broke up with my girlfriend....

[anxi80]

Topic Summary: what to do?

"oh, godfather, i don't know what to do. i don't know what to do."
[shouting] "you can act like a man!"
[he slaps johnny]
"what's the matter with you. is this how you turned out?"
[don corleone imitates him sobbing]
"what can I do? what can I do? what is that nonsense. ridiculous."

 

[Skunkwourk]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: Scribe
We were two different people, not bad... just not meant for each other I think.

Why were you not meant for one another? Do you feel this way JUST because of the parents?

Im curious as well. Shes already "Hot and Sweet", if shes got some intelligence, realize that despite your families, you may be letting go of a good thing.

 

[IceBergSLiM]

get your parents under control

 

[j00fek]

just get her to come over and HIT IT HARD

 

[Shyatic]

No to be honest... we rushed into it a lot, and as it stands right now I can't find all the reasons I thought I had when we first got into the relationship for being together... she's a nice person, good looking, but we are different people... very different. My parents just don't like her parents but with that drama, helped me to step back long enough to see that we just aren't the right people for each other.

 

[Maxspeed996]

Get her to yer bunk , and bed the lass , and give er rump a good poundin ya lilly livered scoundrel. What r ye , a bit o soft hearted lad so it seems.

 

[GuitarDaddy]

If your so easily influenced by your parents she's better off without you. You should have your parents pick your next woman

 

[IceBergSLiM]

how old ru?

 

[SociallyChallenged]

I know that parents can be a big part, especially in the Asian cultures. You know, if you love her, go for it. You will regret it down the line if you really thought you and her had potential. Seriously, parents that like to boss their children around need to be showed that they cannot rule their child's life at one point or another. I say show them that they can't do this to you (only if you truly love her).

 

[randay]

Fellow ATOTers you are slacking, the answer is as plain as day:

PIITB.

 

[Scarpozzi]

What's the problem with the parents? I mean, is it really bad enough to break up over? Old people, such as parents, need to grow up and learn to get along.....sit them all down and work it out unless you just don't care for her anymore.

If you still care for her and you think she might be the one, don't give up on her...that's not fair to judge her by how well your 'rents get along.

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: Scarpozzi
What's the problem with the parents? I mean, is it really bad enough to break up over? Old people, such as parents, need to grow up and learn to get along.....sit them all down and work it out unless you just don't care for her anymore.

If you still care for her and you think she might be the one, don't give up on her...that's not fair to judge her by how well your 'rents get along.

my guess is he is 17 and doesnt know what love is yet.

 

[Circlenaut]

Originally posted by: SociallyChallenged
I know that parents can be a big part, especially in the Asian cultures. You know, if you love her, go for it. You will regret it down the line if you really thought you and her had potential. Seriously, parents that like to boss their children around need to be showed that they cannot rule their child's life at one point or another. I say show them that they can't do this to you (only if you truly love her).

Here here! My GF's mother had issues with me (because I was white, go figure...). At first my GF was threatning to break up me because of it. Then I told her the obvious, "you know you'll regret this down the line" and "will you let your mom pick who you marry even if you don't love them?". Oh they're vietnamese. She finally grew some balls and told her mom off. Of course her mom was uber pissed, but then she became silent. Everything is ok now, her dad and brother likes me (ever since the beginning). I think her mother realizing that being racist in america doesn't work changed her perspective. All I"m saying is dude, you have a mind. Use it to make YOUR choices. Your lucky to live in a culture that doesn't attached family lineage.

 

[UDT89]

true love doesnt involve parents. no matter what the background.

 

[zebano]

Originally posted by: ScottFern

Originally posted by: Beachboy
Shens.

Who would break up with a "hot and sweet" chick over parents? Not any hetero dude I know, that's for sure.

Sounds like cultural intolerance. NOT GOOD!!!

so what? There are lots of cultures I disagree with, and yes even some I am intolerant of (i.e. any that practice genital mutilation). Get over yourself.

 

[conehead433]

Go to a strip club.

 

[Ime]

Wow.

Just... wow.

 

[filetitan]

watch porn

 

[lokiju]

Yarr matey, these times can be tryin' but ye be fine in no time!

J

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: Scribe
No to be honest... we rushed into it a lot, and as it stands right now I can't find all the reasons I thought I had when we first got into the relationship for being together... she's a nice person, good looking, but we are different people... very different. My parents just don't like her parents but with that drama, helped me to step back long enough to see that we just aren't the right people for each other.

This sounds like a situation you will look back up on in, oh, 15 years or so, and wonder what the fvck you were thinking in letting her go. I'm also going to guess that your parents are the entire reason why you're breaking up, but you don't want to admit it.

 

[Corporate Thug]

Honestly, i think its much easier for both parties if there is a period of non communication

 

[EGGO]

Sounds like the OP isn't looking at the relationship anywhere past the "logical" sense of it and will refuse to do anything but accept her phone calls. He's doing just what the grown ups want him to do and the only person who is loyal is the girl.

You're going to really regret this man. Just because one is different shouldn't be a turn off unless it's things that you can't stand. I don't even know how she's different; it may be small things like musical tastes which I never saw a problem with, I have no idea but you're not telling us a great deal and in my opinion I side with the replies here that's telling you to grow up and get your own identity.

 

[Steve]

Originally posted by: Scribe
Topic Title: broke up with my girlfriend....
Topic Summary: what to do?

Fap furiously.

 

[ebaycj]

Originally posted by: Scribe
Topic Title: broke up with my girlfriend....
Topic Summary: what to do?

Masturbate profusely.


edit: PS you should have kept the chick and bitch-slapped your parents....

 

[clamum]

Originally posted by: randay
Fellow ATOTers you are slacking, the answer is as plain as day:

PIITB.

Didn't read the thread, did you?