BAAAHAHAHA Even girls I just want to be friends with ditch me

[drerickarim]

i dont really know how to help you. i have very little experience in rejection.

u could try something radical. like kick the dude shes talking to, play the homo friend and hit on the same dude, or something. but doing nothing is the worst thing u can do.

 

[Nebor]

Originally posted by: drerickarim
i dont really know how to help you. i have very little experience in rejection.

u could try something radical. like kick the dude shes talking to, play the homo friend and hit on the same dude, or something. but doing nothing is the worst thing u can do.

I was going to rip on you for the "little experience in rejection" line (I mean, come on, who says that) but you saved it with this golden idea.

That is just hilarious. It would shock her dude, and it would shock her. Downside is you might get your ass kicked. Totally worth it though.

 

[arcas]

Originally posted by: drerickarim
i dont really know how to help you. i have very little experience in rejection.

u could try something radical. like kick the dude shes talking to, play the homo friend and hit on the same dude, or something. but doing nothing is the worst thing u can do.

That's one of the best ideas I've ever heard.

 

[Pabster]

Dude, turn in your man card at the front desk.

 

[bennylong]

You're even a bigger loser than I am and that's "unpossible!" At least I know not to be "friends" with female.

 

[T9D]

She sounds like a using whore. You dont treat friends like that. She just doesn't want to be alone and uncomfortable and is using you until she finds someone else to hang out with.

What you need to do is go next time. You drive. When she does that again for more than 10 minutes just leave her there and let her find her own way home. Dont even say anything just be gone when she looks for you.

 

[Cobalt]

Your problem is you just take it, stand up for yourself. Make them respect you, show you won't take their ******.

 

[RichUK]

Girls like confidence.

 

[doze]

Quit being a puss and just tell her you want her.

 

[RichUK]

Tell her to sit on your lap and talk about the first thing that pops up

 

[touchmyichi]

you weren't a loser until you decided to post this online :/

 

[Muadib]

Originally posted by: touchmyichi
you weren't a loser until you decided to post this online :/

Yes he was, he just didn't have the confirmation that he has now.

 

[Nab]

:camera:'s (not of you)

 

[ones3k]

Originally posted by: Accipiter22
so I'm just friends with this girl I know....and everytime we hang out...we talk for like an hour or so in a bar, and then she always wanders off and finds other guys to talk to and just ignores me for the next 2 hours. Tonight she said it was her turn to buy a round, so she gets up from our table to go to the bar.....45 minutes later I see her with some other guy with his arm around her...lol seriously, this is life? I know any man is supposed to be self sufficient and able to make his own hapiness, but come on.....the tragedy is that I keep trying, I keep holding hope and things like this keep happening. What a waste of life I am

Same thing happens with me whenever i go to bars/clubs. I've come to the conclusion that bars/clubs are a total waste of time and money for me. I'm sick of trying to be nice to people and receiving negative reactions in return.

 

[Orsorum]

Originally posted by: ones3k

Originally posted by: Accipiter22
so I'm just friends with this girl I know....and everytime we hang out...we talk for like an hour or so in a bar, and then she always wanders off and finds other guys to talk to and just ignores me for the next 2 hours. Tonight she said it was her turn to buy a round, so she gets up from our table to go to the bar.....45 minutes later I see her with some other guy with his arm around her...lol seriously, this is life? I know any man is supposed to be self sufficient and able to make his own hapiness, but come on.....the tragedy is that I keep trying, I keep holding hope and things like this keep happening. What a waste of life I am

Same thing happens with me whenever i go to bars/clubs. I've come to the conclusion that bars/clubs are a total waste of time and money for me. I'm sick of trying to be nice to people and receiving negative reactions in return.

Find some other activity you enjoy and do it, then. Do something that you enjoy that puts you in contact with other single young women.

 

[Viperoni]

Originally posted by: zephyrprime
You know, if she were a guy, this wouldn't even be a problem. You'd expect a guy friend you were at a bar with to try to pick up chicks.

The problem is, you're not really being her friend. You actually want something more. That's ok but the thing is, she's basically already rejected you. By feebly hanging on, you're just hurting yourself. Like a previous poster has said, why aren't you picking up chicks? Why do you keep on hanging out with a friend that sucks?

Now, she also doesn't sound like the best of friends since she does sound like she neglects you more than is acceptable. I guess she's using you as a wingman because she doesn't want to go to a bar by herself. A wingman relationship needs to be recipricol at some point like all healthy relationships and it doesn't sound like it is. Sounds like she is using you.

This, ladies, gentlemen and boys, is pretty much the situation at hand.
And incidentally, he's being used both a cockblock and a wingman.

 

[ones3k]

Originally posted by: Orsorum

Originally posted by: ones3k

Originally posted by: Accipiter22
so I'm just friends with this girl I know....and everytime we hang out...we talk for like an hour or so in a bar, and then she always wanders off and finds other guys to talk to and just ignores me for the next 2 hours. Tonight she said it was her turn to buy a round, so she gets up from our table to go to the bar.....45 minutes later I see her with some other guy with his arm around her...lol seriously, this is life? I know any man is supposed to be self sufficient and able to make his own hapiness, but come on.....the tragedy is that I keep trying, I keep holding hope and things like this keep happening. What a waste of life I am

Same thing happens with me whenever i go to bars/clubs. I've come to the conclusion that bars/clubs are a total waste of time and money for me. I'm sick of trying to be nice to people and receiving negative reactions in return.

Find some other activity you enjoy and do it, then. Do something that you enjoy that puts you in contact with other single young women.

Easier said than done, and also much easier if you're good looking.

 

[Orsorum]

Originally posted by: ones3k

Originally posted by: Orsorum

Originally posted by: ones3k

Originally posted by: Accipiter22
so I'm just friends with this girl I know....and everytime we hang out...we talk for like an hour or so in a bar, and then she always wanders off and finds other guys to talk to and just ignores me for the next 2 hours. Tonight she said it was her turn to buy a round, so she gets up from our table to go to the bar.....45 minutes later I see her with some other guy with his arm around her...lol seriously, this is life? I know any man is supposed to be self sufficient and able to make his own hapiness, but come on.....the tragedy is that I keep trying, I keep holding hope and things like this keep happening. What a waste of life I am

Same thing happens with me whenever i go to bars/clubs. I've come to the conclusion that bars/clubs are a total waste of time and money for me. I'm sick of trying to be nice to people and receiving negative reactions in return.

Find some other activity you enjoy and do it, then. Do something that you enjoy that puts you in contact with other single young women.

Easier said than done, and also much easier if you're good looking.

It is definitely easier said than done; additionally, I'm not good looking.

No one ever said dating or whatever would be easy. That's why I'm single.

 

[Art Vandelay]

Simple solution: stop hanging out with the wrong people.

 

[Accipiter22]

Originally posted by: arcas

Originally posted by: drerickarim
i dont really know how to help you. i have very little experience in rejection.

u could try something radical. like kick the dude shes talking to, play the homo friend and hit on the same dude, or something. but doing nothing is the worst thing u can do.

That's one of the best ideas I've ever heard.

homo friend eh.....I can pretend to do that....

 

[Accipiter22]

Originally posted by: Viperoni

Originally posted by: zephyrprime
You know, if she were a guy, this wouldn't even be a problem. You'd expect a guy friend you were at a bar with to try to pick up chicks.

The problem is, you're not really being her friend. You actually want something more. That's ok but the thing is, she's basically already rejected you. By feebly hanging on, you're just hurting yourself. Like a previous poster has said, why aren't you picking up chicks? Why do you keep on hanging out with a friend that sucks?

Now, she also doesn't sound like the best of friends since she does sound like she neglects you more than is acceptable. I guess she's using you as a wingman because she doesn't want to go to a bar by herself. A wingman relationship needs to be recipricol at some point like all healthy relationships and it doesn't sound like it is. Sounds like she is using you.

This, ladies, gentlemen and boys, is pretty much the situation at hand.
And incidentally, he's being used both a cockblock and a wingman.

yah.....it's more the fact that she syas 'oh i'll be right back' and then dissapears for an hour. Even if I was with a guy friend, if they said they were buying next round, and then dissapeared, I'd be pissed.


And yes, I do find her very attractive, but also like her personality even more. I wouldn't MIND if something happened between her and I, but I'm not going to force it.

 

[dr150]

Originally posted by: Accipiter22
so I'm just friends with this girl I know....and everytime we hang out...we talk for like an hour or so in a bar, and then she always wanders off and finds other guys to talk to and just ignores me for the next 2 hours. Tonight she said it was her turn to buy a round, so she gets up from our table to go to the bar.....45 minutes later I see her with some other guy with his arm around her...lol seriously, this is life? I know any man is supposed to be self sufficient and able to make his own hapiness, but come on.....the tragedy is that I keep trying, I keep holding hope and things like this keep happening. What a waste of life I am

Hookers FTW.

They won't leave you alone...provided you have some change.

 

[zephyrprime]

Originally posted by: Accipiter22

Originally posted by: Viperoni

Originally posted by: zephyrprime
You know, if she were a guy, this wouldn't even be a problem. You'd expect a guy friend you were at a bar with to try to pick up chicks.

The problem is, you're not really being her friend. You actually want something more. That's ok but the thing is, she's basically already rejected you. By feebly hanging on, you're just hurting yourself. Like a previous poster has said, why aren't you picking up chicks? Why do you keep on hanging out with a friend that sucks?

Now, she also doesn't sound like the best of friends since she does sound like she neglects you more than is acceptable. I guess she's using you as a wingman because she doesn't want to go to a bar by herself. A wingman relationship needs to be recipricol at some point like all healthy relationships and it doesn't sound like it is. Sounds like she is using you.

This, ladies, gentlemen and boys, is pretty much the situation at hand.
And incidentally, he's being used both a cockblock and a wingman.

yah.....it's more the fact that she syas 'oh i'll be right back' and then dissapears for an hour. Even if I was with a guy friend, if they said they were buying next round, and then dissapeared, I'd be pissed.


And yes, I do find her very attractive, but also like her personality even more. I wouldn't MIND if something happened between her and I, but I'm not going to force it.

You love her. Just admit it.

The worse part is, she has no doubt been getting a lot of action this entire bar-going time while our boy Accipiter22 has been getting none.

Doesn't that piss you off Accipiter22? Come on! Ditch her!

 

[CarlKillerMiller]

I think someone nailed it earlier. She uses you as a defense from lame guys. If one approaches, she tells him she's with you. That was, he leaves, you feel (falsely) better and more secure, and she's free to look for a guy she actually wants.


That b!tch is playing games with you. Drop her.

 

[Eeezee]

Remove her from your myspace friends list and leave her a comment on livejournal about how mean she is to you.

And then slit your wrists.