So tonight I was out with my girlfriend (err ex now) and she decided we were going to the bar, she knows I hate the bar but dragged me along anyways. We got there and I just sat and watched people play pool because I really didn't feel like dancing to the ****** band they had, and because there weren't a lot of people dancing. We left a while later and in my car she asked me "Why are we together?" Why do I think we were together? I really have no idea, generally its not something I would give a ton of thought to or write a 10 page paper on. She expected me to have all these answers and then started getting mad about the things we don't have in common, I agreed with everything she said and she said so I guess thats it then? I said yes, dropped her off and left. I am really not sure how I should have reacted to that situation, I didn't really think we had anything in common but we enjoyed being together sometimes. I wasn't just with her for sex, I liked being with her when she was in a good mood.
Some background: We had been dating for about 4 months, she was kinda insecure about herself, she also didn't have a lot of money which didn't really matter to me. This lack of money is something she brings up often and then begins comparing her life to mine and saying how I grew up being able to have whatever I wanted (not exactly true, but whatever close enough for her). First of all you can't really compare two peoples lives and expect them to have the same experiences, and secondly if she wants to change her financial situation then she has to make proactive steps to do so and not waste money on things like alcohol, cigarettes etc. She also claimed that she didn't want to change for anyone and didn't want anyone to have to change for her but constantly tried to change what I liked, wanted me to listen to her music, do the things she likes.
Sorry that this post is somewhat all over the place and if it doesn't make sense I will fix it in the morning, I am just really tired and kinda annoyed.
EDIT: I should also mention that I don't really care that she broke up with me, I was a bit annoyed, but could see it coming. The "Why are we together?" or any question of that nature are pretty good reasons to end it I think.
Some background: We had been dating for about 4 months, she was kinda insecure about herself, she also didn't have a lot of money which didn't really matter to me. This lack of money is something she brings up often and then begins comparing her life to mine and saying how I grew up being able to have whatever I wanted (not exactly true, but whatever close enough for her). First of all you can't really compare two peoples lives and expect them to have the same experiences, and secondly if she wants to change her financial situation then she has to make proactive steps to do so and not waste money on things like alcohol, cigarettes etc. She also claimed that she didn't want to change for anyone and didn't want anyone to have to change for her but constantly tried to change what I liked, wanted me to listen to her music, do the things she likes.
Sorry that this post is somewhat all over the place and if it doesn't make sense I will fix it in the morning, I am just really tired and kinda annoyed.
EDIT: I should also mention that I don't really care that she broke up with me, I was a bit annoyed, but could see it coming. The "Why are we together?" or any question of that nature are pretty good reasons to end it I think.
