blah...... my woes.....

[Monoman]

One month from this morning (29Oct03) my bestfriend died in a car wreck. We were VERY close growing up in HS and all then he moved to go to college at Clemson University. His dads a DR thats why. Anyways, the hardest part of his passing is the fact we didn't talk for nearly a year. You see? we lived two totally different lives. I am married, 2 kids and in the Air Force while he is a n active college frat kid. With distance not being a factor, (which is over 2000 miles) we could have called eachother all the time but we didn't. It was Feb of this year was the last comunication we had until I spoke with his folks one night. I guess all I am looking for in this thread is should I feel this damn bad about not talking as it's all my fault or was it both way. I know logically neither of us made an attempt to talk but to me it feels like it's all my fault.

If you actually read this thread, thanks for listening and I hope it makes sence.

Mitch

 

[Tetsuo]

Keep your head up

 

[Wallydraigle]

People grow apart. Like you said, the two of you just went down different paths. It's nothing to feel guilty about, it's just the way life works. It doesn't matter, there's nothing I can say to make you feel better, so just hang in there.

 

[Amorphus]

Originally posted by: Tetsuo
Keep your head up

chalk it up on your "mistakes I won't make again" list, and move on. sucks, but life goes on (er. for you.)

 

[gooseman]

Sorry to hear of the loss.

 

[Monoman]

thanks for the insight. all of this I know needs to be done it's just easier said than done.

 

[JEDI]

Originally posted by: lirion
People grow apart. Like you said, the two of you just went down different paths. It's nothing to feel guilty about, it's just the way life works. It doesn't matter, there's nothing I can say to make you feel better, so just hang in there.

 

[zuljinAF]

ouch man, i'm sorry.... I remembering hear about that last year at Clemson.... sorry man.. its not ur fauly its just the way life happens.. ... but it does all happen for a reason.. no matter how unsure of that we may me...

For anyone else that reads NEVER let a chance pass by to talk to someone u care about.... I like Monoman learned it the hard way! take a min. and call... its not worth never getting the chance...


zuljin

 

[Azraele]

Originally posted by: lirion
People grow apart. Like you said, the two of you just went down different paths. It's nothing to feel guilty about, it's just the way life works. It doesn't matter, there's nothing I can say to make you feel better, so just hang in there.

Well said.

You have my condolences.