I keep repeating myself. Having 6 intake and 3 exhaust is the main cause for your heat problems.
Lets go to a simple balance: in + generation - out - accumulation = 0. Set the control volume as your computer case. Since there is no chemical reaction, air is not generated or created within your case. So, you are left with the following equation: in - out = accumulation. In an ideal case, you have 181 cubic feet per minute flowing into your control volume. 60 of which are allowed to flow out. Therefore in your control volume, you have an accumulation of 121 cubic feet each minute. So, by minute two, you have 242 cubic feet of heated air stuck in your computer case minus the amount that get released from the cracks of the computer case.
In order to fix this system, you will need to a.) get rid of 3 intake fans b.) put a 120x38mm Delta Ultra high RPM fan as exhaust.
In conclusion, your CPU heatsink is not at fault, nor is the fan on it. Your cpu fan is simply using the warm air that it is recycling due to the net accumulation of heated air of 121 cfm in your case.
Once you have taken one of these moves and if you still have problems report back, otherwise, we will be sounding like a broken record.
Edit: In other words: unless you fix your airflow balance, no cpu heatsink/fan options will make a difference.