broke up with my girlfriend....

Shyatic

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She calls me at work and on my cell phone... and cries to me. I am so soft with this stuff... I broke it off because my parents and her parents wouldn't get along, and for Pakistani families (which I am in) it's impossible to have a long term relationship without parents... besides I think we fell in love too fast because as I'm looking at it now, I can't remember what qualitie she had (other than being hot and sweet) that I was attracted to. We were two different people, not bad... just not meant for each other I think.

Now how can I deal with the crying? :(
 

moshquerade

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Originally posted by: Scribe
She calls me at work and on my cell phone... and cries to me. I am so soft with this stuff... I broke it off because my parents and her parents wouldn't get along, and for Pakistani families (which I am in) it's impossible to have a long term relationship without parents... besides I think we fell in love too fast because as I'm looking at it now, I can't remember what qualitie she had (other than being hot and sweet) that I was attracted to. We were two different people, not bad... just not meant for each other I think.

Now how can I deal with the crying? :(
have you tried telling her to stop calling?
 
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: Scribe
She calls me at work and on my cell phone... and cries to me. I am so soft with this stuff... I broke it off because my parents and her parents wouldn't get along, and for Pakistani families (which I am in) it's impossible to have a long term relationship without parents... besides I think we fell in love too fast because as I'm looking at it now, I can't remember what qualitie she had (other than being hot and sweet) that I was attracted to. We were two different people, not bad... just not meant for each other I think.

Now how can I deal with the crying? :(
have you tried telling her to stop calling?



C'mon Mosh, you know that won't work. She's trying to get him back. i hate to say it, but your only course of action is to stop answering the phone, no matter what she says in voicemail (and she will leave vm's, trust me). It's cold, but it's for the best.
 

Zolty

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Why wouldn't your parents get along with hers? Is she :Q differant from you?
 

moshquerade

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Originally posted by: MisterJackson
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: Scribe
She calls me at work and on my cell phone... and cries to me. I am so soft with this stuff... I broke it off because my parents and her parents wouldn't get along, and for Pakistani families (which I am in) it's impossible to have a long term relationship without parents... besides I think we fell in love too fast because as I'm looking at it now, I can't remember what qualitie she had (other than being hot and sweet) that I was attracted to. We were two different people, not bad... just not meant for each other I think.

Now how can I deal with the crying? :(
have you tried telling her to stop calling?



C'mon Mosh, you know that won't work. She's trying to get him back. i hate to say it, but your only course of action is to stop answering the phone, no matter what she says in voicemail (and she will leave vm's, trust me). It's cold, but it's for the best.
my suggestion was a start. OP has to stop being a wimp and just tell her to quit calling.
 

ElFenix

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hot and sweet? and you let your parents get in the way? man up.


either that or go on mancation.
 

altonb1

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Arrr...ye best be getting used to "walking the plank" if ye know what I mean, ye mongrel scallywag! No more raping and pillaging for ye!
 

Conky

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Shens.

Who would break up with a "hot and sweet" chick over parents? Not any hetero dude I know, that's for sure. :p
 

maximus maximus

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Tell her that she does not deserve a beloved patriot. :) (Had to crack a joke on a beloved patriot. Indian instinct ;)).

All righty!!!

Okay. I would ask her to stop calling. Maybe you should meet her one last time and say whatever you have to say to each other.
 

Kadarin

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Originally posted by: Scribe
We were two different people, not bad... just not meant for each other I think.

Why were you not meant for one another? Do you feel this way JUST because of the parents?
 

Gunslinger08

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Sounds like you need to do what makes you happy, not your family. Who gives a damn what they think? Do they have to live your life? No. It's your responsibility and your choice.
 

ScottFern

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Originally posted by: Beachboy
Shens.

Who would break up with a "hot and sweet" chick over parents? Not any hetero dude I know, that's for sure. :p

Sounds like cultural intolerance. NOT GOOD!!!
 

Forsythe

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Originally posted by: Scribe
She calls me at work and on my cell phone... and cries to me. I am so soft with this stuff... I broke it off because my parents and her parents wouldn't get along, and for Pakistani families (which I am in) it's impossible to have a long term relationship without parents... besides I think we fell in love too fast because as I'm looking at it now, I can't remember what qualitie she had (other than being hot and sweet) that I was attracted to. We were two different people, not bad... just not meant for each other I think.

Now how can I deal with the crying? :(

You're a pussy.