BAAAHAHAHA Even girls I just want to be friends with ditch me

[giantpinkbunnyhead]

Yes, drop her.

Then go to your local strip club If you're gonna be around women who only act superficial, at least do it where you can see or touch some tail!

 

[Accipiter22]

Originally posted by: zephyrprime

Originally posted by: Accipiter22

Originally posted by: Viperoni

Originally posted by: zephyrprime
You know, if she were a guy, this wouldn't even be a problem. You'd expect a guy friend you were at a bar with to try to pick up chicks.

The problem is, you're not really being her friend. You actually want something more. That's ok but the thing is, she's basically already rejected you. By feebly hanging on, you're just hurting yourself. Like a previous poster has said, why aren't you picking up chicks? Why do you keep on hanging out with a friend that sucks?

Now, she also doesn't sound like the best of friends since she does sound like she neglects you more than is acceptable. I guess she's using you as a wingman because she doesn't want to go to a bar by herself. A wingman relationship needs to be recipricol at some point like all healthy relationships and it doesn't sound like it is. Sounds like she is using you.

This, ladies, gentlemen and boys, is pretty much the situation at hand.
And incidentally, he's being used both a cockblock and a wingman.

yah.....it's more the fact that she syas 'oh i'll be right back' and then dissapears for an hour. Even if I was with a guy friend, if they said they were buying next round, and then dissapeared, I'd be pissed.


And yes, I do find her very attractive, but also like her personality even more. I wouldn't MIND if something happened between her and I, but I'm not going to force it.

You love her. Just admit it.

The worse part is, she has no doubt been getting a lot of action this entire bar-going time while our boy Accipiter22 has been getting none.

Doesn't that piss you off Accipiter22? Come on! Ditch her!

I dunno if I love her zephyrprime, I don't think I'd go that far. Sweet on her, definetly. But again, at the beggining of the summer when I first met her I said to myself that even if I was just her friend I'd be happy, because I enjoy her company. or something like that.

 

[giantpinkbunnyhead]

well forget what happened earlier this summer.

Look at the here and now... look at the history... do you still see value in her as a friend? Thats what you need to consider.

 

[bennylong]

[ when I first met her I said to myself that even if I was just her friend I'd be happy, because I enjoy her company. or something like that.

This sentence just made you the biggest loser in the world.

 

[LEDominator]

Originally posted by: Accipiter22
so I'm just friends with this girl I know....and everytime we hang out...we talk for like an hour or so in a bar, and then she always wanders off and finds other guys to talk to and just ignores me for the next 2 hours. Tonight she said it was her turn to buy a round, so she gets up from our table to go to the bar.....45 minutes later I see her with some other guy with his arm around her...lol seriously, this is life? I know any man is supposed to be self sufficient and able to make his own hapiness, but come on.....the tragedy is that I keep trying, I keep holding hope and things like this keep happening. What a waste of life I am

Find another girl

 

[Chrono]

STFU and stop feeling sorry for your sorry ass self. Time to stop bitching and do something about why girls don't like you.

 

[yowolabi]

Originally posted by: Accipiter22

I dunno if I love her zephyrprime, I don't think I'd go that far. Sweet on her, definetly. But again, at the beggining of the summer when I first met her I said to myself that even if I was just her friend I'd be happy, because I enjoy her company. or something like that.

I'm sure you believed it when you said it.....

Anyway, now she is neither your girl or your friend. So what are you getting from this relationship except a long lonely look at your status in her eyes? Ditch this girl, and find another one and make your intentions clear from the beginning about wanting to date her. Don't ever volunteer your self into the friend zone again.

 

[5150Joker]

Originally posted by: Accipiter22
so I'm just friends with this girl I know....and everytime we hang out...we talk for like an hour or so in a bar, and then she always wanders off and finds other guys to talk to and just ignores me for the next 2 hours. Tonight she said it was her turn to buy a round, so she gets up from our table to go to the bar.....45 minutes later I see her with some other guy with his arm around her...lol seriously, this is life? I know any man is supposed to be self sufficient and able to make his own hapiness, but come on.....the tragedy is that I keep trying, I keep holding hope and things like this keep happening. What a waste of life I am

Sounds like your friend is a whore anyway so I wouldn't care. Only cheap ho's look for guys at a bar. Next time take her to a gay bar and have the guys put their arms around you, that will teach her! LOL.

 

[TheSlamma]

Cause all the women at bars and clubs are QUALITY

 

[arcas]

Sounds like a classic case of AFC syndrome (average frustrated chump). You're clearly in her friend zone and yet you seem to be following her like a puppy hoping she'll eventually come around and see you for the swell guy that you are (otherwise her behavior wouldn't bother you). Have you come out and straight up explained your feelings to her? I'm guessing no. Why not? Are you afraid of losing her? Dude, you don't have her now. Are you going to wait until she meets someone else and gets engaged? Been there, done that. Trust me, it sucks. Next time you go out and you're sitting there talking to her for an hour, take control, change the subject and tell her how you feel. If she rejects you, move on. You haven't lost anything.

Edit:

Or better yet, don't ask her to go out next time. Let her ask you out. Then decline but offer an alternative: a "quiet, romantic evening" at your place. Do be sure to mention the "romantic" part to her so she won't misinterpret your intentions. Tell her you'll cook dinner and afterwards you'll watch a movie and share a bottle of wine. One of two things will happen: she'll accept or she'll decline. Either way, you'll know where you stand.

 

[Sphexi]

Just leave then? If she wanders off, why the hell would you sit there another 45 minutes watching her hang out with someone else? Simply get another beer, tell them she's paying, and leave.

 

[bennylong]

I say he has a serious case of inferority complex. No real man would say "I would be just happy being her friend and spending time with her."

 

[Art Vandelay]

Originally posted by: bennylong
I say he has a serious case of inferority complex. No real man would say "I would be just happy being her friend and spending time with her."

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