Fuji f31 or f30 or f20 will do great
F31 - full manual controls with face detection
F30 - full manual controls / no face detection (not really needed anyhow)
F20 - Just as good as the f30 and f31 - but no direct control of shutter or apeture - you just use scene modes (like 'most people use point and shoots')
You can use the f30 or f31 as a p&s as well
Here is the deal. . .
The fuji uses a different sensor than most cameras that is designed for low light performance. You can go up to a usable ISO of 1600 in all three of these cams -with the f30 and f31 going up to 3200 (can be used for small snaps). . .
The larger the ISO the better pics it can take in low light IF and only IF it has a capable sensor. There are lots of cams that claim high ISO but they look like garbage at ISO 800 and ISO 1600 - there is where the fuji's win totally
Only the F Series of FUJIS and the S series do this - not the really cheap A series. . . The S series are superzooms like the s6000fd - which is like the f30/31 -but with a large zoom. . .
SO, if you want a small cam - the fuji is it.
Now the reason people are going on about dslr's is because they use a larger sensor with the lower cost dslr's using APS sized sensors and the expensive ones using a 'full frame' sensor.
Basically, the larger sensor = more dynamic range (color), and better low light (high ISO) performance. Pentax cams (imho) are the best 'cheap' DSLR's with high (iso 3200) performance. These include the k100d and k110d for low end (read 400-600 dollars with kit lens). . .
You can pick up a fuji f31d for about 230 dollars shipped on amazon right now. . . with a 30$ rebate from fuji available. . .
The fuji s6000fd is about 300 dollars shipped - but has a 50$ rebate available from fuji right now. . .
The f20 is the real steal in all of this - you can get it right now for 149. If you don't care about shutter and apeture you can just click away in low light. . .
http://www.amazon.com/Fujifilm...&qid=1181450140&sr=8-1
Link to rebates.
http://www.fujifilmrebates.com...earch.aspx?categoryid=
You can find the cameras easily on amazon. . .