEng

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Originally posted by: EvilYoda
Why should they? If you were a smart and good looking man, would you settle? Sure, "true love" and all that, but I doubt it.

looks aren't everything... there's the compatibility, similar interests, shared experiences, etc... besides, don't people look more attractive after you fall in love with them anyway?

so yes I would "Settle".
 

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If you make 6 figures and have a million in a the bank account, yes. Anything less than 6 figures and millions in the bank, she'll dump you for the guy with 10 millions that's chasing her
 

EvilYoda

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Originally posted by: SoftwareEng
Originally posted by: EvilYoda
Why should they? If you were a smart and good looking man, would you settle? Sure, "true love" and all that, but I doubt it.

looks aren't everything... there's the compatibility, similar interests, shared experiences, etc... besides, don't people look more attractive after you fall in love with them anyway?

so yes I would "Settle".

Well to each his own...I'd probably never talk to the unattractive girl in the first place to realize the "compatibility, similar interests, shared experiences, etc". I've dated attractive women, intelligent women and some that were both. Just haven't found the right one yet, is all.

Settle when you're 35.
 

Captante

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Originally posted by: SoftwareEng
Can a regular guy (ok-looking, pretty smart, good manners and salary) get a very cute/hot, smart girl and keep her? Or are all hot girls spoiled nowadays?


Bolded the important part ... & how long you keep depends on just how good it is!
 

Whisper

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Yes, it all depends on the two people involved. I know plenty of very attractive females who fall into the stereotypical "gold-digging" roll, and plenty of other very attractive females who don't. In the end, it's all about compatibility, and whether or not you can each treat each other how you need to be treated.
 

SoftwareEng

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Originally posted by: Whisper
Yes, it all depends on the two people involved. I know plenty of very attractive females who fall into the stereotypical "gold-digging" roll, and plenty of other very attractive females who don't. In the end, it's all about compatibility, and whether or not you can each treat each other how you need to be treated.

i guess that's what I wanted to hear. That the girl eventually would care about how she's treated/respected/loved more than the $, cars, and some other material things...
 

Whisper

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Originally posted by: SoftwareEng
Originally posted by: Whisper
Yes, it all depends on the two people involved. I know plenty of very attractive females who fall into the stereotypical "gold-digging" roll, and plenty of other very attractive females who don't. In the end, it's all about compatibility, and whether or not you can each treat each other how you need to be treated.

i guess that's what I wanted to hear. That the girl eventually would care about how she's treated/respected/loved more than the $, cars, and some other material things...

Well, that isn't always the case; different people place different levels of value on different things. There are some girls who, no matter what you do, wouldn't be compatible with you (and vice-versa, obviously).

But I will say that in my experience, females--for the most part, and this is a gross generalization--seem to place less importance on looks than do men.
 

ColdFusion718

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It depends on the girl. If she is shallow and materialistic, use her then dump her before she can do the same to you.
 

kaname

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If you can knock her bottom out like nobody else can...then yeah, you can keep her.
 

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Regarding the "And keep her" part...

Remember, anything is possible with a 3'x3'x6' cage, some duct tape and a stun gun.
 

SoftwareEng

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Originally posted by: binister
Regarding the "And keep her" part...

Remember, anything is possible with a 3'x3'x6' cage, some duct tape and a stun gun.

Borat, is that you?
 

Xstatic1

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Originally posted by: binister
Regarding the "And keep her" part...

Remember, anything is possible with a 3'x3'x6' cage, some duct tape and a stun gun.


LOL
 

Sluggo

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Yeah, but it makes the guy sofaking paranoid that everyone is out to steal his girl that eventually he goes insane.

Its like, ya know, like a well known fact.
 

ThePresence

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Yes. It doesn't take looks, it takes attitude.
Basically, if you are a complete jackass you will end up with a hot chick.
 

SoftwareEng

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Originally posted by: Sluggo
Yeah, but it makes the guy sofaking paranoid that everyone is out to steal his girl that eventually he goes insane.

Its like, ya know, like a well known fact.

and that makes the guy much less attractive to the girl (the paranoid part, not the going insane)