I understand that she was having second thoughts........But, how can you put your family through that kind of grief? The boyfriend seems like a standup type guy, who knows, but if you are not sure, who gives a crap how much money was spent on the wedding, just say "i need some time to make sure". People can understand that! But, what she did? There is some real underlying things going on with that.
But, personally, I think she needs to pay for what she did........if there is no law she has to pay for the moral obligation she threw out the window on her family and fiancee.........I mean to say "oh that poor girl".........that is crap......lets get real here.......if you got to think things out you go say I need some time and space ..........you go to the park, someplace to be alone, but you dont do this to the people who love and care about you........especially the parents.
And if boyfriend goes through with marrying her..........he is a bigger fruitloop than she is!