Boyfriend problem...what would you do?

[MercenaryForHire]

Stop cutting into his time with his boyfriend.

- M4H

 

[shimsham]

what are you two fighting about? what was the "big" one over? that would make a big difference here. sounds like hes being smothered, and instead of trying to talk to you in a logical manner (which is impossible most of the time with women), hes had all he can take and just blew up.

why is everyone saying the guy is an a$$hole? the room belongs to his roommate also! if the roomie doesnt want her there all the damn time, he has every right to say so, and her boyfriend, and her, should be respectful of that. neither of them obviously are, so if i was the roomie, id be pissed and hate her too.

nobody really knows what happened, so quit taking "her" side just because "she" is a "girl". you arent going to get any.

 

[munruss]

Bang his roommate. then he won't mind that you're there!

 

[Geekbabe]

Where is Fausto1 with the cliff notes for the ADD impaired?

 

[eakers]

alright, i'll bite despite there being many signals this thread is fake.

you shouldn't let someone treat you with such disrespect. if he isn't calling or missing you perhaps your relationship is not what you think it is.

 

[fs5]

if you guys have been together since high school and just recently moved to college, the signals are he's going to break up with you once he finds the next college hottie.

 

[silverpig]

He prolly just fvcked up and knows he didn't handle the situation well. He also probably doesn't want to admit it. He wants to put it behind you and move on.

Quit dragging it out like it's a crisis and just forget it.

 

[GoHAnSoN]

pics first, comment later...🙂

 

[Jeff7181]

Originally posted by: JENNY2003

Originally posted by: Jeff7181
If the way he is, or the things he does bothers you, do both of you a favor and find someone else.

So you guys seriously think that if you were in a relationship for 4 years and this happened youd leave? hummm...

Just because you were together for 4 years doesn't mean you're soul mates.

*EDIT* Things like that don't just happen out of the blue, most of the time when something like this happens it's been a long time coming. Big blowout fights are the result of pent up anger/frustration/hurt/etc. that gets released when one person or the other finally finds a good enough reason to let the other know what's been going on.

In your case, I would assume that this type of stuff has happened before, on a smaller scale, and you've ignored it and let it go. Now that you're aware that this may not have just happened out of the blue, think back and try to remember times when his feelings, or lack of feelings gave an indication that he was losing interest. The fact that he's apologizing doesn't mean much, he may just not want it to end like you don't. Nobody likes to end a long term relationship, so normally the little things get ignored and put off and the relationship is over long before it ends.

 

[revvy]

looking for advice in the anandtech forums.. haha.. sorry.. i just find that to be mildly amusing 🙂