Break up to Make up

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slurmsmackenzie

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two words.... BACK BURNER!!!!!!!!

if you have the opportunity to keep things amicable (and you aren't a horrid slouch in the sack) then there's no reason you can't get some inbetween action with your ex. they all do it.... ALL OF THEM. don't waste an opportunity to bang her like you've always wanted to... AS THE TRASHY GIRL ON THE SIDE.
 

lavagirl669

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being with the same person from a young age often
causes one to wonder what they missed and perhaps
will cause problems to arise later.

This is probably something she is recognizing right now and
it is actually a good thing....
better than investing a lot more time and energy into the relationship
not to mention feelings and emotion....and then finding that out later.

Hang in there...if it is meant to be she'll be back.
 

xSauronx

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Originally posted by: lavagirl669
being with the same person from a young age often
causes one to wonder what they missed and perhaps
will cause problems to arise later.

This is probably something she is recognizing right now and
it is actually a good thing....
better than investing a lot more time and energy into the relationship
not to mention feelings and emotion....and then finding that out later.

Hang in there...if it is meant to be she'll be back.

yeah, could be worse...im married, were 22, and my wife handed me the same crap 2 weeks ago and has moved out.

2 kids too. i love her, but im conflicted between wanting to beg her to come back...and wanting to run her over with a steamroller for pulling this crap. damn wimmin :|
 

Conky

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Originally posted by: xSauronx
Originally posted by: lavagirl669
being with the same person from a young age often
causes one to wonder what they missed and perhaps
will cause problems to arise later.

This is probably something she is recognizing right now and
it is actually a good thing....
better than investing a lot more time and energy into the relationship
not to mention feelings and emotion....and then finding that out later.

Hang in there...if it is meant to be she'll be back.

yeah, could be worse...im married, were 22, and my wife handed me the same crap 2 weeks ago and has moved out.

2 kids too. i love her, but im conflicted between wanting to beg her to come back...and wanting to run her over with a steamroller for pulling this crap. damn wimmin :|

Go with the steamroller... ;)


 
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funny this thread should come up...i kinda think things are headed this way with my gf and i...but i think it'll be for the better...for both of us...i've been getting more and more used to the idea of being single again...i can ask out that cute blonde that's been hitting on me for a month or so at a local drive through convienence store ;)
 

chimmytime

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Originally posted by: xSauronx

yeah, could be worse...im married, were 22, and my wife handed me the same crap 2 weeks ago and has moved out.

2 kids too. i love her, but im conflicted between wanting to beg her to come back...and wanting to run her over with a steamroller for pulling this crap. damn wimmin :|

Isn't it the most conflicting feelings you can have for a person!

Thankfully im not one to mope, i did my drinking phase, and now i've started concentrating on making some money, and maybe start a new business.

im going up the portland to clear my head with an old friend. not in that kind of way, but maybe i will because she does hang out with a lot of girls.


... HA, i love waking up in the morning to see the night crew chime in with advice.

 

chimmytime

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Originally posted by: alm4rr
lotsa noobs here gettin all serious @ <26 yrs old

Well im turning 26 this year, and it worries me just a little bit when i see friends getting married.

Also im next inline to get married between my sister and cousins.

No plans on getting married soon, but still its in the back of my head.
 

GasX

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Originally posted by: chimmytime
Trying to move on, you can dig yourself a big whole being in a long relationship.

I guess it doesn't happen as much as i thought outside my life.

Can I mambo dogface in the banana patch?
 

chimmytime

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Jul 26, 2002
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Originally posted by: Mwilding
Originally posted by: chimmytime
Trying to move on, you can dig yourself a big whole being in a long relationship.

I guess it doesn't happen as much as i thought outside my life.

Can I mambo dogface in the banana patch?


wtf?
 

Brassman

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Whoa... that was almost exactly what happened with me and my girlfriend... we got engaged at 21 after being away at school for a year and then she broke up with me 6 months later... I was with her for 3 years. Weird!
 
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its almost exact as science.. i have seen this so many fscking times with so many people.. and even i had it.

Women around age 21 want other guys.. in my case if you are single, this is the great time to get booty from other women, they are such nymph's, just use and dump them like cleanex tissues.

like i said move on, you dont want drama in your life. YOu might love her but its going to come back and bite you in the ass. And dont take her back when she brings her sorry ass back to you crying.. its just another game she is playing. Be strong.