Best Online Dating Site?...

Pixle

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I've heard of match.com eharmony true . But which is the absolute best in page and number of teenage and early 20's hot girls?

Maybe even just for more friends etc... in the California ( Santa Barbara ) area?

 

KLin

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myspace, facebook, local paper, bars, college libraries, etc.
 

Leros

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myspace?

i dunno, I dont see the point in making friends via the internet.
 

OOBradm

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if your in college join a club of some kind. or get a job working at panera bread or some other chick place
 

aswedc

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All the people who post in these threads saying go outside are either lying or live somewhere totally different from myself. Cause everytime I go to class no one talks to each other, hell no one sits next to each other unless there aren't any other seats. Makes me feel damn strange to be the one starting conversations with random chicks in a quiet room...

Edit: This is also true of library, Starbucks, grocery, etc...
 

computersshopper

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Most of the dating site have no real people there, if you participate in local or regional level social networking site, that would be better.
 

2Xtreme21

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Originally posted by: aswedc
All the people who post in these threads saying go outside are either lying or live somewhere totally different from myself. Cause everytime I go to class no one talks to each other, hell no one sits next to each other unless there aren't any other seats. Makes me feel damn strange to be the one starting conversations with random chicks in a quiet room...

Edit: This is also true of library, Starbucks, grocery, etc...

QFT! :thumbsup:
 

Baked

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Originally posted by: aswedc
All the people who post in these threads saying go outside are either lying or live somewhere totally different from myself. Cause everytime I go to class no one talks to each other, hell no one sits next to each other unless there aren't any other seats. Makes me feel damn strange to be the one starting conversations with random chicks in a quiet room...

Edit: This is also true of library, Starbucks, grocery, etc...

Quote for the motherfvcking truth. How the fvck do people strike up conversations in college? Well they don't unless the instructor assigns a group project.
 

AbAbber2k

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Originally posted by: Baked
Originally posted by: aswedc
All the people who post in these threads saying go outside are either lying or live somewhere totally different from myself. Cause everytime I go to class no one talks to each other, hell no one sits next to each other unless there aren't any other seats. Makes me feel damn strange to be the one starting conversations with random chicks in a quiet room...

Edit: This is also true of library, Starbucks, grocery, etc...

Quote for the motherfvcking truth. How the fvck do people strike up conversations in college? Well they don't unless the instructor assigns a group project.

The same way you strike up a conversation with a total stranger anywhere else? :confused:
 

KarmaPolice

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Originally posted by: Baked
Originally posted by: aswedc
All the people who post in these threads saying go outside are either lying or live somewhere totally different from myself. Cause everytime I go to class no one talks to each other, hell no one sits next to each other unless there aren't any other seats. Makes me feel damn strange to be the one starting conversations with random chicks in a quiet room...

Edit: This is also true of library, Starbucks, grocery, etc...

Quote for the motherfvcking truth. How the fvck do people strike up conversations in college? Well they don't unless the instructor assigns a group project.


I dont mean TONS of people in class but I always know the people next to me. Maybe not the first day but eventually you will talk to them. Get there early, say "did you do the homework last night"
She will say yeah or no.
THen she will prob ask a quesiton back like "did you?"
and you can say yes or no and be like "Yeah but I had to go to a concert last night so it was rough"
then she would be like "what concert"
OMG we are talking!

Also helps when you get father in your major..caus then you will see the same people over and over again. Doesn thappen in my major but other ones like chem, bio, and stuff where there are TONS of work...they all seem to get to know eachtoher a lot cause they have to study so much.
 

aswedc

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Originally posted by: Baked
Quote for the motherfvcking truth. How the fvck do people strike up conversations in college? Well they don't unless the instructor assigns a group project.
And that's not the worst part. So I talk to random people anyway. But somehow I haven't quite figured out how to end a conversation with anything else but "I'll see ya next class" without seeming like a complete tool when no one else in the room even says a word to people they don't know.
 

Baked

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Originally posted by: AbAbber2k
Originally posted by: Baked
Originally posted by: aswedc
All the people who post in these threads saying go outside are either lying or live somewhere totally different from myself. Cause everytime I go to class no one talks to each other, hell no one sits next to each other unless there aren't any other seats. Makes me feel damn strange to be the one starting conversations with random chicks in a quiet room...

Edit: This is also true of library, Starbucks, grocery, etc...

Quote for the motherfvcking truth. How the fvck do people strike up conversations in college? Well they don't unless the instructor assigns a group project.

The same way you strike up a conversation with a total stranger anywhere else? :confused:

LIES! Only creepy pervs do that.
 

kmrivers

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Originally posted by: Baked
Originally posted by: aswedc
All the people who post in these threads saying go outside are either lying or live somewhere totally different from myself. Cause everytime I go to class no one talks to each other, hell no one sits next to each other unless there aren't any other seats. Makes me feel damn strange to be the one starting conversations with random chicks in a quiet room...

Edit: This is also true of library, Starbucks, grocery, etc...

Quote for the motherfvcking truth. How the fvck do people strike up conversations in college? Well they don't unless the instructor assigns a group project.
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Talk to people. This is the problem with mySpace and all this other online garbage. People cant even have a fvckin conversation with someone. You telling me you cant strike up a conversation? Are you scared? What exactly is the problem? Talk, open your mouth and let sounds come out. Chances are someone will do the same back to you.

Wow then you would actually be meeting someone in person, not making a list of people that you dont fvcking know.

 

apologetic

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Originally posted by: aswedc
Originally posted by: Baked
Quote for the motherfvcking truth. How the fvck do people strike up conversations in college? Well they don't unless the instructor assigns a group project.
And that's not the worst part. So I talk to random people anyway. But somehow I haven't quite figured out how to end a conversation with anything else but "I'll see ya next class" without seeming like a complete tool when no one else in the room even says a word to people they don't know.

Try "Hey, I'm having some people over later, want to come?" or "I'm going to a concert this weekend, want to go?" or even "Let's do lunch." Stop being so shy, make friends with strangers even if nobody else is.
 

Pixle

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Facebook is a social networking service for high school, college, university, corporate, non-profit, military and geographic communities primarily in English-speaking countries. On September 11, 2006, Facebook announced that it would open its membership up to all Internet users, although no date for the change is currently set.[1] As of December 2005, it had the largest number of registered users among college-focused sites (at over 7.5 million US college student accounts created with an additional 20,000 new accounts being created daily).[2] It is the number one site for photos, ahead of public sites such as Flickr, with 2.3 million photos uploaded daily[3], and is the seventh most trafficked site in the United States, according to ComScore's MediaMetrix.

This seems like a cool site but from the login view, it looks pretty plain. Is their anything better out their that teenagers would use.

And can myspace lookup people in your area , and you can just randomly come about their page or what?

What would be best, to meet new people? The facebook or myspace?

I'm looking to meet alot of new girls, so im guessing myspace and facebook is more of a friends approach than relationship thing ? Can anyone explain this?
 

aswedc

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Originally posted by: apologetic

Try "Hey, I'm having some people over later, want to come?" or "I'm going to a concert this weekend, want to go?" or even "Let's do lunch." Stop being so shy, make friends with strangers even if nobody else is.
Missed the point of my post. Of course I know what to ask. The question is, is it possible to do so without the entire class thinking I'm a douchebag? Cause I don't know where you're from, but nobody else does that here.
 

KarmaPolice

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Originally posted by: Pixle
Facebook is a social networking service for high school, college, university, corporate, non-profit, military and geographic communities primarily in English-speaking countries. On September 11, 2006, Facebook announced that it would open its membership up to all Internet users, although no date for the change is currently set.[1] As of December 2005, it had the largest number of registered users among college-focused sites (at over 7.5 million US college student accounts created with an additional 20,000 new accounts being created daily).[2] It is the number one site for photos, ahead of public sites such as Flickr, with 2.3 million photos uploaded daily[3], and is the seventh most trafficked site in the United States, according to ComScore's MediaMetrix.

This seems like a cool site but from the login view, it looks pretty plain. Is their anything better out their that teenagers would use.

And can myspace lookup people in your area , and you can just randomly come about their page or what?

What would be best, to meet new people? The facebook or myspace?

I'm looking to meet alot of new girls, so im guessing myspace and facebook is more of a friends approach than relationship thing ? Can anyone explain this?

Facebook is more just for when you meet someone in REAL life and then add them. It can help a relationship move forward....not really ment for meeting knew people unless you have already a lot of friends on there. Myspace is more open to meeting knew people cause u can just randomly msg people. but yes...both are more social netowrking then date sites.
 

Baked

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Originally posted by: aswedc
Originally posted by: apologetic

Try "Hey, I'm having some people over later, want to come?" or "I'm going to a concert this weekend, want to go?" or even "Let's do lunch." Stop being so shy, make friends with strangers even if nobody else is.
Missed the point of my post. Of course I know what to ask. The question is, is it possible to do so without the entire class thinking I'm a douchebag? Cause I don't know where you're from, but nobody else does that here.

I feel the same way. Everybody's just so cold around here. Nobody talks to each other and just go their separate ways after class. I feel like a drone.
 

KarmaPolice

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Originally posted by: aswedc
Originally posted by: apologetic

Try "Hey, I'm having some people over later, want to come?" or "I'm going to a concert this weekend, want to go?" or even "Let's do lunch." Stop being so shy, make friends with strangers even if nobody else is.
Missed the point of my post. Of course I know what to ask. The question is, is it possible to do so without the entire class thinking I'm a douchebag? Cause I don't know where you're from, but nobody else does that here.

You dont have to yell it. I usually dont start really asking people to do things untill weve been the class a while but talk to them when the class ends. Make it a convo that will take a bit longer then ...hey see ya later. Walk out with them..go the way they are, and say want to get lunch, or what are u up to tonight....whatever
 

Pixle

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Wow then you would actually be meeting someone in person, not making a list of people that you dont fvcking know.

I get your point but I was looking to go about like this.

Images Writings > Email Conversations > Calling Over The Phone > Going Out

I sort of have trouble starting a talk. I have no problem once starting to talk with a girl , having it go on.
 

apologetic

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Originally posted by: aswedc
Originally posted by: apologetic

Try "Hey, I'm having some people over later, want to come?" or "I'm going to a concert this weekend, want to go?" or even "Let's do lunch." Stop being so shy, make friends with strangers even if nobody else is.
Missed the point of my post. Of course I know what to ask. The question is, is it possible to do so without the entire class thinking I'm a douchebag? Cause I don't know where you're from, but nobody else does that here.

I guess you're doomed to have no social life
 

touchmyichi

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I'm guessing you never lived in dorms in college? That's where you really meet people. And then of course parties? through other friends? Campus clubs/organizations? Frats? There's plenty of ways to do it in real life.